[Shaerah]

First time poster but long time reader..

About me: Eastern European living in UK, 29 years old

Situation: Have long time girlfriend (3 years) - Latin american, 23 years old, raised in Italy butt in Latin family. Extremely family oriented. Been with her for 3 years (met her as my customer) and we live together. She never has cheated on my is a paranoiac quite a bit but has bailed my ass out trouble multiple times. Also her parents have helped me multiple times and still offer their support while I'm trying to get my life together after my gambling addiction.

As soon as she left visit her family.. I accidentally met pretty hot latina and had sex with her. Meanwhile I suggested my gf about breaking up. Today she found out by login in my fb about me and that latina. And thinks she is reason why I'm breaking up with her but despite that is ready to forgive me even if I haven't asked for that

I'm pretty sure that I want my freedom and this is not first time when I have cheated on her but on other side I'm massively in debt.

Dilemma: What I think smartest would be to stick with my gf at least till I get my life back but on other side she is definitely a keeper and I don't think she should be treated how I do. She is definitely wife's material and deserves better

What would you gentlemen do?

[wi30]

You blew it with this one. Cut your losses and move on.

You don't need a girl to help you get out of debt. You're almost thirty. Figure it out on your own.

[Rhyme or Reason]

The whole "this girl will help me get my life together" shtick is bullshit. Been there. Move on.

[General Stalin]

Do whatever you want.

If you like her a lot and want to stay with her long term and she is going to forgive you for fucking around on her, then stay with her.

If you would rather chase new pussy and see what else is out there without having the responsibility of being in any sort of committed relationship then leave her.

This is not a decision someone else can make for you. You know your options. Weigh them out and decide where you want to be in the future.

[TornadoByProxy]

If, as you say, her butt is in the "Latin family", I would recommend keeping her.

(Just kidding. Break up. She's too good for you.)

[britabroad]

im a professional gambler that would benefit from using the accounts of an addict. pm me if youre interested in some sort of mutually beneficial relationship.

as for the girl, i dont really believe in cheating and it working out

[XPQ22]

(09-21-2016 12:20 PM)britabroad Wrote:  

im a professional gambler that would benefit from using the accounts of an addict. pm me if youre interested in some sort of mutually beneficial relationship.

[Shaerah]

UPDATE: we broke up. She screw my chances with that girl. Even my landlord busted my balls and made her as lead tenant in flat.

Time to grow up

[pialox]

PS. Get your shit together.

You are almost 30 for fuck sake.

[Merenguero]

(09-21-2016 11:21 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(09-21-2016 12:20 PM)britabroad Wrote:  

im a professional gambler that would benefit from using the accounts of an addict. pm me if youre interested in some sort of mutually beneficial relationship.

O.P., I don't mean to kick a guy when he's down, but if you had read my posts in tbe boxing thread, and stayed the hell away from all other sports and all other types of betting, you would have made a ton of money. Why is that? Because football teams lose. MMA fighters lose. Hands in card games lose. Slot machines lose. Mayweather, Golovkin, Calzaghe, Marciano never lost. You can't beat a 100% success rate.