[smashley]

Okay players,

Wondering how you prioritize your girls.

I am having this problem now. I have more numbers then time.

I daygame a lot so I accumulate a lot of numbers fairly quickly. I have limited time off of work. As i get the numbers I try to prime them for my days off, but when I get the day off it is stressful to coordinate which ones I want to ask to hangout. Majority of these numbers are unproven at this point. Less then 2 dates, but most not even 1 date.

So the dilemma begins with who should i contact on Monday? Should I go with the girls that are showing me the most prominent signs I will get laid? Hitting me with text messages randomly, or calling me. Or should I go with the girls that are the hottest to me? (Though I have not asked out yet or have been proven not to be flakes). I know that ideally this can be the same category, but more often then not it is mutually exclusive.

And please don't say hit up all of them. Cause at 20 girls or more, if 5 or more accept you are screwed logistically.

So do you prioritize by their interest in you? Or by your interest in them? Do you give your slightly vetted girls priority, or do you go with the hottest possibly new ones with chances of flaking? Remember limited time here.

Comparing notes here.

[wi30]

Treat it like a part time sales job. Because it is.

I recently got serious about online game. I was in a relationship for a while and had never really utilized it. Now I am getting a bunch of numbers from Tinder, OKC, Bumble, etc.

I'm sure you're familiar with text game. You have to follow up with all numbers to see which ones bite.

Send a generic mass text to all 20. Depending on how solid the phone numbers are, I'd bet 5-10 at best will respond. Be witty, build rapport, have fun with it, and schedule dates with all of them. At least half will flake.

Here's my breakdown if I were sitting on 20 phone numbers. I don't track anything, so everthing that follows is an estimate based on my experiences.

At best, 10-15 would respond to a text (I don't get numbers in person or online unless there's a good amount of interest; I get fewer numbers but have higher close rates). Of those, about half would fizzle out at some point before setting a date. I might set a date with 5-7 of them. At least two would flake. I would meet those 3-5 girls at a bar close by or somewhere with a short walk/ride to my apartment. One or two would be a same night lay. If I don't have sex with them on the first date, there's probably a 50/50 chance I bang them on the second date. Otherwise they fizzle out.

[smashley]

Yeh. Thanks for the input.

I'm a pretty good logistics guy, but unfortunately your method is easier said then done.

ie. 20 texts. 10 to 15 respond. No problem. You chit chat with all. You ask out all of them. Half accept and wonder what time the date will be. An average hangout takes 1-2 hours. You have to give times for those dates. So even if they were perfectly spaced that would be 2 hours x 7 girls would be be 14 hours you have to dedicate. And thats if they all live in the same area. And most girls aren't gonna accept that 6:30 am date.

Which is why i'm asking the question. You have to prioritize! And save others for other days.

Trust me i'm all for double and triple booking, but because you don't know which ones will flake, you have to prioritize and give some buffer time so you can multi-date. Ive done up to 4 dates with 4 different girls in one day. It took a lot of planning and was a pain in the ass but was fun. I don't think it is this easy on the reg.

[wi30]

I don't know what field you are in, but it's easiest if you work a standard 9-5. I'm in sales and work inconsistent hours, so I usually keep a good text game going with all the numbers I have, then hit up a few warmer ones when I have a free afternoon or evening.

I'm sure I miss out on bangs by being busy with work and other shit. I don't really care though. The trick is to keep the pipeline filled so you always have numbers to convert into dates.

I prioritize by responding to the hottest and most receptive ones. Obviously you cant waste 25 hours a week going on dates unless you're in college.

Double or triple book and pick the hottest one. It's easy to "get called into work at the last minute" and reschedule the other ones for another day. I actually get called into work a lot so I'm usually not bullshitting when I flake on girls.

[smashley]

Thanks. I work shift work like 2 days straight on then 2 days off. But i also have other commitments usually at night (my steady girl). So I have mostly week days free. I hit up younger college aged girls because they are less likely to have job commitments. So I usually have tight windows on free time.

So far I do exactly as you say and flake myself if I get a double book where both come through. It works, but sometimes i'm wondering if I should go with the less hot for sure girl, rather then go after the hottest due to the likelihood of flaking. When you have limited time it gets even more frustrating because my time gets valuable.

I have no problem with the numbers coming in and constant flow. Just trying to maximize my productivity. I guess i'm playing it right, just wanted some other thoughts...

Thanks

[General Stalin]

I go with the "yes" girls who are warmer and seem more down to get together and likely put out. It also works out better as if you put the lower probability girls at the back of the pack it makes you look less eager to see them.

[RatInTheWoods]

You have the right idea with "pipe theory" - that is the process is like a pipeline where you feed inputs in and hopefully get them through the pipeline to the output (in your case giving them the pipe :-)

But you have an unbalanced pipe - you are putting too much effort on the "input stage", getting loads to enter the pipe and not enough effort on getting them through to the end.

So chat up less new prospects and spend effort screening, analysing and working on the prospects through the stages.

[smashley]

I see what you're saying, but I'm assuming you're meaning screening on initial approach? Also don't know specifically what tactics you're using to analyze and work the prospects but I'm interested to hear.

I am currently analyzing their actions (text response times, verbage, text length etc.) but ultimately with girls it's either they accept first date or not.

Screening on initial approach is tough because it's your first interaction. Girls are not genuine on initial approach they are good actresses.

[smashley]

I'm gonna currently experiment with a quadruple book technique for the hottest girls, and double book for the higher interest girls.

So booking schedule would be:

10:00 am Sarah and Jackie (reliable girls)

And noon: Persia, Tawnya, Nayeli, and makaela (smoking hot girls)

I figure with the flake rates proportional to hotness I should get 1 acceptance with each.

Let you know how it goes.

Ps I will also be calling all rather than texting.

[goodington]

What do you plan for a 10am date? I have a similar problem with double/triple booking and find that girls aren't usually DTF until at least early afternoon.

I also ran into trouble double booking dates at the exact same time, because I would flake on one girl and then be screwed when the other girl flaked on me five minutes later. Staggered times work a lot better.

For awhile I tried targeting bisexual girls exclusively and setting up group dates, but found too many new girls flaked. Probably because there's no plausible deniability of sex when they agreed to meet me and another girl...

[XXL]

I prioritize by which one I like the most. Obviously.

[smashley]

10 am if I picked the girl up on campus and we roll from there after her class.

I usually do day dates only for new girls, as my nights are reserved for the top proven girls.

Once theyre vetted I do nights. I've found this works best for my limited time schedule.

[smashley]

Shit so today I decided to hit up the numbers as i only have three days this week free. Well i already have 2 double bookings and possibly more to come. Didn't expect solid responses from them but we'll find out tomorrow if they flake. My gut with all my experience shows they won't as I spoke on phone with both and theyre tone and wording seemed very good. Well i guess i'll go with the hottest and flake on the other and try to reschedule if they come through. I have the spaced properly in case of flake, just not enough time to get in both. Time to prioritize i guess. It's hard because one is super petite and very cute, and the other is smokin body with just decent face.

[goodington]

Ideally you would schedule the girl with the most potential first, with the next girl at least 2 hours afterward. Escalate hard on the first girl and flake on the second if all goes well, if not don't hesitate to cut your losses and say you got "called into work" or something similar.