Quote: (08-24-2008 10:05 PM)Roosh Wrote:
I'm going to give the contrarian view.
Engaged girls don't hang out with single men, taking off work to do so. Without knowing any information about this situation it's a 90% certainty she wants to bang you.
Take her to Kalorama Park in dc. First stop by a grocery store nearby and get hummus, crackers, bottle of wine, plastic cups. After the wine is finished, get closer and go for it.
If it all goes to shit at work i'm not responsible.
Well, here's a more detailed explanation on the situation at hand. I've known her for almost a year but didn't really talk to her until Jan/Feb of this year after reading Roosh's book and his advice to tease girls. (Thanks Roosh, see what you got me into
) Surprisingly, we sort of got comfortable with each other at work. However, when she got engaged in June, she didn't say anything to me and it wasn't until I saw the ring on her finger. When I had asked about it, she was very vague about it. She changed the subject, etc. which I thought was strange because usually when a girl gets engaged, they can't shutup about it. Even now, if I ask her what she did over the weekend or what she has planned for the evening, she rarely if ever mentions the word fiancee/bf even though she is engaged to him.
Even though she got engaged recently, I still kept up my teasing and playfully made a bet with her regarding her adding me on facebook. Well she lost and ended owing me 9 lunches, 6 of which are still owed. That's where I gave the suggestion to take a half day off to do something for the last lunch instead of her taking me out to just lunch. Another tip from Roosh's book/blog that worked: Being Bold. :-) I figured I would ask since I didn't have anything to lose and shockingly, she did not give any resistance to the idea and said she would make up the time/or use her accrued paid time off.
Other weird things include her one time at lunch muttering under her breath that spending time with me makes her happy (which at the very least has to throw a red flag since she is engaged to another dude) and the fact that when her train came to the platform one time, she decided to skip it and ride the train I take to go home and eventually got off at a transfer point to get back on the line that takes her home.
Unfortunately, just like Speakeasy, I over analyze things as you can see from this post. To me, I think she does have an interest in me even though she is engaged and has moved in with her fiancee. However, since she is introverted/shy/quiet, I came here to get some advice to make her take the risk with me.