[DirtyWork]

Does anyone else have this issue since getting into the game? You get better and start banging a good amount of physically attractive girls, yet you want nothing to do with them after you sleep with them.

It seems like I'm sleeping with the same amount of cool chicks a year that I was before and am simply making up the difference with boring, dumb, or just shitty girls that look good. Not everyone is going to be a winner, but if I'm getting with more and hotter girls I should in theory be able to find and attract a higher percentage of cool girls as well.

It's not a terrible problem but it's tough to find a good fuck buddy. Someone that's cool and you don't mind chilling with. I'm not one of those guys that thinks game only works on low class girls, as it's worked for me and many others with high class ones. With that said there is definitely a preference given to those that appear easy with predictable results.

I guess my question(s) is/are

How to you screen for better girls?

What types of bars, venues, events? (South Jersey and Philly examples are even better)

How do you spot higher quality girls at low end spots? (They are there, every girl I've known does slum it up now and again)

[Moma]

Are you looking for a wife/LTR or sex?

If it's sex, then what do you care how boring she is? Unless you have to sustain a long time before you are able to bang her.

Bang her and kick her out. If you want a wifey, then going to clubs/bars may not be the best venue...

[DirtyWork]

Not a LTR and god forbid anything past that. Just a solid fuckbuddy that's cool. Also yeah it's like going through a grind with some girls on a date. Just a way to screen for girls that don't make me want to shoot myself when they talk.

[oldnemesis]

(08-03-2011 03:50 PM)DirtyWork Wrote:  

Does anyone else have this issue since getting into the game? You get better and start banging a good amount of physically attractive girls, yet you want nothing to do with them after you sleep with them.

Unless you're looking for relationship I don't see this as an issue at all.

[OlympusSquared]

(08-04-2011 09:26 AM)DirtyWork Wrote:  

Not a LTR and god forbid anything past that. Just a solid fuckbuddy that's cool. Also yeah it's like going through a grind with some girls on a date. Just a way to screen for girls that don't make me want to shoot myself when they talk.

I'm not attracted to dumb fgirls, never have been, never will be. And the older I get the harder it is for me to get on their level to game them. I go for girls I have good converstions with and enjoy being around.

That said: day game. Coffee shops, volunteering, organizations that attract smart people. There will be many feminist types in this crowd, but don't capitulate, my experience is even those types deep down are attracted to MEN, so if your a smart alpha type you should do well.

Just my experience.

[MacNcheez]

Define "Quality".

[Sh0t]

I would say it's a matter of mechanics.

You expanded your game, to better get the floozies, but didn't really do much to get the kind of girls you might want. You might have to step back and retool everything, from venues, how you approach, what kind of girls you approach, etc.

Game is very niche specific for the most part.

Another problem is that "high quality fuck buddy" is almost a contradiction in terms.