[The Fantasist]

Some background:

I went to the tax office in London the other day to get some documents. This pretty young thing,18 year old, was in the queue in front of me so I opened her and we bantered back and forth. We ended up heading to different offices but when I came out of the building she was on the street talking on the phone. I tapped her on the shoulder and told her I was taking her for a drink. Had some drinks and a make out.

I went up to London yesterday to get a Russian visa so I called her and we met up in Brown's in Islington. So we drank cocktails until 11pm and then headed to hers. She told me that she was a virgin and had never had a BF and wanted me to take her virginity that night. I was unsure to believe her or not but of course when I put my finger in her it didn't feel like any pussy I had felt before. It was tight as fuck for a start. So I tried banging her but just could not get it in her. I tried but I physically could not squeeze it in and it's not like I'm the best hung guy in the world either.

So first question; Is there a way to break Virgins in gently. I don't want to just plough her but feel that might be the only way regardless off her pain. She insisted on a condom which might of made me a tad softer then usual so might have had an effect. What is the best position to do it. Anyway share your experiences.

Secondly a more moral one; I have no desire to see her again once I have banged a few times. Do girls get overly clingy with the guy who takes their virginity? I'm thinking that if I have no LTR interest then maybe it was for the best that I did not bang and I should cease contact. She seems a pretty naive type and I'm not looking to be an ass hole to her. It's no sweat for me to walk.

I only got in the door from this 30 minutes back so my head is a bit mashed up what with a slight hangover and no sleep. So I'd welcome opinions of anyone who has de-flowered a virgin.

[artur jedi]

As for the entry, first and foremost make her wet (fingering and going down on her won't hurt). Make her outer lips wet from the inner pussy juice.
If it doesn't help enough, use some lubricant.
My fav position would be missionary, because you get the most physical contact, and she will be more relaxed, making it easier to enter. Plus, it's one of the most natural ways of having sex. But for everyone his own in case of position.

As for clinginess, it would depend on her background and expectations. You should be able to figure out most of the times when gaming her.

[Screwston]

First of all, congratulations. I would be a little romantic and just make her feel comfortable because she will always remember you. Do foreplay and lick that fresh pussy like a dyke out of jail.

Put the condom on and do whatever gets you rock hard. I like to kiss the girl while we're standing up/hugging and grabbing all over her ass. Took me years to figure out that's the trick when I gotta wear a rubber. Put a whole lot of lube on the rubber and tell her to jack you off with it. Honestly, you're gonna have to put her through some pain. There's no way to make it not hurt unless you have a baby dick. Just stick it in slow but tell her she needs to let you go in all the way when she starts moving around and pushing you back. Kiss her when you're popping her and see if she can take you going faster and deeper. Missionary is the best.

Ask her for money every day after you get tired of her...

[Ovid]

Use lots and lots of lube. I was with a very wet virgin and it still wasn't wet enough. The more relaxed and horny she is, the more her pussy will loosen up, which will make it less painful for her since most of the pain will be from a penis-sized object opening her up, not so much from the hymen tearing (if she even has one.)

Most of them seem to get clingy, judging by my and friends' experience. You may get lucky though because she's 18 and asked you to take it on the 2nd date, so it's possible she just likes you and wants to get it out of the way now. She knows you travel and don't live in her vicinity.

[Walderschmidt]

I wish I had this thread a year ago.

[Hotwheels]

It's been a long time since I had a virgin but I recall working two fingers in her than actually trying to stretch her out a bit that way. Shredded two condoms trying to get in her. Ended up getting it in raw after about 45 minutes of working at it.

Ah the memories.... That was some tight shit. After finally getting in her I just laid on top of her for a couple minutes savoring the death grip on my dick.

[Sailor]

I would suggest missionary with raised legs



And lambskin condom http://www.amazon.com/Naturalamb-Natural...B000052XKL

[storm]

Good advice here. Let us know what you did and how it worked for you.

[Timoteo]

Don't worry about causing her pain. SHE knows it's going to hurt, but she wants you to be the person she endures it for. You'll always be somewhat special because you were her first, but I wouldn't assume that she's going to be a cling-on afterwards. And if she is, keep fucking her for a while. I think she's too young to want you to be her all-and-all.

[Jules D. McMillan]

Foreplay is essential when deflowering a virgin. Make out with her for a few minutes, get her naked, suck on her tits and nipples. Make your way down and kiss her inner thighs. If you want you can lick her inner thighs as well- this will get her very horny! This is probably one of the only times I would go out of my way to advise a guy to do this, but proceed to lick her pussy. You must do whatever it takes to get her wet and into it.

Now that foreplay's over with, you can proceed to fuck her. Put her in the missionary position because this will make it easier to enter her. Her pussy's going to be VERY tight, so it's going to be a bit of a struggle to get in there and you're probably gonna have to use lube.

When you've entered her, she's gonna feel some pain, it's unavoidable. So when you first put your dick in, hold still for a minute and kiss her, then penetrate her slowly. By holding still you're allowing her to get used to your dick, which is good. When penetrating her, you can slowly pick up the pace from time to time(emphasis on slowly), but never penetrate hard and fast. Remember she's feeling both pain & pleasure. Make sure you're continuously stimulating her when you're penetrating her, so it wouldn't hurt to suck on her neck or feel her breasts during penetration.

Do this is and you should be fine. At least this has worked for me when I deflowered two virgins earlier this year. As for the chick getting clingy, it has not been my experience that a chick will get particularly clingy if you make sure that your interaction with her is about sex and not a relationship.

[tenderman100]

When I was a junior in college, this high school friend of one of the freshman girls in our circle came to spend the weekend. She came for one reason only -- to lose her virginity.

The way I did it was 1 finger, then two fingers, then three...turning them over until she got used to it. It popped, and she squealed a little bit, and there was bit of blood. Then SHE grabbed me and slid me in slowly. It wasn't the greatest sex.

Next morning she woke up, on a Sunday, played with me, and then we really fucked. She left, and I never saw her again.

[The Fantasist]

Thanks for the feedback guys.

The thing is we were making out and I was down on her for a long time and she was very wet. I had some Vaseline to hand so lubed her up with that too but I just could not get in her. However I only tried missionary but think if I go again I might try doggie and say that I don't want to rubber up just for the first stroke so I can get in nicely lubed up and break her in gently.

I always wanted to take a young girl's virginity but realised when I tried that it wasn't pleasurable to be honest. Even inserting a second finger was painful for her and she struggled to take it. Putting my dick in was just impossible.

Next week I will pop 50mg of Viagra,lube up and just go in hard and force my way in. Poor girl is going to be in pain.

[Aliblahba]

Virgins are far more useful on a sacrificial alter. I slaughter mine in the name of the great Beelzobama.

[Enigma]

(03-07-2013 06:48 AM)houston Wrote:  

Ask her for money every day after you get tired of her...

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[Rawmeo]

In the West, people - girls included - do not understand the importance of virginity. Girls just give it away when they feel like it, which makes it quasi-impossible to get a virgin LTR. Anyway since she barely met you and asked you to do it - you should go ahead, because if you don't, she will do it with another random dude. She clearly doesn't value her hymen like she should, so go for it - you or another dude, better get that notch.

Now for the how-to: I can speak about how I did it with my wife. First, the girl needs to be clearly ready. Assuming she is - foreplay is extremely important. Lick there for several minutes, as much as you need to - be patient, it's her first time. Then when you see the opportunity, slip the rubber / lube on (no need to worry about STD here), lick again, and once you see it's ready, do one quick thrust. That greatly reduces the pain and will make her experience more pleasurable. Better go slow, and be prepared to cum quick - she won't get an orgasm her first time.

Like I told my wife before, "the difference between me fucking you and putting a ring on your finger is your hymen - so teach our daughter this way"

[eradicator]

Dude, this thread is from 3 years ago, it is safe to say this 18 year old (at the time) who was itching to lose her cherry lost it long ago.

[Rawmeo]

Damn didn't realize that. I got fooled by the "edit" that was an epic necroposting.