Quote: (09-02-2016 05:38 AM)Gas Wrote:
Shit that is horrible. Hope everything works out okay. Also I don't mean to belittle the seriousness of it, but keep in the back of your mind she could just be fucking with you. Some (many) girls are evil like that. I had a girlfriend that constantly would tell me she forgot to take her pills and thinks she's pregnant and telling me all these pregnancy symptoms, it'd stress the shit out of me. I later found out she was just lying and was doing it because I'd pissed her off that month. Maybe if you did something to irritate her she just said she had HIV to "get back at you" for being a dick or something. Imagine her laughing with her friends right now "I told him I had HIV - I bet he's going crazy right now!" Unless of course you saw her meds in her bathroom or something, then you can be sure it's legit. If she is Australian though, they are pretty heavy on welfare down there and she will definitely be getting treatment - which means your chances of contracting it are miniscule. I've heard some people on ARV treatment can actually start to test negative for the virus, as it reduces the presence of it to such a tiny level. Also reduces the chance someone can contract it from them by a large factor, not sure exactly how much but I remember it is significant. So keep that in mind to help you sleep easier until your test results.
One of the first things I thought to myself is " was she messing with me". I thought long and hard before posting on the forums about this.
But she had no reason to, she enjoyed her time with me, I remained the firm authority and she even cooked me food despite being one of those alternative hippie leftist sex freak types who you would not expect are capable of being feminine.
She was very sincere when we met up and told me about HIV.
Quote: (09-02-2016 09:29 AM)seniol Wrote:
How was the discussion... how did she act before... and how she told you that she is a walking deadly disease-spreading-all-around?
She told me 4-5 days after we had sex, she did not reply from the time we had sex to the time of her revealing truth.When we met, she got all apologetic and told me that she had HIV and was sorry for not telling her and was half crying and shit....standard female drama I tend to be suspect off.
After which I kept probing, asking random questions like " is everything okay?", " did someone set you up to this?" . I was sweating bullets . I did not know what to ask.
I thought this was some stupid joke, like she was trying to play games due to feeling like a slut or a massive shit test, mainly because I could not believe I slept with someone with HIV.
So I got pissed off and she said sorry many time and I grabbed both her hands and told her " last fucking chance, I don't have time for games, do you seriously have HIV" she said she was serious. Looking back I should have controlled my reaction a bit more, but this was truly a first for me and did not know how to handle something like this.
I have broken off contact ever since and she had not texted at all.