I have no idea how to approach game in the DFW area. A lot of the women on these profiles are downright aggressive and/ or want deep commitments. I understand why: probably a lot of men poisoning the water over the years. But it's very offstandish. I find it particularly funny that it comes from girls who look like they shouldn't be too picky, too. They seem the most adamant about this in their profiles.
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I'd start by checking out some of the posts in the OKC and Tinder threads, and the online dating guides from Tuthmosis and Remington, etc.
To start with, you can narrow down your potentials simply by doing a bit of pre-screening. Any girl who isn't smiling in her main photo, or has a hostile, aggressive profile ("DONT message me if..." etc.), or seems ambivalent about online dating, or that she's "trying this thing again" etc. is automatically out. You can next about 50% of the girls you see on OKC right off the bat if you look for the obvious red flags.
If they say they're looking for commitment blah blah but their profile isn't otherwise hostile, don't worry about it. It's just boilerplate stuff, game as usual
You then just have to send opening messages and screen for the girls who seem most interested, get a conversation started and pitch the meet within about 10 back and forths. You'll likely get ghosted on many times when you pitch, even if the conversation was going well. Don't spend a moment thinking about why or what you couldve done differently, the answer is probably nothing...they were never serious.
Conversations that drag out over days almost never lead to a date. Pretty much all my lays have been for conversations that went from opening message to number close in no more than a couple hours in the afternoon or evening.
Keep in mind that even for an "above average" guy with game, it takes quite a bit of work to pull a lay out of online game, particularly in the US. At this point the overall difficulty has increased to the point that if I can get just a couple dates a month I'm doing really well, but that requires putting in a half hour to an hour of work on the sites a day, every day. So unless you're really strikingly attractive or have "fame game" on your side (or just get lucky), it's going to be a grind...there's not much way around this. I don't keep exact statistics, but I believe I started using OKC seriously in early June of last year, and it took me until almost September to get my first lay. I'd estimate it took over 150 messages and three or four bangless dates to find a girl I clicked with.
To start with, you can narrow down your potentials simply by doing a bit of pre-screening. Any girl who isn't smiling in her main photo, or has a hostile, aggressive profile ("DONT message me if..." etc.), or seems ambivalent about online dating, or that she's "trying this thing again" etc. is automatically out. You can next about 50% of the girls you see on OKC right off the bat if you look for the obvious red flags.
If they say they're looking for commitment blah blah but their profile isn't otherwise hostile, don't worry about it. It's just boilerplate stuff, game as usual
You then just have to send opening messages and screen for the girls who seem most interested, get a conversation started and pitch the meet within about 10 back and forths. You'll likely get ghosted on many times when you pitch, even if the conversation was going well. Don't spend a moment thinking about why or what you couldve done differently, the answer is probably nothing...they were never serious.
Conversations that drag out over days almost never lead to a date. Pretty much all my lays have been for conversations that went from opening message to number close in no more than a couple hours in the afternoon or evening.
Keep in mind that even for an "above average" guy with game, it takes quite a bit of work to pull a lay out of online game, particularly in the US. At this point the overall difficulty has increased to the point that if I can get just a couple dates a month I'm doing really well, but that requires putting in a half hour to an hour of work on the sites a day, every day. So unless you're really strikingly attractive or have "fame game" on your side (or just get lucky), it's going to be a grind...there's not much way around this. I don't keep exact statistics, but I believe I started using OKC seriously in early June of last year, and it took me until almost September to get my first lay. I'd estimate it took over 150 messages and three or four bangless dates to find a girl I clicked with.
I hear sniper game is very effective there.
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