Quote: (07-13-2016 02:18 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:
Quote: (07-13-2016 01:20 PM)donn Wrote:
Have to be strong, I almost said let's get back together over the phone. She still wants to, but she didn't accept my ultimatum. If we get back together she will never take me serious anymore.
Well, if you believe that your ultimatum is reasonable, then you stick with it, but sometimes upon reflection, we may reconsider our ultimatums if they seem like they might not be unreasonable.
I have a difficult time considering that an ultimatum of "quit your current job" to be reasonable because it has a lot of ramifications that go much beyond the relationship with you.
She should've thought about it before she took it. She knew I'm against it and don't like the guy that works in the company.
There are many jobs and we've been together many years, doesn't it show what is more important for her? her decision made me reconsider our LTR