[SaintEll]

My game has always been safe. Always go for what's tried and tested and I know works. Weather that's approaching, openers, text game etc etc. I thought to myself "how can I think outside the box to change things up drastically?" I didn't want to try anything new in my night/day game just yet and I wanted to take a risk. I'd like to know if anyone else has done/thought of anything similar and their thoughts.

So I didn't just think outside the box, I leaped outside the box from with a jump that would break my legs but landed on both feet.

I was organising a BBQ/house party with a few friends for last weekend (Saturday) while texting a couple of leads; one from tinder (6) and one from a night game a few nights ago (8). I invited them both and it was agreed. Here was my plan and how it went down:

I told the 8 to catch a ride from someone else. They were passing her way anyway and I was out anyway meeting with the 6. I get a text saying they are all waiting out my house and I roll up 10 minutes later with the girl. The other girl looked confused and couldn't take her eyes off of us. We go in and everyone gets themselves a drink or crack open whatever they bought. Throughout the day I was gaming the 6 while I told my wingwomen to take care of the 8. If I had to go check on something or the 8 left to go somewhere else I wouldn't break eye contact. This lead to some shit-testing from 6 but I kept control, got physical and dismissed everything and carried on as per. As she leaves for the toilet the 8 comes up with a smile and says "you didn't pour me a drink."

"They're in the kitchen. Are you always like this?" I respond. My wingwoman talks to me when we get the chance saying the 8 just wants the attention as the girl I'm with. The tension is killing her and honestly I thought she would have left after about an hour or two. This wasn't the case but she does start texting me with "why are you with her?" "who is she?" "why have you never mentioned her?" Ignored every text for about an hour until I responded "Then leave. You decided to come."

To my amazement she still hangs around for drinking games and isn't hitting on any of my friends which I prepared myself for for the day. It did throw me off a little bit but it made this day a whole lot less challenging.

People start trickling out and the 6 is basically getting ready for everyone to leave for just us. I made it clear as people were leaving we're banging before she goes. In the bag. I see the 8 out personally and kissed closed and told her I'd text her. She calls me a "dickhead" with a smile and walked off. Me and 6 bang that night.

2 days after I text the 8 saying I'm free and almost immediately she texts back. We arrange for her to come over, we bang, experiment successful.

What I took away from this:
+Although this is my first time being fucking ridiculously risky and it worked out, don't be afraid to try something again and learn from any failings which will happen.
+Bouncing a hot girl with a not as hot girl can work a treat
- I probably already had these girls without the houseparty invite and was unnecessary. Having a day to think about it and realising how convoluted this was I need to think of something less so but
+I am more confident to take risks. I can adapt my game
+I will take more risks

What you should take away from this:
+Take risks
+No seriously even if it's not as stupid or even more stupid than this, take risks

tl;dr invited two girls to house party as a risk/expieriment, banged a 6 on that night, banged an 8 a couple of days after

[General Stalin]

With such a blow-out inducing scenario, I would agree that both bangs we likely already in the bag before the get together, but I commend you for playing the 6 against the 8. You slow-negged the 8 all night by showing more attention to a girl that is objectively less attractive which likely drove her up the wall. Really surprised she didn't try and hook up with one of your boys. At least to make you jealous if nothing else.

Really taking the game out for a rip here. Well done.

[SaintEll]

(07-06-2016 07:38 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

With such a blow-out inducing scenario, I would agree that both bangs we likely already in the bag before the get together, but I commend you for playing the 6 against the 8. You slow-negged the 8 all night by showing more attention to a girl that is objectively less attractive which likely drove her up the wall. Really surprised she didn't try and hook up with one of your boys. At least to make you jealous if nothing else.

Really taking the game out for a rip here. Well done.

I think this was the most bizarre thing to me too. She's naturally flirty and friendly and was expecting some sort of competition with her and get 1ups throughout the whole day. Why she didn't I honestly couldn't tell you and probably something I will never figure out.

[silviophonic]

Funny, I was going to do a data sheet on double booking girls but I felt my sample size was too small for it to be meaningful. Suffice to say, I've pulled it off a few times. It's risky but fun and the main takeaway is that it can build your perceived value sky-high, but you have to play it like a violin. I do this mostly with 'soft leads' aka mass texting girls I don't know that well (met via 10 minute day-or-nightgame interactions where attraction was built but not comfort) and telling them I will be at x location at y time. And I just see who shows up.

I'm sure there's always a chance of this blowing up in my face but I've had surprisingly good luck with it. One time, the girls just missed each other (revolving door style) so I made out with both of them that night. Another time, one girl was so staggered by my IDGAF attitude (even though, on the inside, I was sweating bullets trying to make the whole thing work), that I closed her on the next occasion. On a less successful foray, the 3 of us just sat there awkwardly friendzoning each other. Other times, you just drop the less attractive one and never hear from her again. So it's a bit of a crapshoot. But obviously can be done.

[SaintEll]

(07-07-2016 03:48 PM)silviophonic Wrote:  

I do this mostly with 'soft leads' aka mass texting girls I don't know that well (met via 10 minute day-or-nightgame interactions where attraction was built but not comfort) and telling them I will be at x location at y time. And I just see who shows up.

I haven't even thought of this. I might try this out over the weekend and see who turns up and what happens.