[DarkTriad]

From 4chan via imgur, the depths to which a good looking young American man had to go to lose his virginity -

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[Rhyme or Reason]

You set your own worth...if you set the bar low, that's where it will stay. This kid is attention whoring.

[armenia4ever]

Well, his quality of lays can only get better from here. Got to look at the bright side.

[JayJuanGee]

I tend to be a little bit picky at least in respect that I have to be able to get an erection to follow through with the lay. I've experienced a few lays when I was younger that I may not be able to carry out today in my late 40s because I may not be able to get an erection. On the other hand, I have also noticed that I am sometimes able to psych myself into a better and longer lasting erection by using my imagination... hahahaha.. funny that is, but it seems to work.

[the high]

I have no pity for this kid or those like him. Furthermore I don't buy this narrative of how all or nothing the American dating market has become. The real problem is guys lacking enough masculine presence and basic social skills to make things happen and too many guys pricing themselves out of the market (mostly cause of porn)

This guy could have easily got him some modest Asian fob to break the seal.

[JayJuanGee]

(07-04-2016 02:28 PM)the high Wrote:  

I have no pity for this kid or those like him. Furthermore I don't buy this narrative of how all or nothing the American dating market has become. The real problem is guys lacking enough masculine presence and basic social skills to make things happen and too many guys pricing themselves out of the market (mostly cause of porn)

This guy could have easily got him some modest Asian fob to break the seal.

I don't know.... there can be quite a bit of pressure to score, and when a guy is younger (I certainly experienced the pressure and the difficulties), he might be kind of lost in terms of strategies and in terms of trying to win over girls sufficiently and get her to do the dirty deed.

I can definitely relate to a guy who ends up settling for a lot less in order to merely be able to assert to have had the experience.

[Thomas the Rhymer]

Quote:

She was a nice girl and bought me a burrito

Does a burrito count as paying for sex?

These are indeed dark times when young men must prostitute themselves for a mere burrito.

[Delta]

(07-04-2016 02:35 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

I can definitely relate to a guy who ends up settling for a lot less in order to merely be able to assert to have had the experience.

Yeah I remember when I was a virgin messing around with girls I found gross just to gain the experience. I doubt this is uncommon. A guy who struggles early on is unlikely to jump straight from involuntary celibacy to banging cuties. Just like with everything, you have to work your way up.

[eatthishomie]

He clearly doesn't lift. Mufucka needs to pick some damn weights up and maybe he'll be attractive to someone who is under 200lbs.

Celibacy is honestly a better alternative to dumpster diving. It doesn't feel good on any level and this is coming from someone who has done it. It won't make you feel any better or more confident, in fact you'll feel worse that you had to go that low. You probably had to be seen in public with the person you're dumpster diving with which will make you feel even worse. This is not to even mention the potentially life-ending risks that come with having sex with a stranger (STDs, false rape accusations, gotcha pregnancies, and on and on). Do you really want to deal with those risks as the consequence of a dumpster dive?

Sometimes your hand/fleshlight is just the better option.

Speaking of FRAs, he really fucked up by putting her picture up there. She's probably going to accuse him of rape now in order to protect her reputation.

[KidA]

"Knife eared elven bitch boy twink fucks what looks like a monster from an old school yugioh card, with the excuse being 'hormones and desperation.'"

[AboveAverageJoe]

I don't believe this shit, not now not ever.

[JayJuanGee]

(07-04-2016 03:05 PM)Delta Wrote:  

(07-04-2016 02:35 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

I can definitely relate to a guy who ends up settling for a lot less in order to merely be able to assert to have had the experience.

Yeah I remember when I was a virgin messing around with girls I found gross just to gain the experience. I doubt this is uncommon. A guy who struggles early on is unlikely to jump straight from involuntary celibacy to banging cuties. Just like with everything, you have to work your way up.

In retrospect, the whole sets of experiences can be quite individualistic and weird, and guys consider the matters from different angles.

I recall in my teens, like 15 or so, getting some light action with chicks and then being obsessed with the experiences, and imagining ways that I could have potentially got the situations to have gone further and where I had made mistakes, etc., but then I would get into another situation and make very similar mistakes.

Then I recall that soon after I started working (and I was away from home)... maybe I was 18 or 19 years old, and one of my colleagues at work (who was about 22 or 23 years old) asked me, which girls I was into and which ones I wanted to "get with." I didn't really have an answer for him, and I was kind of thinking that he was a bit deranged in his one track pussy pursing mind because at that time in my life, I was feeling so new to the adult world that I did not really feel like I had much control over anything, including the pursuit of pussy.

I guess part of my point is that each of us likely goes through stages in which we are learning but sometimes we may be distracted by other things in life too, and at the same time, once we get some of these various experiences under our belts, we start to feel much more comfortable and confident regarding how to approach similar situations that come about later, after we have had the experiences that help to better frame our thinking.

[JayJuanGee]

(07-04-2016 03:12 PM)eatthishomie Wrote:  

He clearly doesn't lift. Mufucka needs to pick some damn weights up and maybe he'll be attractive to someone who is under 200lbs.

Celibacy is honestly a better alternative to dumpster diving. It doesn't feel good on any level and this is coming from someone who has done it. It won't make you feel any better or more confident, in fact you'll feel worse that you had to go that low. You probably had to be seen in public with the person you're dumpster diving with which will make you feel even worse. This is not to even mention the potentially life-ending risks that come with having sex with a stranger (STDs, false rape accusations, gotcha pregnancies, and on and on). Do you really want to deal with those risks as the consequence of a dumpster dive?

Sometimes your hand/fleshlight is just the better option.

Speaking of FRAs, he really fucked up by putting her picture up there. She's probably going to accuse him of rape now in order to protect her reputation.

Sure, each of us can chose for ourselves how we want to proceed, and you can choose to place these kinds of limits on yourself; however, to me it seems that framing the experience in such a negative way causes you to deny certain realities and needs of guys. Sometimes the circumstances may be better to have the banging experience or whatever other making out experiences than to have walked away from the situation.

Yeah, I saw the picture of the chick and she is definitely repulsive on a physical level, so it would be pretty difficult to get it up for her, and personally, I cannot recall ever going with a girl that has such ugly. Nonetheless, maybe it is just a coincidence that I have not had to resort to such ugly, but anyhow, guys should be able to chose for themselves regarding what works for them, and I really don't think that it is the end of the world if a guy happens to have some bad experiences and regrets.... Really, frequently, he is going to have to decide in windows of spontaneous ways whether to pursue or not.

Actually, I recall a few experiences that I had in which I was attempting to work up to banging a not so attractive chick... and I recall afterwards being grateful that the bang did not work out. It wasn't because of a lack of my trying to bang, and at the moment, I thought that it would be a good idea to pursue, yet I just ended up not being successful, but happy later that I had not been successful.

I just think that the experiences can cut in all kinds of directions, and there really are not absolutes that one guy can place on other guys when the guy may chose to bang in an otherwise seemingly would not bang situation.

[Centurion]

I'm just going to go and believe he has serious issues like autism or social anxiety or mental issues like Elliot Rodger did. Or maybe he doesn't like socialising with other people, so he can't build up a social circle.

[Huey]

Well at least he didn't shoot up a nearby college campus.

[AboveAverageJoe]

(07-04-2016 04:11 PM)Huey Wrote:  

Well at least he didn't shoot up a nearby college campus.

Yeah, he is a regular Omega MLK.

[All or Nothing]

(07-04-2016 03:05 PM)Delta Wrote:  

Yeah I remember when I was a virgin messing around with girls I found gross just to gain the experience. I doubt this is uncommon. A guy who struggles early on is unlikely to jump straight from involuntary celibacy to banging cuties. Just like with everything, you have to work your way up.

Same for me. I had to go the same route the 4chan guy did. I ended up banging a 3 or so (looking back on it) just to lose my virginity.

It was worth it. That bang was enough to get the wheels going to start getting laid more and I've banged a couple legitimately cute girls since then.

Some bros gotta go dumpster diving before they get to the filet mignon.

[Rocha]

(07-04-2016 04:58 PM)All or Nothing Wrote:  

(07-04-2016 03:05 PM)Delta Wrote:  

Yeah I remember when I was a virgin messing around with girls I found gross just to gain the experience. I doubt this is uncommon. A guy who struggles early on is unlikely to jump straight from involuntary celibacy to banging cuties. Just like with everything, you have to work your way up.

Same for me. I had to go the same route the 4chan guy did. I ended up banging a 3 or so (looking back on it) just to lose my virginity.

It was worth it. That bang was enough to get the wheels going to start getting laid more and I've banged a couple legitimately cute girls since then.

Some bros gotta go dumpster diving before they get to the filet mignon.

Same here. I also banged a fattie in the backseat of the car in my late teens... perhaps more than one... I remember another who gave me head on the beach... she was the first that swallowed...now I remember that I came all the way home with her sitting right next to me in the backseat of my friend car, did not said a word to her all the way. Ahh.. Kid's stuff...

[MiscBrah]

Thats a sad story. I've been in the gutter before too but never that low though. You don't forget such things.

[ivansirko]

He got it over with and has nowhere to go but up. He does seem like a drama queen.

The woman gets it often because very young men often are desperate. Eventually she will have to self-improve or else be lonely with a couple of kids without fathers.

[eatthishomie]

He has soft facial features and just projects a beta aura. He needs some serious time on the weights and other masculine activities.

[leanmeansexmachine]

He looks like a Swedish woman with his blonde hair and skinny neck. No self respect for fucking women like this. Everybody makes mistakes but this guy has issues in mental aspect.

[911]

(07-04-2016 02:35 PM)Thomas the Rhymer Wrote:  

Quote:

She was a nice girl and bought me a burrito

Does a burrito count as paying for sex?

These are indeed dark times when young men must prostitute themselves for a mere burrito.

Hope it came with extra guac.

[GoldHawkStar]

Shit I really feel sorry for this dude, mainly because he reminds me of myself.

Granted I've never sunk that low, but I look back on my first time and regret the girl I was with.

I'm in nowhere perfect water with my life now either, but hey as armenia said above, nowhere to go but up from here. The lackluster quality of women you get today by being gameless with average looks drives me every day to self improve and stand out in the best way I can. It is, without a doubt, my #1 priority right now. Hey, good pussy is good pussy.

But back to this kid, man I really feel for him. I understand firsthand the position he was in. He'll always regret this, but at leat it'll make sex better as he goes up in quality. Really want to reach out and help him somehow. He needs RVF.

[Teutatis]

I obviously remember my first time but I couldn't care less if it had been my third or tenth and some other girl was my first, it's not really that important in the long run, so even though it sucks for him now he'll be fine, a few years and girls from now he won't even care about it. We're not women that out first time needs to be some idyllic perfect thing, who cares how it was, he got it over with and now he can move on to better pastures.