This was a hard thread to search for so could be a repeat.
Contrary to blue pill thinking money if well spent can indeed increase happiness dramatically.
What some are things that have great value (bang for the $) that bring happiness and contentment?
I am trying to avoid things like "plane tickets" or "language classes" or "organic food". Avoiding all the no-shit Sherlock stuff.
I am sure there will be many hobby items like "my motorcycle", "my gun", "my guitar", "my surfboard", "my custom suit" etc... I am trying to keep things general that all men could be into as there are plenty of threads on masculine hobbies that are fulfilling. This is about positive materialism.
Here is a little list:
1. Large bay windows at your dwelling. Light and being able to see outside easily with good views is a huge boost to my happiness. I lived in a basement room with a tiny garden window for a few months it turned me miserable all due to the room.
2. Vaulted ceilings and open areas like lofts have increased my happiness.
3. A sizable kitchen with counter space. Bonus for a center island to set things on. The better my kitchen the more likely I will cook and eat better food. Also it makes it more likely women will want to cook for me at my residence. Both big deals. Health and sex life.
4. At my current residence there is a shower room that is all tile. It is connected to an outdoor porch with a huge bay window facing a plateau. It is a great place to shower and wake up in the morning. Vast difference than being crammed behind a shower curtain, especially in a bathroom without windows and views.
5. Dim lighting that is only from lamps with good shades. No light coming down from the ceiling. Lighting has a huge affect on my mood.
6. Indoor plants. Whenever I see these in someone's workspace or home, I give pause because of the maintenance. Buying succulents is a happy middle ground. Having plants really helps the feel of a place. I envy people that have them and feel brightened inside when I walk into a place that has them.
7. I have been at a friend's house in my college years that had an indoor sauna room. I could tell that brought that house plenty of happiness from their stories.
8. A great piece of art on a wall you truly find something different about everytime. These are hard to find and often expensive. Most people just throw something in the cart from IKEA and say "well that looks nice". I think the art I am talking about is the one you still walk up to and peer at for the 1000th time. Art for you. Art with a memory attached.
Maybe we could get a consensus on what items really have brought the biggest happiness and do a $ / happiness comparison so maybe guys that have never thought about this or consider themselves "minimalists" (which I don't believe in because I think it is anti abundance mindset) will open their minds to things that are not for status, instead are for day to day happiness and productivity.
Contrary to blue pill thinking money if well spent can indeed increase happiness dramatically.
What some are things that have great value (bang for the $) that bring happiness and contentment?
I am trying to avoid things like "plane tickets" or "language classes" or "organic food". Avoiding all the no-shit Sherlock stuff.
I am sure there will be many hobby items like "my motorcycle", "my gun", "my guitar", "my surfboard", "my custom suit" etc... I am trying to keep things general that all men could be into as there are plenty of threads on masculine hobbies that are fulfilling. This is about positive materialism.
Here is a little list:
1. Large bay windows at your dwelling. Light and being able to see outside easily with good views is a huge boost to my happiness. I lived in a basement room with a tiny garden window for a few months it turned me miserable all due to the room.
2. Vaulted ceilings and open areas like lofts have increased my happiness.
3. A sizable kitchen with counter space. Bonus for a center island to set things on. The better my kitchen the more likely I will cook and eat better food. Also it makes it more likely women will want to cook for me at my residence. Both big deals. Health and sex life.
4. At my current residence there is a shower room that is all tile. It is connected to an outdoor porch with a huge bay window facing a plateau. It is a great place to shower and wake up in the morning. Vast difference than being crammed behind a shower curtain, especially in a bathroom without windows and views.
5. Dim lighting that is only from lamps with good shades. No light coming down from the ceiling. Lighting has a huge affect on my mood.
6. Indoor plants. Whenever I see these in someone's workspace or home, I give pause because of the maintenance. Buying succulents is a happy middle ground. Having plants really helps the feel of a place. I envy people that have them and feel brightened inside when I walk into a place that has them.
7. I have been at a friend's house in my college years that had an indoor sauna room. I could tell that brought that house plenty of happiness from their stories.
8. A great piece of art on a wall you truly find something different about everytime. These are hard to find and often expensive. Most people just throw something in the cart from IKEA and say "well that looks nice". I think the art I am talking about is the one you still walk up to and peer at for the 1000th time. Art for you. Art with a memory attached.
Maybe we could get a consensus on what items really have brought the biggest happiness and do a $ / happiness comparison so maybe guys that have never thought about this or consider themselves "minimalists" (which I don't believe in because I think it is anti abundance mindset) will open their minds to things that are not for status, instead are for day to day happiness and productivity.
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