If I could pick one man's brain, it would have to be Christopher Lasch. He was the last of America's public intellectuals, a true man of letters. He was best described as a man "
though capable of lighting candles, was best at cursing the darkness."
Christopher Lasch was, in many ways, a simple college professor who wanted nothing more than for his students to read more, think deeply and write well ---
his excellent primer on grammar and writing is a testament to that. But in his numerous books, such as
Haven In the Heartless World: The Family Besieged and
The Revolt of the Elites and the Betrayal of Democracy, he combined a masterful understanding of history, Freudian psychology and progressive and conservative thought to produce some of the most intellectually sublime essays I have ever read.
By far his most well-known book --
The Culture Of Narcissism -- wasn't slated for a major release; he had intended his book for a small audience of professors and intellectuals. However, his book was a surprise best-seller and many of his ideas about culture and personality found a natural -- although not entirely welcome -- home in conservative thought. Although the book was dead-end in some ways, for a mind like him, it became a springboard for great works like
The Minimal Self,
Women and the Common Life and his magnum opus that was published shortly before his death,
The True and Only Heaven.
Off the top of my head based on his writings: I would first ask him how he was able to able to fuse the insight Freud had into psychology with so many conservative critiques of progressivism while still remaining himself a liberal. How has the Left managed to seamlessly cover up the failure of progressivism with mass media, psychiatric medication and hollow consumerism? Is the inevitable outcome of any form of feminism a retrenchment of an aristocratic class? Is it possible to find meaning in a world where an individual's own usefulness has been systemically eroded by technology and bureaucracy? An hour might just be the tip of the iceberg.
It would be my hope that I would do the least of the talking -- hopefully next to no talking at all. Being in the presence of such an intellectual giant for an hour would renew my hope that there are men in this world who used their God-given gifts of intelligence, erudition and wisdom for good.
I did a
book review a couple years back on the aforementioned Culture Of Narcissism and I will leave you with one of my favorite quotes from the book:
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The best hope for emotional maturity, then, appears to lie in a recognition of our need for and dependence on people who nevertheless remain separate from ourselves and refuse to submit to our whims. It lies in a recognition of others not as projections of our own desires but as independent beings with desires of their own. More broadly, it lies in acceptance of our limits. The world does not exist merely to satisfy our own desires; it is a world in which we can find meaning, once we understand that others too have a right to those. Psychoanalysis confirms the ancient religious insight that the only way to achieve happiness is to accept limitations in a spirit of gratitude and contrition instead of attempting to annul those limitations or bitterly resenting them.
Barring that, I would say either of my grandfathers (neither of whom I knew personally) or maybe Stephen King or the famed "
Last Psychiatrist." If I had to go with a guy off the forum, it would have to be an older, wizened guy like WIA or Quintus so I could pick their brains about women and the meaning of life.