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06-08-2016, 06:58 PM
I'm seeing this one chick and in-between texts she will like or tweet something random, sometimes involving what we just spoke about. Of course this pisses me off considering there is no exclusivity in that. Regardless of the context of the convo. Telling the world vs keeping a conversation between us screams validation. Sometimes tweeting sooner than texting.
Does anyone else get upset about shit like this?
If you have to tell other people about how your day is going or that you just had coffee, wtf is point of talking to someone specifically? I am trying to see if others here make a big deal about this.
FYI: This is not to just score, I'm looking at a LTR with this girl. But, I'm also quick to put the pimp hand in my pocket and walk away. If she was just any ordinary hoe, I would not mind what she's doing
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06-08-2016, 07:03 PM
Sounds like a Grade A social media addicted attention whore. Next.
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06-09-2016, 12:32 AM
You could always try talking to her about it, telling her it diminshes her and why.
Let us know how that goes.
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06-09-2016, 01:07 AM
Bump! Does no one give a shit about these signs?
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06-09-2016, 07:35 AM
It's a problem and I'm sure that tendency of hers affects other aspects of her life. It could be a "phase" but I think if you're looking for a LTR you may want a women that isn't heavily invested in social media.
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06-09-2016, 09:01 AM
Newbie board post.
Everything here is wrong
Need remedial game class
WIA
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06-09-2016, 02:49 PM
I'm assuming you guys haven't had sex yet?
Which, if true, begs the question of why you would consider a girl you've never boinked for an LTR... but never mind.
However, if you have and you're allowing her to do dumb shit that upsets you then you're not playing your cards right. After you fuck a girl there should never be any reason for you not to be ready to walk. After you've fucked her it's her turn to work for your love, or else risk being pumped and dumped.
If you guys haven't had sex yet and she's already annoying you 9/10 times the juice won't be worth the squeeze. The longer you "hang in there" the more pathetic you'll be to her (she'll know she can abuse your time and interest).
two scoops
two genders
two terms
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06-09-2016, 03:23 PM
I try NOT to be SM friends with anyone I'm involved with.
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06-09-2016, 09:51 PM
I wouldn't have a LTR with any girl that has a social media presence. Avoid the problem altogether. It's the ultimate ego boost for women and will never end well. Social Media Presence = Fuck Buddy. Nothing more.
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06-10-2016, 01:23 AM
If I was a girl. This is the kind of relationship I'd want.
Girl game recognized.
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06-10-2016, 12:12 PM
Quote: (06-09-2016 11:50 PM)Grindhard Wrote:
Quote: (06-09-2016 02:49 PM)NomadofEU Wrote:
I'm assuming you guys haven't had sex yet?
Which, if true, begs the question of why you would consider a girl you've never boinked for an LTR... but never mind.
However, if you have and you're allowing her to do dumb shit that upsets you then you're not playing your cards right. After you fuck a girl there should never be any reason for you not to be ready to walk. After you've fucked her it's her turn to work for your love, or else risk being pumped and dumped.
If you guys haven't had sex yet and she's already annoying you 9/10 times the juice won't be worth the squeeze. The longer you "hang in there" the more pathetic you'll be to her (she'll know she can abuse your time and interest).
We haven't fucked because she's saving it for marriage. She's a church girl and had only 1 BF. Foreplay is all we do. She comes off like a narcissist and thinks my problems are not hers (eg. social media). I guess it's not worth explaining a life without it. These girls never learn...
Sounds like a basic bible bitch. Because they can't entertain their vices on random dick, drugs and alcohol they send to be bigger addicts of things like social media, starbucks and gossip.
If she's white and religious I'd be willing to roll the dice that she wears black tights, something that looks almost like a man's dress shirt, knee high brown boots and some sort of puffy scarf to church, of not every day.
Why do the heathen rage and the people imagine a vain thing? Psalm 2:1 KJV