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Stanford Rape Case: Victim Letter Going Viral
07-26-2018, 05:49 PM
Taking the example of some kid getting in trouble for fingering a girl who was passed out in an alley as "all heterosexual males are 2nd class citizens" is ridiculous.
There's a crazy echo chamber effect in this community and too many fear-mongering dudes who are out of touch.
I assure you that real-life is quite different from what you read from hysterical stories on the web.
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Stanford Rape Case: Victim Letter Going Viral
07-26-2018, 05:55 PM
jefferyjerpp and I have seen both sides of this, believe me.
100+ notches, now I live in an essential pussy paradise, or atleast fun paradise for acting the fool and partying. I have had an insanely good time dicking around with young 20's girls in even California (SD, Newport Beach) very inebriated with essentially no consequences.
But we have very closely seen the dark side of these campuses. Shit is very real. The adult world isn't that bad in many parts of the country as it is in these coastal colleges.
The reason I can do dumb shit now in places like Cali, is because my crew and I are tall, good looking, well dressed, and more importantly have GAME. A drunk 19 year old knows god damn nothing, and they call his fumblings rape, ruin his life, and never give him the chance to learn and grow. They kill the man before he ever comes into being.
It is an abortion of sorts. All that potential lost.
You don't get there till you get there
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Stanford Rape Case: Victim Letter Going Viral
07-26-2018, 08:31 PM
I don't know if this guy is guilty or not. I DO know that, when i was young, fingering a drunk girl but not putting your penis in her would NOT be considered "rape". It would probably have been regarded by society as a "missed opportunity". Now it's rape. OK, whatever.
But the thing that really raises an eyebrow about this is that letter...that impossibly long, detailed, solipsistic, "pay attention to MEEEEEEEE!" letter. Mattress girl could've written that letter. It's the sort of letter perpetually aggrieved women write. In their minds, they write it in their own menstrual blood. They write it to over-dramatize an otherwise mundane situation, and satisfy a craving for drama.
True story: I was sexually assaulted as a 15 yr old. A guy tried to get a little touchy with my pee pee, fortunately denim jeans aren't very grope-friendly. I was a little frightened for a moment (we were in a car), but I got out of it OK. I told no one. I saw no reason to. I made sure never to go to the place where I might run into this guy again. But otherwise...problem solved.
What I didn't do it write a long, endless, meandering letter to anyone and everyone. Part of that is because i'm not a woman. But part of it is because i wanted to get far away from it, to put it out of my mind. And yet she doesn't. She wants to wallow in her supposed "raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaape!". She wants to wrap herself in it, like a fine dress, and parade herself all over town with it. Mattress girl did that, too, and scores of others.
And i can't help but feel that the reason they want to do that, the reason they don't have the normal "whoa! Let's put THAT chapter of my life far, far behind me!" like a normal victim, is that they are not normal victims.
Not normal victims. Let's examine this further.:
They certainly are not normal - more likely, they're a cocktail of delusion, psychosis, anger and who knows what all else, looking for someone to explode on like a grenade.
And, i suspect, they are not victims, either.
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Stanford Rape Case: Victim Letter Going Viral
09-23-2018, 10:47 AM
Never forget. This case still makes my blood boil.
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Stanford Rape Case: Victim Letter Going Viral
10-30-2018, 09:46 PM
I don't remember what made me search up Brock Turner on here, I guess I figured there would be some quality analysis. Fucking mind blown. I'll admit that I was hoodwinked and in the "looks pretty cut and dry, guilty as fuck" camp. Mad props to TLOZ and others for their analysis. I've taken precautions before (voice-recording a few sexual encounters with some suspect chicks, etc.) but man...Life, everything as he knew it, changed forever in one night...Terrifying.
Not going to stop me from going out and slaying box though