[Space Cowboy]

You gonna fuck her brother or something? You gonna share a bunk with this motherfucker or something?

Don't wanna go to a pride parade? Don't go, unless your girl has you on a leash.

Also, is the guy gay or a fag? There's a difference. But I never hung out with the siblings of any of my SOs, especially not as a grown-ass man.

[rudebwoy]

(06-02-2016 11:51 PM)pitt Wrote:  

(06-02-2016 04:26 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

(06-02-2016 03:24 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

lots of bad advice on this board

By asking the question, the OP clearly isn't cool with it

The issue will come up. Unless she also thinks it's disgusting, he's in for being with someone who he doesn't hold the same values as

Let's be honest, this is a problem, apart from the fact that her family's genes may be slightly fruity or at least, more susceptible to 3-dollar bills

This thought sort or ran through my head, does the gay gene get passed down.

Is there a chromosome defect in her gene pool?

I am not homophobic, I have been around gays before.

Yes, gay gene is usually the primary driver that makes people gay. If her brother is gay, there is a high probability that you and her may have gay kids. If not, your second generation children may have gay children, the gay genes is somewhat atavistic. This has scientific proof to it, I am not just talking gibberish.

If you don't want to have gay children (I think most of men wouldn't), I would just fuck her and be gone like the wind, unless she has other outstanding characteristics that will compensate for her gay genes.

I would also refrain from using any homophobic criticism towards gays when talking to her. Treat her brother as you would treat any other men, shake his hands when you meet him and talk to him if he seems eager/interested in talking to you. Some gay people are very interesting people (they are not trying to have sex with every man they meet), put the homophobia aside for a second and let the conversation flow.

That is what I was thinking, you don't have the link for this do you?

This got me thinking, that is all.

[Kid Twist]

There's no such thing, it's multifactorial, nothing as complex as sexuality could ever be some single "gene" primarily because sexuality is a learned behavior in many ways, though there are biological inputs to it.

[Deepdiver]

Nature versus Nurture... in each case the woman's Mother was a very strong willed woman and dominated over her father who tended to be submissive to the mother - in one case her Mother was a Medical Doctor with her own practice.

The son (her brother) was effeminate and gay and deferential to the Mother's will from growing up in this environment. The daughter followed in her mother's footsteps and I could see a pattern developing.

Exit stage left...

Live and let live is a motto as well as a two-way social contract. They can live how ever they want - however I have the right not to have it shoved in my face and any gay acceptance shaming is nipped in the bud immediately.

Gays are often insidious agent provocateurs and will inject their demented deviant degenerate lifestyles into the lives of others around them as a form of manipulation and as a coping mechanism with their own self-loathing. That spreads like a cancer to those around them just by being exposed to their degeneracy. This is why if one day you wish to have a healthy normal family based upon Christian values it is best to raise your family far away from their centers of influence.

[GlobalMan]

Rudebwoy, my impression of you is that you're a sharp dude who has substantial experience with girls and dealing with people in general. You should trust in yourself that in the unlikely event this ever becomes an issue you will know exactly what to do/say. I don't think there's a reason to doubt your ability to handle this new situation.

If you're interested in the girl then try her on for size, it is likely that nothing will be different than it ever has been with others.

Entertaining the conjecture about gay genes etc isn't doing anything to further find out what this girl is about or if you dig her, it's just adding mostly inconsequential noise to your thoughts.

I don't know where some others get their experience from, but most gays I have known do not give two shits about being an advocate or interjecting their "beliefs", especially in the circumstances you describe. They simply prefer sucking cocks or rubbing muffs together, respectively. Most are not what we see in news stories of crazy SJW's. You co-exist with far more of them than you realize most likely.

What if the brother lived in another city and you didn't meet him or know of this until a year down the line? Would it make a difference to you at that point? If not, what would be the practical difference from that compared in the current scenario?

I would not get too caught up in the academics of this, as I said it is likely that the brother being gay will be of zero consequence for your purposes.

[DonnyGately]

I'd ask her if she ever got bj tips from him.

[BassPlayaYo]

Gay brother is inconsequential, I would be more concerned if he was a thief, rapist or a murderer, those are things you want to look out for.

[Khan]

(06-08-2016 01:29 PM)BassPlayaYo Wrote:  

Gay brother is inconsequential, I would be more concerned if he was a thief, rapist or a murderer, those are things you want to look out for.

I wouldn't dismiss his concerns so easily. A large percentage of gay people are drug addicts, and drug abuse is often connected with crime.

[Gpx90210]

I woudln't care, dude. People should love who they want to love without being bashed for it. Slut shaming, etc makes women not want to be sluts. If a girl wants to have sex with someone, she should be applauded, not shamed. Same with gays, it doesn't matter. Sex should be promoted in our society and not shamed.

[BassPlayaYo]

(06-09-2016 04:16 AM)Khan Wrote:  

(06-08-2016 01:29 PM)BassPlayaYo Wrote:  

Gay brother is inconsequential, I would be more concerned if he was a thief, rapist or a murderer, those are things you want to look out for.

I wouldn't dismiss his concerns so easily. A large percentage of gay people are drug addicts, and drug abuse is often connected with crime.

Oh, you mean he could be a thief?

[Khan]

(06-09-2016 07:31 AM)BassPlayaYo Wrote:  

(06-09-2016 04:16 AM)Khan Wrote:  

(06-08-2016 01:29 PM)BassPlayaYo Wrote:  

Gay brother is inconsequential, I would be more concerned if he was a thief, rapist or a murderer, those are things you want to look out for.

I wouldn't dismiss his concerns so easily. A large percentage of gay people are drug addicts, and drug abuse is often connected with crime.

Oh, you mean he could be a thief?

Not necessarily himself, but for example he could have a fuckbuddy who has acquaintances among drug dealers. Or, he could have a fuckbuddy who is a thief - it's not uncommon for drug addicts to resort to thievery in order to be able to pay for whatever stuff they're on.

[Rush87]

(06-02-2016 02:23 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

This may seem like an odd title, but I thought I would put it out there.

I am talking to this girl, she seems nice and all that.

I found out her brother is gay, she didn't tell me.

I have never dated anyone who had a gay sibling. I am not trying to be homophobic, just curious how you would take it?

Dated a girl with a gay brother. Wasn't really an issue. She was incredibly feminine. I slipped up a few times with certain remarks, but she never took too much offence. Considering you probably display fairly red pill values from the get go, I doubt she would be too offended with your opinion.

[Fortis]

Just play along, be polite (like you would anyway) and keep it moving.

It's not like he's going to shake your hand and say "hey, rudebwoy, I'm gay! What do you think of that!"

Unless he is a level 100 flaming, plaid-wearing, SJW faggazoid from outerspace you won't run into any problems.

[heavy]

[Rush87]

(06-03-2016 11:02 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

That is what I was thinking, you don't have the link for this do you?

This got me thinking, that is all.

http://www.counterbalance.org/genetics/o...frame.html

http://www.medicaldaily.com/gay-gene-sur...udy-240813