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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-23-2011, 10:05 AM
I was also someone that did not experience Peru girls jumping on my dick. I consider myself a very good looking and stylish American born Latino.
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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-23-2011, 07:36 PM
I think a general of thumb is, in poor countries, a particular sub-set of girls with a particular agenda make a bee-line for foreigners, and this leads to all sorts of confusions that would be avoided if this was better understood.
Poor girls in poor countries who are ALSO not considered desirable by the local men throw themselves at foreigners in the hopes of escaping poverty. Such girls, being considered undesirable by the local men, often have a history of being treated extremely poorly by them, but this does not mean such treatment is common across classes. The primary motivation of these girls being to escape poverty, it is no surprise that their hierarchy of values in a man will prioritize niceness and willingness to spend money, and that they will *butter up* their target by showering him with compliments designed to reinforce these tendencies in him.
None of this means *nice guy game* works on the hot local girls who are desired by the local men, especially those who are not from the poverty stricken classes.
It is also a HUGE mistake to conclude based on local girls reports of their mens *assholeness* that the local men in these countries are all these massive alphas - they are not. Even in patriarchal societies with strong gender roles, where you would think it is much easier for men to be alphas, beneath the public gender roles innate betaness and alphaness has a way of asserting itself unmistakeably. Many of these reports are based on undesirable women being pumped and dumped because of their undesirability, and on a very small minority of upper class men who are indeed true alphas and who exercise a disproportionate impact on the psyches of the innocent little local maidens. The vast majority of men, even upper class ones, remain scared betas, as is the case in Thailand, where I lived, and where all these conditions apply.
That poor ugly girls in poor countries throw themselves in large numbers on foreign men, and complain about their own men, can be gratifying to ones ego, and has given rise to the myth that in certain countries it is extremely *easy* to get with local girls. This is only true for the local undesirable girls.
I pretty much make it a litmus test of a guys history with pretty women and how good he is with women in general if he comes to a place like Thailand and thinks its *heaven* and women throw themselves at him. If he thinks that, he has pretty much made his status and history with women , and what he is used to associating with, crystal clear in my eyes. I advise anyone who actually likes pretty girls to be similarly cautious.
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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-23-2011, 07:39 PM
Quote: (07-23-2011 10:05 AM)MiXX Wrote:
I was also someone that did not experience Peru girls jumping on my dick. I consider myself a very good looking and stylish American born Latino.
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Thats probably because you actually like pretty girls - Im sure you had plenty of ugly girl attention but it flew right under your radar, as it would for any self-respecting man.
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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-23-2011, 09:22 PM
Quote: (07-23-2011 07:36 PM)georgec Wrote:
Poor girls in poor countries who are ALSO not considered desirable by the local men throw themselves at foreigners in the hopes of escaping poverty.
This is true. Foreigners often have limited access to the elite women in the societies they visit who are in high local demand. Those girls can get elite local men, and they prefer them. It is the women who are less-than-elite in many of these societies that throw themselves at foreigners.
That being said, it is worth noting that we do have different standards of beauty. What is
locally unappealing overseas may be extremely attractive to foreigners.
The definition of "ugly" and "pretty" is not set entirely in stone. This dynamic might not apply in every country, but its something to think about.
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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-23-2011, 10:23 PM
Quote: (07-23-2011 10:02 AM)Entropy4 Wrote:
Quote: (07-22-2011 10:44 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:
Are you saying girls in Cusco jump on your dick when you walk in to a venue ? because i have a different experience here.
I believe Roosh said Cuzco was the easiest place to get laid in all of South America (I could be wrong though).
Well, i'll see tomorrow as its my last night out in Cusco. Tonight i'm staying in, my legs are fucked from walking 3 days at Machu Picchu ( which was amazing)and tomorrow i'll have my own room again one block away from the big plaza and mama africa club.
I don't think Cusco is the easiest city for getting laid with Peruvian girls, its clubs and streets are packed with young foreigners , its probably the most touristic city in South America and i haven;t seen many hot girls here. I expect Lima to be better.
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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-24-2011, 11:20 AM
Agreed Pitt.
Also, I'd just like to point out, obviously we all have our own opinions and experiences... but OP lives in Peru and has been dealing with the women there day-in day-out for years. We were all a bunch of tourists who just swung through. So... just something to keep in mind before making fun of the lack of "alphaness" or whatever.
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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-24-2011, 12:46 PM
Quote: (07-23-2011 07:39 PM)georgec Wrote:
Quote: (07-23-2011 10:05 AM)MiXX Wrote:
I was also someone that did not experience Peru girls jumping on my dick. I consider myself a very good looking and stylish American born Latino.
Mixx
Thats probably because you actually like pretty girls - Im sure you had plenty of ugly girl attention but it flew right under your radar, as it would for any self-respecting man.
Interesting perspective, what would you say about this guy's experiences in Europe?
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-2123.html
Were these women not the most desired?
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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-24-2011, 01:23 PM
I was born in Latin America and partially raised there... So I'm speaking from first hand experience.
All those sob stories women tell about their local men are true. They're not making it up. Women for the most part down in Latin America get treated way worse then in places like the United States.
I think of it as the opposite of the USA. In the USA women get to be bitches, and get away with it. It places like Latin America men get to be assholes and get away with it.
I agree that some women respond well to assholes, some part of not giving a fuck is very alpha but there comes a point in these women's lives when they get fed up with dealing with assholes, especially after being burned many times. People do get tired of getting treated like shit.
So when a foreigner comes along that doesn't get sloppy drunk, come home to beat her, of course she'll jump at the first opportunity to lock him down.
I mean just look at this forum. Most guys on here will agree that most American women are not worth the trouble. All these guys are fed up with American women. Is it so hard to think that there may be a large portion of women in Peru who are fed up with their local men? I don't think so... and there other places like south east asia and Eastern Europe where most of the same concepts apply.
Even Roosh admitted recently in a post that "it's ok to be a beta male" in places like this in one of his recent posts and it's true. You can be a nice guy (aka beta) and still get laid in these places...
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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-24-2011, 08:41 PM
Quote: (07-23-2011 09:22 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:
Quote: (07-23-2011 07:36 PM)georgec Wrote:
This is true. Foreigners often have limited access to the elite women in the societies they visit who are in high local demand. Those girls can get elite local men, and they prefer them. It is the women who are less-than-elite in many of these societies that throw themselves at foreigners.
I guess this is particularly true for 1st tier brazilian cities like Rio. I was in Copacabana/Leblon till yesterday , and even considering that is winter time down here, I saw a significant number of black american men and other gringos looking for day game action near the shore line ,but most seemed quite desperate,chatting up or being approached by low-quality chicks or P4P.This time I wasn't able to go out at night, but I tend to believe that in the club/bar scene it will be the same scenario for the average gringo with average game.
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Why 'nice guy' game works in Peru
07-26-2011, 01:37 PM
I got my Peruvian flag a few days in Cusco. Gonna game hard in Lima now.
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