[CaptainChardonnay]

^ I would say no. When I was younger I had a massive guy, was over 6 feet tall and at least 250 pounds, pick me up and tried making out with me. So no. Fuck no

[cascadecombo]

Anabasis you've gad some awfully gay friendly [gay ish if you count saving the dick pic] posts recently. What's up with that?

[Sidney Crosby]

Haven't noticed much yet, but my Dad is jealous of my gains these last few months. Not sure if Homo.....

Once I'm at the point were fags grope me I guess I've made it.

[kaotic]

Is it beta if a gay guy hits on you ?

[Mercenary]

(05-09-2016 10:11 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  

Anabasis you've gad some awfully gay friendly [gay ish if you count saving the dick pic] posts recently. What's up with that?

[vinman]

It really has nothing to do with you. Guys are guys, and they're just testing to see if they can get laid. Years ago when I was a bouncer I would have guys flirt with me very casually. It was so low key and subtle that it didn't register until much later, or someone would point it out to me. I was completely oblivious to it. Once I had a guy in a club walk up shake my hand, grab me by the upper arm, wink and walk to the men's room. My friends all gave me a weird look and asked who was that? I responded that I thought he was a friend of one of you guys. Then one yelled "holy shit! You just got molested", and we all laughed. It happens.

[Sonoma]

I've had gay guys hit on me a lot. Learn to just decline and be chill about it. Gay guys can either be the ultimate cockblock or the best encourager of their female friend's promiscuity, it's up to you to angle for the latter

[RichieP]

(05-10-2016 08:20 AM)Sonoma Wrote:  

I've had gay guys hit on me a lot. Learn to just decline and be chill about it. Gay guys can either be the ultimate cockblock or the best encourager of their female friend's promiscuity, it's up to you to angle for the latter

Precisely! Anyone getting offended by it is missing out on a huge opportunity to befriend and leverage the connection to hook up with chicks.

This is 10x more true if you're the "exotic foreigner" and local gays are hitting on you.

Being friends with a classy gay guy in a foreign country yields huge returns and signals all sorts of good things about you: open minded, socially smooth, not "snobbish expat", sexpat or trashy backpacker, etc.

One local gay friend is like a strategic partnership - he will continually bring female friends for you to bang. And he will encourage them to hook up with the 'hot foreign guy' and bring out their sluttiness. The fact that the gay guy wants your cock gives the girls license to want it also, free of judgement. He basically frames you as a no-downsides sex toy for the chick.

You can even deliberately engineer it. Cheers them in bars or even buy them a shot, be cool and friendly but mention you're new in town and tastefully mention you're straight early on. A good percentage of the time you get brought to a mixed group and intro'd to a single girl. It's a warm social circle intro and you're "in", avoiding all the usual barriers and stereotypes most lone wolf foreigners have to deal with.

Works best in countries where you have "exotic foreigner" value, but still gets you into social circles and enable you to meet cool chicks (and cool ppl in general) very rapidly in any liberal city.

[Stallion]

(05-10-2016 12:43 PM)RichieP Wrote:  

Being friends with a classy gay guy in a foreign country yields huge returns and signals all sorts of good things about you: open minded, socially smooth, not "snobbish expat", sexpat or trashy backpacker, etc.

One local gay friend is like a strategic partnership

Never thought of it that way, but this is so true. In thailand I knew a local gay guy (not a ladyboy, a normal gay guy). Everytime I met him in the club, he introduced me to the hottest and most high-so girls I ever spoke to in Thailand (models, actresses, daughters of CEOs...).

My game was too lame at that time to do anything about it, but this sounds like an easy strategy to infiltrate tough social circles.

[RichieP]

^ yes exactly. It's such effective social proof, and also just great *positioning* - the gay guy does all the work of framing you as a no-strings sexual prospect or at least a cool desirable guy, and encouraging his single female friends.

There are a good number of girls in these circles who WOULD hook up with or date a high-quality western guy, the problem is there it's just such a hit to their reputation for them to accept approaches from random club dudes who are nearly always arrogant expat/vulgar backpacker, that they insta-reject. So a social-circle intro cuts through that like a hot knife through butter.

It's also cool because the right gay guy will keep introducing you to more and more of his single friends.... he wants as much status, "gaining face" and social proof as he can get with his myriad of female friends. He does that by farming you out to girl after girl It's really bizarrely good, haha.

[zatara]

Totally agree with RichieP. I've got a very professionally/socially successful gay friend and hes constantly surrounded with the hottest girls I've ever seen. I've fucked more hot girls by virtue of being mates with him than thanks to any of my normal wingmen who have good game. A gay friend can be a great aid to game.

If you live in a big city in the West I think its impossible to completely avoid being hit on by gay guys, if you look good. With random gay dudes hitting on you you just have to be very clear with them you're straight, and not interested. Aggressively clear if need be. And don't put yourself in a situation where you could be taken advantage of - don't be getting hammered in a gay bar or anything. Otherwise, just take it as a compliment to looking good.

[AnonymousBosch]

(05-10-2016 12:43 PM)RichieP Wrote:  

(05-10-2016 08:20 AM)Sonoma Wrote:  

I've had gay guys hit on me a lot. Learn to just decline and be chill about it. Gay guys can either be the ultimate cockblock or the best encourager of their female friend's promiscuity, it's up to you to angle for the latter

Precisely! Anyone getting offended by it is missing out on a huge opportunity to befriend and leverage the connection to hook up with chicks.

Quoted for truth. For a while there, the hottest accessory for a Hot Girl was a Fashionable Gay. Probably makes them feel a little less suburban. All you need to do is charm him in a friendly way, and they'll cheerlead for you instead of cockblocking access to the hottie, wanting to keep the beefcake around.

That being said, I'm noticing a dip in this. Maybe Pet Gays have become last years shoes. I suspect Hot Girls didn't understand just how dysfunctional degeneracy is, which is why probably why Gays used to natually pair off with the Fat Girls back when I was in school.

From what I've observed, there's two subsets of gays, and what they value is different:

- One set is obsessed with the Young and Pretty. There's a predatory nature to them, like they're vampires who feed on the appearance of innocence, or are just compelled to corrupt beauty.

- The other set is obsessed with traditional masculinity and strength, and have a combination of awe of dominant straight men coupled with a need to feel bullied into a subservient role to us. They imitate masculine appearance and behaviour, but since they reject the effort it takes to earn it, the majority never really understand it, and it becomes little more than a fetish. When they do understand effort, they deeply-respect and champion it: this is Jack Donovan and Milo.

I doubt anyone else will see this coming, but if /pol/ gets their way, and everything goes full-1488, I suspect a good portion of the gay community will immediately get in line behind them, wanting to be led.

OP, being jacked attracts the attention of the later camp, but it kind of attracts the attention of everyone, straight or gay. Everyone seems to wants to feel big muscle. Accept your life is going to involve a lot of swolestation. I wouldn't overthink it. Laugh it off.

[kaotic]

(05-10-2016 08:20 AM)Sonoma Wrote:  

I've had gay guys hit on me a lot. Learn to just decline and be chill about it. Gay guys can either be the ultimate cockblock or the best encourager of their female friend's promiscuity, it's up to you to angle for the latter

The gay guy who hit on me, walked away telling my date she'd better fuck me.

People are going to hit on you, it isn't a big deal.

Most aren't going past complimenting.

It's not like you're gonna go alpha brah fight me mode on a gay dude for complimenting you.

And if you do in this day and age, that's a hate crime.

Relevant:

[debeguiled]

(05-09-2016 10:11 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  

Anabasis you've gad some awfully gay friendly [gay ish if you count saving the dick pic] posts recently. What's up with that?

Worse than that, he is flashing his elbows, which is in its way, more personal and disturbing:

[Atlanta Man]

I am 257 pounds of pure muscle at 6'5, I used to be 210 . Yes , homosexuals have been more aggressive toward me especially on South Beach. I am not mad though, the homosexuals just are guilty of good taste.

[xxMarco]

Yep. I get hit on all the time by gays it's getting old. There's some dudes that are undercover gays and will pretend to be cool with you only to bust some queer shit out of nowhere. It's way more common nowadays.

I would say it didn't bother me but at this point it does. I've tried befriending some for the girls but the last couple years gays don't hang out with girls as much for some reason. And on top of that you seem like a homo showing up with the flaming fag to the party. Not a good look.

I would rather not deal with a guy trying to touch my junk for a while just for social proof.
I can't have a conversation with a stranger these days without that question in the back of my mind: "is this guy a fag?"

[RexImperator]

(05-10-2016 03:09 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

From what I've observed, there's two subsets of gays, and what they value is different:

- One set is obsessed with the Young and Pretty. There's a predatory nature to them, like they're vampires who feed on the appearance of innocence, or are just compelled to corrupt beauty.

- The other set is obsessed with traditional masculinity and strength, and have a combination of awe of dominant straight men coupled with a need to feel bullied into a subservient role to us. They imitate masculine appearance and behaviour, but since they reject the effort it takes to earn it, the majority never really understand it, and it becomes little more than a fetish. When they do understand effort, they deeply-respect and champion it: this is Jack Donovan and Milo.

This seems like a pretty good breakdown. I had to deal with the first group when I was in my early 20's and now it seems like I'm dealing with the latter group.

[Anabasis to Desta]

(05-10-2016 03:46 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

(05-09-2016 10:11 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  

Anabasis you've gad some awfully gay friendly [gay ish if you count saving the dick pic] posts recently. What's up with that?

Worse than that, he is flashing his elbows, which is in its way, more personal and disturbing:

Not my elbows. I was asking a question about a skin condition.

You stalking me bro? I'm flattered.

[H1N1]

(05-12-2016 01:39 PM)Anabasis to Desta Wrote:  

(05-10-2016 03:46 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

(05-09-2016 10:11 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  

Anabasis you've gad some awfully gay friendly [gay ish if you count saving the dick pic] posts recently. What's up with that?

Worse than that, he is flashing his elbows, which is in its way, more personal and disturbing:

Not my elbows.

I hope not mate, that's a pretty gay looking elbow if ever I saw one.

[Dominance]

Not at all. Though there's not a huge population of them in my town, the ones I have seen tend to leave me alone most of the time.

There was some isolated incidents where I actually grabbed them cos they went too far. One pinched me on the ass one night, another come and grabbed me on the dick and I grabbed him by the throat and told him to never try that shit again. But it's not a common occurence for me.

[Cyr]

I've had a bit of it.
Obviously it can be flustering, and society doesn't tell girls to 'view it as a compliment' when they get aggressively hit on by guy, but that is the best advice- a polite decline. Like a few of the other posters, I've also noticed that gay guys don't seem to be hanging around hot girls as much as they used to, so that removes an advantage of befriending them.

[hydrogonian]

I've been quickly groped while drunk as a teen in Cancun.
I've had an older guy (a cook) follow me from where I worked as a waiter to a bar 4 miles away, just to leer. I was told why he was there.
I've had a good friend of mine proposition me while we are in a vastly altered state. This was his method of coming out. I wasn't so much threatened as I was insulted that our friendship meant less than the non-opportunity.
I've had a few more benign interactions in public places.

In theory, no problem. However, what I've experienced is a small pattern of being marked when I'm seen as impaired. I don't trust shady guys that hide their orientation.

Like this:

(05-09-2016 04:46 AM)Rico Ramon Wrote:  

All the time man , the other day at the gym this older guy in the locker room sees me and starts chatting, I'm getting ready to go in the sauna and then he decides to go back in , afterwards he asks if I have a girlfriend and I say yeah and then he asks if I'm busy the rest of the day and I say yes, then the dude asks if I want to come over and watch a movie and wishing that Redbox rented porno's ( you gotta laugh at that)

Some guys are naive enough not to pick up on what is going on. Most guys are accustomed to guy-to-guy social interaction being non-sexual and nothing else crosses their mind. Gay guys like the above are using that naivete to get a straight guy isolated.

[Cobra]

I'm surprised BoricuaKing didn't get baited by this thread before his ban. Guess he got baited by the dick thread instead.

[Kona]

I bought some rental units in a nice building in Waikiki. There is a friendly old man who sits in the lobby.

We talk when I go to pick up the rent, or do whatever.

This last time, he explained to me that he was gay, and usually paid around 150 dollars to jerk men off. He wondered if I would be interested.

I told him that I was neither gay, nor a prostitute. I slso told him this proposition negatively affected the dynamic of our relationship. He didn't care.

According to him, it was my swvelt physique that made him want to masturbate me.

Of course, I declined. I didn't get upset though. I can't make waves in the building. Later, I was offended that he was only offering 150. I though I'd be worth way more than that.

Aloha!

[cubanlinx]

@Kona, there's 250 coming your way if interested mate.
But I'm just the middleman. (middle as in.....)
Just drop Anabasis a pm.

(note: This post may not be used for future slurs against me)