[newpua]

How did she react, if you ever have been in such a situation?

The dream:
- Very short
- Non-sexual (except for a small kiss at the end)

She:
- Has a boyfriend (but no mention of him on her FB profile, or on her sexy photos)
- Knows I like her

[Valentine]

I've always said something along the lines of "you were there, we were out doing X wonderful activity, and then Y bad thing happened eg a car drove over a puddle and soaked her, which made me laugh".

They laugh and hit me, attraction built ever higher from the tease. .

Your dream on the other hand you shouldn't tell. What feeling are you trying to elicit?

I don't know how many times I have to say plausible deniability on the forum today but *don't* verbalise sexual topics when you haven't banged her unless you're an advanced guy. Goes doubly so when she has a boyfriend too.

[Leonard D Neubache]

Did you want a proper answer, or did you want me to do a voice-over as Fred Savage?



Serious answer. You are a man. She is not your therapist. You do not discuss your dreams with her. It's not endearing. It's just creepy.

[Gatekeeper]

Creepy lol. Don't do it.

[PapayaTapper]

Every once in a while I'll send out a mass "Hey I had a dream about you" text to old numbers just as a restart. I get a high percentage of responses: from "Who is this?" to "Oh really what was the dream?".

The hamster has to know.

Once they're restarted just play on...the dream subject most often gets soon forgotten and I never have to explain (pivot and redirect)

Many chicks subscribe to "magical thinking". It's one of the reasons they often don't feel accountable for decisions and actions.

"Fate"

"the universe"

"cosmos"

"God's plan"

All mean that it's out of their control...hence not their fault "It was (or wasn't) meant to be"

Dreams are a very compelling segment of magical thinking. The concept, used properly, can be very useful

[kaotic]

(05-05-2016 10:27 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

Many chicks subscribe to "magical thinking". It's one of the reasons they often don't feel accountable for decisions and actions.

"Fate"

"the universe"

"cosmos"

"God's plan"

All mean that it's out of their control...hence not their fault "It was (or wasn't) meant to be"

Dreams are a very compelling segment of magical thinking. The concept, used properly, can be very useful

AKA:

-Sacred Geometry
-Shakra
-Mantra
-Yogi Life
-Energy Crystals
-Vibrations
-Musical Trance
-Horoscopes
-Astrology

Every single basic bitch ever, trying to prove they're a fucking snowflake.


Back to the topic - I've never told a girl I had a dream regardless if it was platonic or highly sexual.

It can be a good opener if you can frame it right of course.

[pitt]

I do this all the time, the best guy I know in the game does it too.

But I never really have dreams with them, I just tell them this in order to sexualize the conversation.

I was going to write more but I am too tired but it is a good way to sexualize things, this way you will also know if they are down to fuck.

[Oz.]

(05-05-2016 09:12 AM)newpua Wrote:  

- Knows I like her

[Wreckingball]

(05-05-2016 11:16 AM)pitt Wrote:  

I do this all the time, the best guy I know in the game does it too.

But I never really have dreams with them, I just tell them this in order to sexualize the conversation.

I was going to write more but I am too tired but it is a good way to sexualize things, this way you will also know if they are down to fuck.

I do this to my GF from time to time.
last time (monday) i told her she was in her sexy black dress, and woke me up with a blowjob. Yesterday night she was asking me which of the black dresses was in my dream...

[Anabasis to Desta]

Used to drop the "I saw you in my dreams" line from time to time years ago.

While it does promote interest in the moment ... the intrigue rests in the fact that someone is confirming to her what she always suspected and wanted to be. A special snowflake. So special that guys actually dream about her. She'll obviously want to hear more ... details and all but it's got nothing to do with you and everything to do with her ego.

So it might work in short term scenarios. Like when you're at a bar at 1:30 am on Saturday night with a girl you've went out with once or twice but haven't been able to bang yet. The alcohol, music, grinding, sweat and lights ... add to that the dream story and it might just give that extra edge needed to take her back home with you.

Long term however, it's detrimental because you're effectively conveying that she's infiltrating your subconscious. That's like fertilizer for disrespect.

I've now switched to a similar but more effective technique. Tell a girl you were making out or dancing with another chick. "But then her fingernails (or some other obscure bodypart) reminded me of you. So i just paid for my drinks and left the bar. I need to see you. Come over".

Bitches LOVE it. "Oh my God!! What are my fingernails like?" and stuff. Mainly because it demonstrates

a. You got other options and she got competition
b. You actually pay attention to minute details about her
c. She is so special that a guy would leave another girl mid-sexual tension just to be with her.

I've used it countless times on girls i haven't seen in months for a quick booty call. But it also works on new prospects you haven't banged yet.

[newpua]

The amount of "emotional energy" I invested in this girl last year was enormous...so much that when I took a plane to visit her (in a Scandinavian country in December...I can let you imagine how dark and cold it was), just to try to get in a relationship with her, and she told me "there's already somebody else in my life", I cried (not in front of her), and was depressed for at least 1 week.

This event made me then discover the world of PUAs, and now I know I shouldn't invest too much in any girl, no matter how cute/intelligent/whatever she is...it's like investing all your savings on a single stock...retarted.

[WestIndianArchie]

Papaya in here turning a bs post into gold.

WIA