I decided to post this in game instead of lifestyle since I am more concerned about how to find THAT GIRL.
I understand that marriage is not for everyone, especially in this forum. However I came from a very traditional family from a traditional Asian country. I think there are only 2 divorces out of 100 pair of my married relatives. I am sure things are changing, but these are just my personal experiences that gave me optimism and desire to get married.
I am 44 y/o going on 45 y/o in a few months. Even at 40 y/o I was pretty stoked about picking up girls, going to Vegas, same night lays etc.
Couple events that changed since. Around 42 y/o on a dating website I met a 33 y/o tall, smart sexy blonde with large boobs. She was funny, smart, and full of energy. I thought maybe she will be the one. But she was too crazy for me. The relationship did not last. Also of note, she was an anomaly. She liked Asians. Otherwise I rarely get any bites from hot white girls on dating sites.
Since then I dated a 28 y/o that I met at a professional mixer. She has an awesome personality, but she was very sexually awkward. Due to a skin condition, she always want the lights off when having sex, and she was not very confident in bed. I never enjoyed sex with her. Although I enjoyed her company. So that didn't work out.
Last year I also picked up a 29 y/o from day game. I was her booty call. She was pretty smart and rich. She wears $800 heels. But she was crazy too. I wasn't that attracted to her either. She gets drunk and rode my cock until I was sore as hell.
I also picked up a 25 y/o from the bookstore. I adored her, but she had to go back to her country. Also she doesn't do jack with her life. No job.
Anyhow. I suppose I do end up meeting some young attractive woman. But keep in mind this is over the span of 3 years. I do bang a few girls on the side that I meet online, but I am not that proud of those. So basically a good 4-6 months would go by before I meet a girl that I think has potential. And even the, they are far from ideal.
Speaking of life events. I developed a few health problems this year. I am only allowed to drink sparingly. My major joints may also need operation. So these events woke me up to sense my own mortality. Another reason that I want to get married and pass on my legacy. If I was in perfect health I may try to ride out couple of more years of single life.
So that's it. In a nut shell. The question is where do I go from here?
I look older now. I do get disqualified by some younger girls just upon approaching. I get the best girls from day game, but is very inconsistent. The < 35 y/o girls I get from online usually are not top caliber.
Should I, continue to day game? Of course.
Online is not that great even when I lie about my age. Definitely works to get your dick wet once in a while.
What do 40+ y/o guys do to meet younger women? My impression is older successful guys usually have a lot of subordinates who try to kiss up to them by setting him up with girls. Or they are very well connected and influential that they can throw house parties and have many young women showing up. Unfortunately I lack that kind of clout. Perhaps that's something that I should work on.
I have thrown parties before but it's only the girls that I already know that show up. I even spam girls online advertising the party, and some attractive girls responded. But only one showed up, and I did go out with her the week after. She wasn't that hot in person though.
I refuse to be negative, but as I approach 45 y/o I am a bit frightened. Suggestions?
I understand that marriage is not for everyone, especially in this forum. However I came from a very traditional family from a traditional Asian country. I think there are only 2 divorces out of 100 pair of my married relatives. I am sure things are changing, but these are just my personal experiences that gave me optimism and desire to get married.
I am 44 y/o going on 45 y/o in a few months. Even at 40 y/o I was pretty stoked about picking up girls, going to Vegas, same night lays etc.
Couple events that changed since. Around 42 y/o on a dating website I met a 33 y/o tall, smart sexy blonde with large boobs. She was funny, smart, and full of energy. I thought maybe she will be the one. But she was too crazy for me. The relationship did not last. Also of note, she was an anomaly. She liked Asians. Otherwise I rarely get any bites from hot white girls on dating sites.
Since then I dated a 28 y/o that I met at a professional mixer. She has an awesome personality, but she was very sexually awkward. Due to a skin condition, she always want the lights off when having sex, and she was not very confident in bed. I never enjoyed sex with her. Although I enjoyed her company. So that didn't work out.
Last year I also picked up a 29 y/o from day game. I was her booty call. She was pretty smart and rich. She wears $800 heels. But she was crazy too. I wasn't that attracted to her either. She gets drunk and rode my cock until I was sore as hell.
I also picked up a 25 y/o from the bookstore. I adored her, but she had to go back to her country. Also she doesn't do jack with her life. No job.
Anyhow. I suppose I do end up meeting some young attractive woman. But keep in mind this is over the span of 3 years. I do bang a few girls on the side that I meet online, but I am not that proud of those. So basically a good 4-6 months would go by before I meet a girl that I think has potential. And even the, they are far from ideal.
Speaking of life events. I developed a few health problems this year. I am only allowed to drink sparingly. My major joints may also need operation. So these events woke me up to sense my own mortality. Another reason that I want to get married and pass on my legacy. If I was in perfect health I may try to ride out couple of more years of single life.
So that's it. In a nut shell. The question is where do I go from here?
I look older now. I do get disqualified by some younger girls just upon approaching. I get the best girls from day game, but is very inconsistent. The < 35 y/o girls I get from online usually are not top caliber.
Should I, continue to day game? Of course.
Online is not that great even when I lie about my age. Definitely works to get your dick wet once in a while.
What do 40+ y/o guys do to meet younger women? My impression is older successful guys usually have a lot of subordinates who try to kiss up to them by setting him up with girls. Or they are very well connected and influential that they can throw house parties and have many young women showing up. Unfortunately I lack that kind of clout. Perhaps that's something that I should work on.
I have thrown parties before but it's only the girls that I already know that show up. I even spam girls online advertising the party, and some attractive girls responded. But only one showed up, and I did go out with her the week after. She wasn't that hot in person though.
I refuse to be negative, but as I approach 45 y/o I am a bit frightened. Suggestions?