[kaotic]

Here here Dalaran - you've come a long way my friend.

Glad to hear you made a sound decision and your LTR is going great.

Here's to your year with her and many more !

[el mechanico]

Move in the nights that have no moons.

Can't say it in Greek but they say that.

[RatInTheWoods]

(04-20-2016 06:29 PM)SlickyBoy Wrote:  

Don't eliminate the possibility that it's all a setup by your LTR anyway.

This is the first thing I thought of, because I am old, wise and cynical.,

[Dalaran1991]

Forgive me, brothers, for I have sinned.

Jokes and drama aside, I think I owe people in this thread an update.

My LTR is on vacation with her family. While I have no plan of cheating on her, I do realize that my date game might have gotten rusty after a while. If I want to keep my LTR, I need to keep my game sharp even if cheating is not necessary.

I sent a mass text to see who would bite. Guess what, the girl I made this thread about responded with enthusiasm. I angled for a day date with the intention of purely practicing game without closing.

She showed up half an hour late but you cant be flaked on in Paris. I took the time to look around the neighborhood so I was in a good mood when she showed. Credits to her looking stunning on high heels and flowing curly hair despite her trashy clothes.

Opened fire with some push/pull when she said "its stunning your blazer" "thanks, so are you. At least for today" Her textbook reaction to a good neg let met know that I can proceed to escalate and comfort. Took her to my hidden lock down bar in Paris and she loved it. I made her buy the first round because she was late.

Pulled her chair over so she sat next to mine, after that my game was basically on autopilot. I was caressing her feet and thigh while running the "love test", it was working like magic.

At one moment I pulled her face over and kissed her. She let me have it but then asked "but what about your girlfriend?"

I knew that if I'm not careful with the answer I would be fucked if things go sideway. So I had to pull the "you are totally right, let's forget this ever happen" then keep doing what I was doing with the touching.

Venue bounce 3 times all to ideal location and she was following my lead as if we were LTR, but wouldn't let me kiss her again. I got my massage game back on point since I were squezzing her soft little arm and hand, and she said as if there were energy running through us.

Toward the end of the date I was biting her ear and squeezing her boobs. She resisted at first but I insisted that its great for massage and that "we're still friends" so she let me have it. So I guess it's Friend with Boobs benefits and damn if her boobs weren't explosives.

She definitely wanted to meet up again and I haven't burned any bridge.

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For me mission objectives were completed. I got to revised all my standard game and all was working as fine if not better than pre-ltr. For me that's all I need to know, that I still got it. Also got a portrait she drew for me while at a creperie.

Of course, game wise if I wanted to bang her there's a lot of things that could have been done better. Kissing on first venue isn't optimal. And day date is awesome if you want to just practice, but hogwash if you wanna close. And of course, no food should have been involved.

Strangely I dont feel any guilty at all because I'm doing this for both myself and my LTR, and that girl has enough orbiters she wont be any concerned with me leading her on or something.

If she ever want to turn this date again me, the fact that it was a day date made it a lot easier to wiggle out /deny than if it had been a night date.

No intention to take this any further other than pure curiosity to see what I can get away with. My girl is just as hot as she is and we've been a great couple.

Look, I know I'm acting like an ask-hole with no principle here, and this probably wasn't worth the trouble. Yes, I did let my ego got the better of me, that I wanted to know that I'm still as good as I ever was. Live and learn, I made my choice and I will buy what I break.

*donning armor and bracing for shots fired from WIA, Kaotic, Onto and Sam. Sorry I failed you all*

[456]

^^-- great update! Would read again.

I like the concept of "handicapping" yourself by kissing early in the day date, and just knowing that you weren't trying to bang made it that much smoother. You got a nice little lab experiment, and I tend to agree that if she has lots of orbiters, this won't stand out so hard to her as something to hold over your head.

We'll need another update in a few weeks when your girl hears about this!

[kaotic]

I'm not going to give you shit dude, you're a man, you make your own decisions.

You had the balls to execute your plans and do a write up on here.

I see the logic of it being a day date and being able to wiggle out of it.


I can't lecture you Dalaran, why ? Because when I was in with my LTR I had mini LTR's, spun plates, and had ONS's.

Why? Because it kept my game sharp, kept me sane in my relationship with her, and I didn't put her pussy on the pedestal.

Only difference was, she was never connected to any of those others girls in any way shape or form, except for maybe being at a venue or 2 where I took dates ever so often.

My only hope is that there isn't any fall out for you from this later, even if their is, you sound like you got it on lock.

[WestIndianArchie]

With comrade Kaotic on this one.
High risk, low reward.

But this is how you learn.

WIA

[Dalaran1991]

Thanks gentlemen,

High risk, low reward it was indeed. But none of this has ever been rational since the beginning.

I hope it doesn't come to that. Or I will chart this off as one of those "back when I was young and stupid"

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Interesting details: at first she was asking about my LTR non-stop, and how she really likes my girl. When I joked with her "what, you fantasizing about my girl now?" Her "Of course I do!" (waiting for circle jerks jumping in with 3-some comments )

Sound really like she has never had a proper LTR and is simply jealous at me (or anyone) being happy with a girl of her caliber.
I was pretty sure my good buddy (whose girlfriend is her BFF) slept with her too, until she said "oh x is like a brother to me"

The things you learn in one day gaming....