[XPQ22]

One thing about living in a very liberal area is that you can't swing your BPD ex girlfriend's dead cat without hitting a 20-something woman involved in social work or in college to be a social worker.

I figure they're likely a bit like nurses in that they're compassionate, usually relatively mentally stable, and have seen a lot of shit so likely aren't really uptight or get offended easily.

I had a female relative who was a social worker for some time - not all of it is about tearing families apart. Part of the time she helped manage a group home for people with mild/moderate mental illness (there are definitely some unfortunate people out there who will never be able to hack it on their own, simply due to unfortunate genetics, and for my part I think providing a safe place for them that's not an institution makes everyone better off), and other times she distributed small cash grants for fuel and auto repairs, and secondhand business clothing for clients looking for work or trying to get to job interviews.

Problem is that many of them around here probably swing feminist.

Anyone gamed social workers successfully, and what was your experience? Would you avoid simply based on ideological grounds?

[LeeEnfield303]

(03-27-2016 09:46 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Would you avoid simply based on ideological grounds?

Never. Tell them anything they want to hear, as long as you make the sale.

[General Stalin]

(03-27-2016 09:46 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Anyone gamed social workers successfully, and what was your experience? Would you avoid simply based on ideological grounds?

I dated a social worker in Boston for like 5 months. They are basic careerist type chicks with liberal/feminist views. They tend to have some pretentiousness about them because they "help people" for a living.

They likely won't see eye-to-eye with you on your personal views on relationships and gender dynamics, etc. Who cares, game them like any other girl. Nothing particularly special about them from most other city-living desk jockeys.

[The Black Knight]

Have banged out a handful of social workers:

1. Some can be really chill and easy going; some can be hardcore SJW types. You will know what you are working with real quick.

2. Almost all of them are on career paths to Nowhere-ville. Unless they go back and get a masters and work their way up, they generally have no path to paying off their debt and living anything resembling a decent life. The idealism gets them through the early years but you need to watch your ass with the late 20/early 30 ones.

A LOT them realize around the aforementioned time (similar to other groups of chicks as well):

1. They only make 35k/year and will never see any pay growth.

2. A life of living in a 1 bd or with roommates and being broke sucks.

3. They will never be able pay off their undergraduate debt.

4. The only way to move up and MAYBE make some just OK money is to go back to school and go into even more debt. But that's very risky.

5. Social worker is a pretty low status job that most people don't respect and most women as we all know, are all about titles and status.

6. Many turn bitter or become depressed because of all the aforementioned.

So what happens? They start looking for Mr. Captain Save a Broke Hoe / Mr. Rich Sperm Donor HARD. Getting a man's money via an unplanned kid and/or marriage becomes the ticket out. A lot of these chicks have nothing left to lose and getting knocked up (even by accident) and/or married would be a MASSIVE improvement in their lives. But keep in mind: the bar is set really low financially for these chicks. If you have a steady paying 70k job, you look really good in the eyes of these chicks. So don't assume these chicks are only hunting for the stereotypical big fish; a big fish is all relative to their position.

I dropped a social worker I use to bang out in part because despite being very adamant about NOT wanting to have kids, I could just see the writing on the wall in her life and know that she was one epiphany away from a "realization" about the meaning of life or something and/or "forgetting" to take her birth control.

Beyond that, you game them like every other chick. Being able to talk about "societal ills" and how we don't put enough money into social programs could be beneficial if you can come off as creditable and sincere.

[MMM]

Social workers appreciate a masculine frame. They're surrounded by women and effete SJW males. The ones who have been in the game for a while start to suffer from burnout, realizing that many of the clients are simple gaming the system. Either way, they respond well to a masculine frame.

[RatInTheWoods]

I have dabbled but the SJW views will really grate unless you are just going for a few bangs.

Search elsewhere for non SNL options is my advice

[The Beast1]

(03-27-2016 10:45 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(03-27-2016 09:46 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Anyone gamed social workers successfully, and what was your experience? Would you avoid simply based on ideological grounds?

I dated a social worker in Boston for like 5 months. They are basic careerist type chicks with liberal/feminist views. They tend to have some pretentiousness about them because they "help people" for a living.

They likely won't see eye-to-eye with you on your personal views on relationships and gender dynamics, etc. Who cares, game them like any other girl. Nothing particularly special about them from most other city-living desk jockeys.

Heee, I wonder if I know this particular social worker in question. I knew one from Boston as well and this description fits her to a T.

[Rush87]

(03-27-2016 09:46 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

One thing about living in a very liberal area is that you can't swing your BPD ex girlfriend's dead cat without hitting a 20-something woman involved in social work or in college to be a social worker.

I figure they're likely a bit like nurses in that they're compassionate, usually relatively mentally stable, and have seen a lot of shit so likely aren't really uptight or get offended easily.

I had a female relative who was a social worker for some time - not all of it is about tearing families apart. Part of the time she helped manage a group home for people with mild/moderate mental illness (there are definitely some unfortunate people out there who will never be able to hack it on their own, simply due to unfortunate genetics, and for my part I think providing a safe place for them that's not an institution makes everyone better off), and other times she distributed small cash grants for fuel and auto repairs, and secondhand business clothing for clients looking for work or trying to get to job interviews.

Problem is that many of them around here probably swing feminist.

Anyone gamed social workers successfully, and what was your experience? Would you avoid simply based on ideological grounds?

My cousin [Male] is a social worker. He is just about as left wing as they come and he slays them all. Of the dozens people he knows in the industry just about all of them are SJW's.

If you can bring yourself to listen to absolute bullshit [Re:Left wing agendas] then it's just very simple game. Most of them are sluts. I couldn't last five minutes talking to them without blowing my brains out, but if you can manage it, power to ya.

[Valentine]

Haven't seen many hardcore SJW mindsets from social workers in my area, they've mostly been the lite-version - maybe had one trip to Africa to dig a well or some shit.

Social workers who primarily work with children are quite easy to game in my experience, they're dealing with little Alphas all day but no-one who will flirt and seduce her from their masculine frame.

[Dantes]

You are over-thinking this. Teacher, social worker, lawyer....

Proceed as usual...Meet for drinks, prepare your logistics, and escalate.