[bigolteddies]

Hey guys this is my first post, i've followed Roosh and redpill stuff in general for a while now. I understand the true nature of women and all that. So I broke up with my gf 2ish weeks ago and am having some trouble getting the fuck.

Ive fucked one girl since then but I knew her from before so it was easier. I'm a senior in college and i've had no trouble flirting with girls, getting numbers and making out but it feels like im doing something wrong when I try to bring them back. I try to be pretty dominant about it, taking their hand and saying lets go to my place for more drinks and i'll usually get cockblocked or the girl will just bail.

Also it seems that when I only makeout and get her #, i lose my chance of banging at all she'll either not respond to my texts or not be dtf when i meet up again.

Chicks at my university in general are pretty entitled and bitchy so it doesn't really help. And my counts at 11 right now at 21yrs old so not great maybe I just need more practice, I do know that I can fuck really well from being in two LTR's so once I fuck a girl she comes back for more.

[fitness2569]

Don't makeout with girls in situations/locations that cannot lead to sex. Only makeout with girls when in your room or her room where you know you won't be cockblocked . I'm a senior in college too. My advice with improving your escalation is to travel. When you travel you deal with different types of girls and tend to pick up on cues that you might don't otherwise notice when you stay in the same city.

[bigolteddies]

(10-07-2017 10:07 PM)fitness2569 Wrote:  

Don't makeout with girls in situations/locations that cannot lead to sex. Only makeout with girls when in your room or her room where you know you won't be cockblocked . I'm a senior in college too. My advice with improving your escalation is to travel. When you travel you deal with different types of girls and tend to pick up on cues that you might don't otherwise notice when you stay in the same city.

Youve had better success with waiting to escalate until she's in your room? My thought process is I want my intentions to be obvious (ie if she wont kiss me she probably won't fuck me either), i'll try it out, you still touch her though right like holding her hand and grabbing her waist? I couldn't imagine having no touch at all and securing a bang.

I'd agree with the travel advice, i'm sure i'd love going to places like se asia, south america and eastern europe based on everything i've heard from roosh and this forum.

thanks for the advice, currently have a girl coming over tonight who ive smashed before, she's kinda fat but has huge tits and i need to bust a nut lol

[redbeard]

1. This should be in the newbie forum

2. Please fix your spelling & grammar before Tuthmosis comes from the grave to ban you

3. Fitness2569 hit the nail on the head. Based on the small sample of data we have, the make-out is the only variable we can identify right now.

When I was a college and when I go back to game, I'll make out with girls in the bar. This is because most of these college places are absolute shit shows, where people are grinding and making out all over the place in a drunken haze, so it's normal.

I also went to school in New Orleans, where bars don't close, so the "pull" would happen between 2-3 AM, it's dark and everyone's looking for a connection.

Your college bars might be different, especially if they're closing early and everybody's not black out drunk.

Better yet - try making out with them, but only as a gesture. Make out with her for all of 30 seconds, in a private area of the bar or outside, then go back and socialize some more. At this point she's "yours," your intentions are clear, all it takes is the actual pull.

4. Try to change your approach for the actual pull. "Let's get the fuck out of here" is a line I use, it implies sex with the "fuck" but doesn't say "hey we're going to my place to fuck." It gives them a little closure that you're just leaving. Then you just head to your place...don't say anything or ask for permission to bring her home.

5. What's your follow-up to go for a day 2? If you're trying to actually date girls in college this could be a big no no.

6. Keep your nose to the grindstone. You're two weeks into the game. Give it a few years and you'll come back and laugh at this thread

[bigolteddies]

(10-07-2017 10:56 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

When I was a college and when I go back to game, I'll make out with girls in the bar. This is because most of these college places are absolute shit shows, where people are grinding and making out all over the place in a drunken haze, so it's normal.

I also went to school in New Orleans, where bars don't close, so the "pull" would happen between 2-3 AM, it's dark and everyone's looking for a connection.

Your college bars might be different, especially if they're closing early and everybody's not black out drunk.

Better yet - try making out with them, but only as a gesture. Make out with her for all of 30 seconds, in a private area of the bar or outside, then go back and socialize some more. At this point she's "yours," your intentions are clear, all it takes is the actual pull.

The bars close at 2 here and you're right it may not be that much of a shit-show. Usually I do that; i'll kiss her for 30 seconds then pull away and go back to talking.

(10-07-2017 10:56 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

4. Try to change your approach for the actual pull. "Let's get the fuck out of here" is a line I use, it implies sex with the "fuck" but doesn't say "hey we're going to my place to fuck." It gives them a little closure that you're just leaving. Then you just head to your place...don't say anything or ask for permission to bring her home.

More direct and less beta I like that line.

(10-07-2017 10:56 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

5. What's your follow-up to go for a day 2? If you're trying to actually date girls in college this could be a big no no.

I've had just about enough dating for college. Say I meet a girl on Friday night and get her number, I would text her on Saturday to see if she's going out or invite her to a party. They're usually responsive to this but then really flaky.

(10-07-2017 10:56 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

6. Keep your nose to the grindstone. You're two weeks into the game. Give it a few years and you'll come back and laugh at this thread

Thanks, I was a virgin up until college and i've consistently gotten hotter and hotter girls. Hopefully it won't be too long until I can consistently pull quality 8's/9's.