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Quickest way to identify Validation seekers/Attention Whores?
03-14-2016, 02:22 PM
First, online. How quickly can you identify these types of girls? No digits and she quickly directs you to IG or Snap?
Second, field. How frequently she wants to talk? Only texts?
Thanks in advance for any input.
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Quickest way to identify Validation seekers/Attention Whores?
03-14-2016, 02:33 PM
Pretty hard if you haven't chatted with her. But when you do, if she sends you a lot of pictures and talks about herself a lot, that's a red flag, especially if she is "busy" to go out.
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Quickest way to identify Validation seekers/Attention Whores?
03-14-2016, 02:37 PM
Online is simple. If she refuses to give her number after 3-4 messages, she's not serious. If on Whatsapp she refuses to meet after another 2-3 messages, she's not serious.
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03-14-2016, 02:37 PM
For online, if they have their IG or Snapchat in the profile, especially at the top, you can be one hundred percent sure she's a vapid attention whore. They know that they will accrue plenty of thirsty followers just from having that posted on a dating site. I've started to think many make profiles specifically for that purpose.
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03-14-2016, 03:56 PM
Quote: (03-14-2016 03:21 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:
Quote: (03-14-2016 02:37 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:
For online, if they have their IG or Snapchat in the profile, especially at the top, you can be one hundred percent sure she's a vapid attention whore. They know that they will accrue plenty of thirsty followers just from having that posted on a dating site. I've started to think many make profiles specifically for that purpose.
I'm not old but I started perusing these things a few months back and relatively quickly found that the IG and snapchat direct was a huge follower move. What's in it for them, just validation or do they get some sort of supposed notoriety on these things? I refuse to even delve into instagram.
What about the young(er) girls that chat and even give up digits but send snaps and chats about sex and nudes. Just a thrill? I had one even recently proactively ask about meeting up, but of course something came up or there was confusion, etc. LOL
If you're getting sent nudes and girls are wanting to meet up, I'd think it's safe to say they're after more than just attention, though that is a part of it. Close the deal!
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03-14-2016, 03:59 PM
Kik, IG, or Snapchat being in their profiles. As for real life, you can tell the airheads quickly as they are glued to their phones like Geordi LaForge is glued to his visor....
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03-14-2016, 05:33 PM
1) If they don't give up the digits
2) If they do give up the digits and are hitting you up via text too often
3) Their profile is littered with pics and has an extensive who-gives-a-fuck bio.
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03-16-2016, 03:43 AM
If they say they are a "part-time model". Total bullshit 10/10 times and they are just setting themselves up for thirsty guys to compliment them.
I enjoy when they link their Instagram to their dating profile because it provides an extra layer of security against whales.
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