I have always been helping buddies to learn how to pick up girls just for fun, but after I started reading the PUA forums again last year I realized my game is better than 95% of the guys teaching this stuff. Recently I spent some time writing down my tips and tricks and started offering my services as a pickup coach. Over the last week I have been working with my first client.
Oswald is a guy in his early 50s from the US. He grew up in a conservative religious household and was actively discouraged from interacting with women on a romantic level. He is a decent looking guy, tall and slender with thinning hair. My teaching is 100% in the field, so the first things we did were get him to the salon to get tidied up, went shopping for some new clothes, then went downtown to walk and talk while checking out the ladies. I explained the basic concepts about how to recognize indicators of interest, eye contact, and how to approach and begin a conversation, then took him to meet some of my female friends so he could get warmed up.
I had him go out in the field alone for the last couple days, but tonight my date fell through so we went to the park to hang out. In this short time he has gotten several numbers and even had a Day 2 with a tall, pretty Latina 20 years younger than him. He mentioned that once he understood the IOIs he started noticing more women checking him out, but tonight I walked with him and every time I saw a girl giving us a glance I had him approach.
This guy Oswald is an approach machine. With him having never done this before I am amazed at how fearless he is stepping up to any girl I point out. I mean he pounces like a hungry dog on a Milkbone. Not only that, but he keeps the conversation flowing and the girls engaged, then comes back 10 or 20 minutes later with a smile on his face and a new number in his phone.
I would like to think it is my awesome technique that is responsible, but it is like this was inside him all the time and it just took a bit of coaching to bring it out. It was great sitting on the park bench tonight recapping after the session, seeing him smiling and knowing that his future will be full of those lovely ladies he always wanted but now he can have.
Oswald is a guy in his early 50s from the US. He grew up in a conservative religious household and was actively discouraged from interacting with women on a romantic level. He is a decent looking guy, tall and slender with thinning hair. My teaching is 100% in the field, so the first things we did were get him to the salon to get tidied up, went shopping for some new clothes, then went downtown to walk and talk while checking out the ladies. I explained the basic concepts about how to recognize indicators of interest, eye contact, and how to approach and begin a conversation, then took him to meet some of my female friends so he could get warmed up.
I had him go out in the field alone for the last couple days, but tonight my date fell through so we went to the park to hang out. In this short time he has gotten several numbers and even had a Day 2 with a tall, pretty Latina 20 years younger than him. He mentioned that once he understood the IOIs he started noticing more women checking him out, but tonight I walked with him and every time I saw a girl giving us a glance I had him approach.
This guy Oswald is an approach machine. With him having never done this before I am amazed at how fearless he is stepping up to any girl I point out. I mean he pounces like a hungry dog on a Milkbone. Not only that, but he keeps the conversation flowing and the girls engaged, then comes back 10 or 20 minutes later with a smile on his face and a new number in his phone.
I would like to think it is my awesome technique that is responsible, but it is like this was inside him all the time and it just took a bit of coaching to bring it out. It was great sitting on the park bench tonight recapping after the session, seeing him smiling and knowing that his future will be full of those lovely ladies he always wanted but now he can have.