[Jagnum]

There are strategies for dealing with LMR — involving playing cold when she resists.

Those are reactive strategies. You’re reacting to her resistance.

What about proactive strategies in the bedroom? Turning her on while you both are sitting there, so she wants to have sex.

“You fuckin’ love it when I suck your tits/bite your neck/run my finger down your spine”

Placing your hands firmly on her hips, with the thump opposing the other fingers so your thumbs both point to her pussy.

Playing with her tits like you don’t care.

Once you’re having sex, you can call her all sorts of dirty names that she’ll love.

But before you have sex, while she’s on your bed, what do you say (or do) that you’ve found reliably will turn a girl on in the bedroom?

[PapayaTapper]

When I encounter LMR I just revert to "virgin game". If she wont let me take off her panties I take off my pants and put her hand on my boner and make her rub it through my underwear. This usually gets them comfortable and turned on. Has worked for me since high school. I posted this in another thread where a member was trying to bang a virgin:

(09-01-2015 12:10 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(09-01-2015 07:51 AM)captndonk Wrote:  

Met again yesterday. She helped me to move flat. Later we kissed and I tried to undress her, but she fought back hard. Eventually I gave it up and felt asleep and she left.
But few days ago I had sex with a different girl, also 19 years old.

You're still going directly for the pussy and it's not going to work. (At least not for a long time) Like rudeboy says she's obviously into you or else why would she keep coming back?

Stop trying to take her clothes off Of course she's resisting when you try to take her clothes off Why would expect her to do anything different? If you keep doing the same thing you will get the same result It's only logical

Stop trying to take her clothes off

I'm telling you how to do this. This is virgin banging 101

1. Lay down in bed to watch a movie

2. Get down to your underwear (boxer shorts...if your wearing nut huggers thats another problem altogether anyway). Its your place and you can get comfortable if you want. Your clothes NOT hers

3. Start making out with her, kiss her neck, ...all the stuff she's now letting you do

4. Rub your hard on against her leg

5. While still kissing her take her hand and put it on your hard on and let her get used to and excited by touching.

6. If she pulls her hand away just keep kissing her and just pull out your tool and start rubbing one out. If she stops you just give her the "I'm a man, youre a woman, blue ball speech" I laid out for you before.

7. If she doesn't help you but lets you keep kissing then just grab her hand and put it on your johnson. If she doesn't want to help you just rub it out yourself and shoot your load on her.

The whole idea is to escalate her touching you. (Not escalate by touching her or getting her clothes off). This will both get her comfortable with the idea AND get her turned on. Like I said before once you get her to touch it once that's all she will think about until the next time she comes back.

Im summary Stop trying to take her clothes off and go for the handjob.

Repeat after me

I will not be getting the pussy before I get a handjob

I will not be getting the pussy before I get a handjob

I will not be getting the pussy before I get a handjob

....

[realologist]

You should be turning the girl on before you ever hit the bedroom. Set the mood from the moment you meet up with her.

Hug her. Let your hand linger on the small of her back. Gently Play footsie under the table. Whisper in her ear when you speak to her to let her feel your breath on her neck. Lead her the entire night by her hand.

Make her FEEL the sexual energy and tension that you build up. Then kiss her strongly. Make that kiss just long enough to build the sexual tension even higher. Then the only way to release that raw sexual energy they feel is through sex with you.

[Captain Gh]

No matter how experienced you are with pussy, being a bit too eager to BANG can too easily be misinterpreted by her as you being needy, even if you're not. Therefore, instead of turning her own, you make her pussy dryer. LMR is the moment that I don't fuck around and stick to the basics that I've learned from the heavyweight of this forum. LMR success = If it ain't broken, don't fix it for me.

[eradicator]

I can add on to this, while making out and it gets heavier and I get aroused, I say "can you feel that" or "don't tell me you can't tell how hard you're getting me",

You can say things like "your skirt is in the way, I'm taking it off" and when she is partly undressed, I often get resistance on the panties. I assume we all do, girls don't want to feel like a slut.

[RatInTheWoods]

(05-20-2016 04:56 PM)eradicator Wrote:  

I often get resistance on the panties. I assume we all do, girls don't want to feel like a slut.

I've had some epic battles at the panties stage... Some won, some lost.

Somethings are out of our control, there are factors about her we don't know.

Bring your A-game, and don't despair if it doesn't happen this time, if you get to the panties this time, its golden next time.

Remember the "Three Date Kate" rule usually holds.

[Oilrig]

I can confirm that the hand on cock trick works every time. It might not always lead to a bang, but it's almost always a guaranteed blowjob. Some girls won't have sex on the first or second date because of principle or morals, but even the most pure of girls will give head on a first date because they like to make the man feel good. Also to feed their own ego of being sexy enough to make a guy cum.

[DimeBait]

(02-28-2016 02:29 PM)realologist Wrote:  

You should be turning the girl on before you ever hit the bedroom. Set the mood from the moment you meet up with her.

Hug her. Let your hand linger on the small of her back. Gently Play footsie under the table. Whisper in her ear when you speak to her to let her feel your breath on her neck. Lead her the entire night by her hand.

Make her FEEL the sexual energy and tension that you build up. Then kiss her strongly. Make that kiss just long enough to build the sexual tension even higher. Then the only way to release that raw sexual energy they feel is through sex with you.

Word up!

[XPQ22]

(05-21-2016 11:04 AM)Oilrig Wrote:  

I can confirm that the hand on cock trick works every time. It might not always lead to a bang, but it's almost always a guaranteed blowjob. Some girls won't have sex on the first or second date because of principle or morals, but even the most pure of girls will give head on a first date because they like to make the man feel good. Also to feed their own ego of being sexy enough to make a guy cum.

Can confirm. I've been on several first dates where sex didn't happen, but I got the BJ (including one of the hottest chicks I've ever met up with from online game), because I was wise enough to not go full blast trying to bust through LMR, but pulled back at the right moment and almost a feeling of guilt kicked in. I believe that some girls in my demographic, late 20s early 30s, simply will not bang on the first date, no matter how much you turn her on.

"Well, he took me out and we had a great time, he turned me on so much that I invited him up to my apartment, and now we're just going to sit here? It doesn't really count anyway, I suppose the least I could do..."

In fact to my mind if a girl comes back to your place or you go to hers on a first date and she slams up so severely that she won't even consider that, it's an enormous red flag. There was one girl who invited me back to her place after a first date and then put up a lot of LMR and only gave me a handjob, but I decided to give her one more shot. The second time out she invited me back in the same fashion, but put up even more extreme LMR, even going so far as to claim she had a yeast infection and saying "I shouldn't have done that" regarding our first night. That was worthy of an immediate next.

[Oilrig]

XPQ agree with you about it being a red flag if a chick won't at least give you head on the first date. Especially if she goes back to your place or you go to hers. It means she's selfish. Or if a chick will give you head but demands you eat her out also. Next!

[XPQ22]

(05-23-2016 10:15 PM)Oilrig Wrote:  

XPQ agree with you about it being a red flag if a chick won't at least give you head on the first date. Especially if she goes back to your place or you go to hers. It means she's selfish. Or if a chick will give you head but demands you eat her out also. Next!

The "8" who wouldn't have sex with me but was willing to give me head didn't have to ask a a damn thing. I just pulled her panties off and went beast mode on her and enjoyed every minute of it.

I found out later the reason she wouldn't fuck on the first date was simply because...she was cheating. One has to be somewhat sensitive to situations.

I eventually had to next her because while she seemed like she might be down for a second meet, she kept changing her mind back and forth to the point I figured it wasn't worth the risk. I guess she had been in a relationship for a while and had read "50 Shades of Grey" at some point - she wanted to be dominated and humiliated. I had fantasies for a while of calling her a "cheating online slut" while I banged her, but eventually reason won out and I deleted her number. Oh well. A man can dream.

[The Black Knight]

One of the best LMR/"we are not having sex" tactics I have found from experience is to say something along the lines of the following:

Her: "We are not having sex tonight"

You: "That's fine but I still want to get you off."

Her: "Well... I'm not sure..."

You: "I'll keep my pants on. I know you want to get off."

Her: "Alright"

*Finger bang chick and make her cum hard at least 1-3 times*

At this point, you can do one of two things:

1) After you are done, just go back to sitting on the couch/laying on the bed like nothing happened.

OR

2) Escalate right before/after she cums hard (she will be giving signals in all likelihood), whip it out, and fuck her silly. Highest probability of success I've found is to push it after she has already cum once and is close to coming a second time. She got hers already (so, likely feeling a bit guilty/in debt to you) and is close to getting a second female nut and therefore, VERY turned on in the heat of the moment. Only the most ultra disciplined woman and/or Grade-A Cunt Donkey can still say no to some cock at that particularly point.

In the former case, the girl will likely feel at a minimum guilty that she got off multiple times and if she likes you even the slightest bit, she is NOT going to want to leave you hanging. I had a girl one time give me the "we are not having sex" line before and giving me significant LMR. Told her I'd get her off and when I was all done finger banging her, I just layed on the bed like nothing happened; none of my clothes came off. A few minutes afterwards laying in same bed but not even touching:

Her: "There is something I really want to do but I'm not sure if I should."

Me: "Well, if you don't do it and miss the opportunity, you will probably regret it. Most people do when it comes to things like that."

30 seconds later she is taking my pants off for me and gets within an centimeter of sitting on my cock until she realizes we need a condom. Grabbed one real quick and then she fucked me like it was her last fuck on Earth. We broke the bed frame that night.

In the latter case, a girl will likely get so turned on by getting finger banged like a pro that she will be overwhelmed by all the feelings at that particular moment and likely will be begging for cock inside her. Had another girl one time give me hard LMR. After what must have been hours (felt like it anyway), I told her I'd finger-bang her and keep my clothes on. "I still want to get you off; I enjoy it."

After the second time she came, she yelled, "I want you inside me right now!" So I bent that slut over and rawdogged her Polish-American ass until she got 400 tablespoons of Black Knight Man Juice inside her.

Slight variation: You can also just say right before the chick is about cum a 2nd time: "I gonna put it inside" and it's pretty rare you get shot down in the heat of the moment.

That all said:

If a girl accepts an offer by you to get her off and DOESN'T return the favor sexually in some capacity before you leave the house, she is a real deal selfish cunt of epic proportions. On very rare occasion, I've had chicks pull that bullshit and I don't care who the cunt is, what she looks like, or whatever, but that twat gets auto-deleted from my phone the moment I walk out the door.

[pialox]

Turning her on starts from the moment you meet. It's a dance, it's a game.

The idea is to enjoy the process for what it is. She is there with you, so you know there is a possibility of banging you just want to make sure she wants it more than you do and ensure you are the best player on the field.

You gotta play the game, so you might as well enjoy it.

Majority of the time during a date/meet/whatever I don't say anything sexual at all. And as a result barely receive any LMR.

It's generally implied that she knows I want to fuck her based on my actions, escalating physically, mannerisms, cheeky comments, push/pull etc. Girls know whats up and if you can do the dance well enough she will slide out of her panties quicker than you can say Little Dark.

Once you've got her in bed, you just keep the push/pull up until she can't take it anymore.

Plus it's fun as fuck watching them squirm when you make them wait for the D

[DD2015]

Yeah, if she's not getting wet by the time you get to the bedroom, something is wrong.