[Sigma]

I've mentioned it in a different thread but I usually have a rotation of 4-5. Now before you scoff I want to make a few disclaimers.

The girls in my rotation are not treated like girlfriends. The only activity I participate in other than sex is dinner. Also for the most part I try not to spend the night with them after the bang.

I sometimes meet 1 girl twice in a week but not often, it's usually a weekly, biweekly, mixed roster.

Like other posters have mentioned, attrition is present but I balance it out by constantly keeping a lookout for fresh talent. A few times I ended up outpacing the rate of attrition (the planets aligned) and had a rotation of 8, which got silly, quick.

I keep my rotation this way because at the moment I don't want anything resembling a ltr so I definitely don't need 2 or worse 3 of those.
If I was going about it as a rotation of semi-girlfriends I think 2 would be good for me. A wife and mistress seems like a good setup. Or even better, trophy wife and secretary (prenup included of course).

[Rawmeo]

I don't have any "hard limit", but my soft limit is around 4-5. There comes a time where you have so many that you have to spend a few weeks without seeing low-shelf ones, who end up fading away. At 4 or 5 lizards, you can spin them all around and make them all feel "unique".

[Bushido]

An underrated aspect of living in Japan is the ease of managing a harem. You can easily juggle 5-10 girls at a time.

J-girls are lower maintenance than other nationalities. 2-3 texts a day is more than enough for them. They almost never call and are generally down with meeting once every 7-14 days. The only real limit is your time and energy.

[Distant Light]

Coming out of my 1st monogamous relationship all I can say is YOU GUYS ARE CRAZY!!! How do you handle 2-3 women?

My "dynamics" were different when I was single and living it up.

For the most part, my sex life was heavily influenced by my pornstar friend who broke down her sex life on her birthday. Essentially what ended up happening was that I was always "on call"...
- Most women could "hit me up" for sex and if I was free I'd just hookup
- I had fuckbuddies that I seen 1x every 1 to 3 months

That was it...

The sweet spot is when you have 50 to 100 women, practically everyday you'll have a girl wanting to hookup. Anything beyond that and it starts to get intense. In the end...
- I never thought about sex
- I focused on hanging with friends and supporting them on their bday or whatever creative project/events they had
- I could choose to have sex before or after going out
- Each "social outing" I was meeting new women
- Some women got boyfriends...disappeared...Broke up and hit me back up as if they were "away traveling"

As much as my monogamous relationship was, the KEY thing that makes being single better is the fact that I never argued or dealt with women's darkside. When single, if I wanted sex I just had sex and continued on with my life.

P.S...When it comes to quality all my circles that I rolled with consisted of nothing but above average women so ALL WOMEN were quality on some level. Back then, I used to choose women like I chose food. If I wanted some big tits in my face I knew who to bang. Want an eccentric hipster I knew which social circle to hang with. Maybe another euro model with an exotic face well 3 days in the top venue will be sufficient enough.

P.S.S...I personally love my "downtime" and the fact that I don't have to keep in touch with anyone. Literally, one chick I took home with me who I've known for awhile. Have not spoken to her in about a year or 2 now. There was no issue or problems just simply fact that I'm like an escort "on call" I don't need to be hitting up chicks or trying to hookup.

[straightarrow]

I say as many as I can handle.
Like 3 or 4 on a rotation basis like a week or two cycle.
My take is some give great blow jobs.
Some fuck really good..blow job not so much.
Some do anal give great blow jobs their pussy is tasteless and they are cool to be around. They are the 10 percent of all women. When I find one of them I fuck them like its a sport. Do them in every way like its the last time I will see them.
Edit to side note.
Txt a girl back and forth for like a month. Met her pretty blonde and she was all over me. Told me over drinks that she watched porn at work. Im like no way. Later she is all over me and has my cock in her hand in my car. No bang though.
Fast forward 2 weeks and we set up a time to hook up.
Same day we are to hook up a young 24yo I know calls me and says she is bored and wants a drink. Im like great meet me here at x. We meet and she has a ok friend with her maybe a 6 she is a solid 8.
Anyway one thing leads to another and we leave and both try to fuck me limp. Well they got me on a good day and I or we had a good time. One kissing me while the other blew me or fucked me. I was solid sweat and they left happy.
Now later at night I met up with girl number one. Had drinks and man this chick had a pretty face hair and great lips. Drank some and went back to my house and I had to hit the head. Came out and she was already in bed and ready. Lets say I dont remember much of that night. My dick was only half happy as the 2 college girls killed it earlier. 3 in one day was to many to enjoy fully.

[cascadecombo]

(02-13-2016 07:44 AM)Stimulus Wrote:  

(02-13-2016 06:07 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  

You can have more than 3, if the others are in different cities and/or countries and you don't see them as often.

A girl you bang once every 1-2 months isn't part of your harem. I don't know if there's a defined rule of thumb regarding when you can speak of a harem but in my opinion a girl is part of your harem when you get to fuck her at least once every 5 days or so. More often if you 'allow' her more of your time.

That is exactly what I would consider as part of mine. Keeping 4-5 it's only natural you see some girls once a month or every 2 months. So long as when schedules meet up they are down, that is all that matters.