I'm on the OCD side of the spectrum - I can't stand women who are out of shape or talk ugly or dykey, but as a result I usually avoid trying to pick up on women unless they're the essence of femininity.
However I think I take this too far, and sometimes I end up using it as an excuse to not approach a woman who's a 6 or so out of 10 even if she really isn't that bad comparatively speaking.
I've also noticed that the guys who are real casanovas aren't as concerned about "looks" in the long run - they have standards but they don't exclusively talk to the "really hot ones", the guys who do that are usually subpar players and it's really more about their ego.
So where do you draw the line, especially in this modern world where so many women are at least slightly overweight, or talk and cuss like truckers? I don't want to develop unrealistic ideals but I still want to have standards unlike the guys who'll jump at the chance to sleep with any drunk 3/10 woman at the club. Thoughts?
However I think I take this too far, and sometimes I end up using it as an excuse to not approach a woman who's a 6 or so out of 10 even if she really isn't that bad comparatively speaking.
I've also noticed that the guys who are real casanovas aren't as concerned about "looks" in the long run - they have standards but they don't exclusively talk to the "really hot ones", the guys who do that are usually subpar players and it's really more about their ego.
So where do you draw the line, especially in this modern world where so many women are at least slightly overweight, or talk and cuss like truckers? I don't want to develop unrealistic ideals but I still want to have standards unlike the guys who'll jump at the chance to sleep with any drunk 3/10 woman at the club. Thoughts?