[nosa]

I have been on a journey to improve myself for a while and I've done some good work so far.
I succeeded in getting rid of most of my approach anxiety, next I was able to approach easily but I lacked social skills and always had a needy vibe when I interact with girls. Recently, with practice I overcame that and I now have good conversation without the girl the girl getting grossed out with my neediness. I'm tall, good looking and I get alot of girls staring and sometimes approach me (only in clubs and parties). During the day time in college, girls show interest by looking and smiling or a naughty look but the moment I show interest by approaching them and talking for about 5 mins , all that sexy vibe/energy is GONE!!!...they still talk but in a manner like I'm a kid or an innocent puppy!
The only way I make them want me is by never approaching them or showing any form of interest

[Silver_Tube]

It sounds like you are in your head too much and are second guessing your every move.

Try to enjoy yourself a little more, keep approaching until it gets comfortable and fun. Act on instinct instead of analysis. If you still have to think about this shit then you haven't been doing it for long enough.

When people make posts with this theme of trying so hard but getting nowhere, it usually means they didn't try as hard as they said they were or are expecting returns too early. Our strategies don't work like a get rich quick scheme.

[h3ltrsk3ltr]

How many approaches have you done?

Is this night game? Day game? Are you drunk/drinking when you do them? Do you just bombard them with your interest or do you pick up on an interested vibe?

Can you detail an approach for us?

Be honest.

[nosa]

An example was a girl who I met in my first semester of class, we were cool then but later in second semester I saw her once and she gave me her number, I promised to text her later but I forgot for about a week, she adds me on snapchat and she's always the first person to view anything I post. I later ask her what he schedule was like and she said she's free on Friday evening , so I said we should hangout then but she never replied. ....Friday evening I hit her up about our plans and she said she's busy and can't come. I immediately stopped texting her since then (about a month ).
I met another girl A recently who tried talking to me while I was trying to get to know another girl B in class (lol) . I didn't give her too much attention because I felt the girl (B) that I was trying to get to know was a better chance (turned out girl B had a bf). However when girl A stopped trying to talk (probably felt I was more into girl A) she still gave me strong eye contact and pornstar type of smile (like an evil smile on a cute chick) . So me knowing girl B has a boyfriend , I approached A when she was leaving class and and got her to remind me of her name and I introduced myself officially. Next day I sit with her and talked , b4 she leaves I get her number.
Later that night I shoot her a text saying I couldn't get to know her more in class and said we should hang during the weekend, but she said she's busy during the weekend and said she'll let me know when she isn't busy....havn't heard from her since.... (Friday)....I however thinking I should ask her to come to my house mate's party this Saturday .

[h3ltrsk3ltr]

Nah, there will be other girls at the party, right?

There are a lot of threads here on texting and college game. I suggest you study them.

Don't target individual chicks, college is spray and pray. Just develop a cool, flirtatious and social attitude. Work on being someone that people enjoy being around and work the social circle game.

Lean back, relax.