[Jtguthrie12]

I walked into a kickback started playing beerpong. One girl looked pretty familiar and i kept locking eyes with her but then i took a dab cuz it looked like some guy was with her and it was late and i figured why not. We were playing and then i realized the girl i just played was the girl i made out with and partially hooked up with at a frat house a month ago and it all made sense after that. At this point i was high as shit and wasnt sure how to play it as some other guy was all over her. I wanted to swoop in but i wasn't positive on the type of reaction i would get. As she left i asked her "we have met before haven't we?" she nodded kept the eyes locked, said yes and my suspicions were confirmed and she left.

What would you guys have done to just swoop in and make her realize you are the dude she should be flirting with? I feel like maybe im just too self conscious about what other people would think if i just stepped forward and tried to put the moves on her in front of everyone before we left. I probably should have just not given a fuck and butted in but that felt like too far but i also feel like that just means i need to learn to be ballsier. Is there any tips you have in doing this? I'm bummed cuz i wanted to hook up with her but it just didn't work out that way tn. I understand abundance but lately i have been in a dry spell where every interaction seems to just not work i am actively learning and applying ideas to learn and i know eventually ill get it but any tips to exponentiate the process would be appreciated.

ALSO If you live in Chico CA hmu so we can go out and game.

[262]

Let's get an idea of your starting point.

Age? (My guess is high school, maybe college, judging by your lack of punctuation - start using it by the way, the above was hard to read)

Height and weight? (Be as specific as you feel comfortable on a public forum)

What Game materials have you read?

[Jtguthrie12]

Sorry man, i'm still fairly inebriated. I'm a 22 year old 6 3' 175 lbs Caucasian in College. I have read half of Bang and half of Day Bang. I have payed alot of attention to Simple Pickup Project GO but have just recently discovered this forum. I also have a friend in my city that is a complete boss that i am trying to learn from. Also, I used to be much better at this so good to the point of i got a girlfriend for 2 years and forgot everything. -_- i have gotten laid since then a few times but not on a consistent go out to party and pick up a girl almost every time state to which i want. (my friend i mentioned previously does this consistently every time he goes out)

[262]

Welcome to the forum.

The list below isn't going to instantly get you that one girl (nothing will), but it will get you girls like her later:

1) Stop getting drunk or high. Slightly buzzed on special occasions is ok, but my guess is you know these things aren't exactly working like the "liquid courage" and "friendly weed" they're supposed to be. When you go to parties, have fun by talking to people rather than doing these things. On beer pong, for instance, chat up girls and guys while watching others play, rather than getting drunk by playing it. Obvious topics: the beer pong game you're watching, classes, people you know, and campus events.

2) Finish reading Bang and Day Bang.

3) If you can get away from your college area, approach 100 girls there. If you can't get away, join some campus groups that interest you.

4) In situations where you can make small-talk, do it, like if you're on an elevator with other people.

5) Start lifting and eating right by getting informed - you're almost certainly skinny. I personally went with the book "Scrawny to Brawny" since it teaches you how to lift AND eat (diet is roughly 50% of lifting results).

6) Dress better, if you haven't already. I personally went with the book "Details: Men's Style Manual." This change is probably the easiest bang for your buck on this list, especially against your hoodie-wearing competition.

7) Hopefully you majored in something that's going to get you a job beyond Starbucks barista, but if not, look into the military. Get that money. (Not necessarily for the girls, but because putting a bit of distance between yourself and starvation/homelessness is always good for your Game).

Expect all of the above to produce results only in about six months to a year. Do it right though, and with your height, girls like the one you're thinking about will be in your grasp.

[Jtguthrie12]

1. Thank you man, yea i wasnt smoking all night until then cuz it was 3 am and i figured i was going to go to sleep soon. But i really want to work on getting girls without the crutch of drinking.

2. Okay i will finish those this month.

3. SO to clarify approach 100 girls at my college campus or outside of it?

4 okay

5.I will check that out, this is probably the hardest for me since im working off a budget since im a poor college student haha.

6. I have been trying to dress better, button ups leather jackets etc.

7. Well im still going to college right now and im majoring in communication so there are alot of different options from that major i believe.

But would you have said something to try to swoop in and remind her of when we made out and stuff at a party?

Thanks for the advice man

[262]

(01-10-2016 02:49 PM)Jtguthrie12 Wrote:  

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3. SO to clarify approach 100 girls at my college campus or outside of it?
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7. Well im still going to college right now and im majoring in communication so there are alot of different options from that major i believe.

But would you have said something to try to swoop in and remind her of when we made out and stuff at a party?

Thanks for the advice man

On 3, outside of it. Unless your campus is huge, if you do this on campus, you'll be approaching girls who you'll run into at various college events. Awkward.

On 7, quite frankly, I think you're going to be painfully surprised when you actually start looking for jobs, and especially the associated compensation. Computer programming, accounting, and engineering are where the money's at (and the military will pay YOU to take their training).

This decision will affect you financially for the rest of your life.

As for the girl, the first answer is to forget about her. But if I were you, I would've casually walked by her and the other guy, then turned around and act surprised to see her, and then joke, "Hey, I know you! We made out and then you disappeared on me! I'm not a piece of meat, you know!" (Classic flip-the-script)

Now forget about her and go build yourself.

[Jtguthrie12]

Okay its hard because my whole town is a college town so literally everyone is going to the college despite where you meet them. but ill try my best. ill go out tomorrow purely just to talk to girls.

Okay yea i have heard alot of people cant find their jobs. ill look into it. But i also dont want to do something i completely hate.

Thats perfect. yea i dont care about her she is just a girl but i like figuring out what i should have done so i can apply it in the future.