[PainPositive]

Muscle is not what I'm talking about. Confidence, balls, bravery, mental toughness, intestinal fortitude, a give no fucks attitude. Can't buy it.

I'll assume your death threat was a "what if". Some of the most academic people I know are brainless morons. It's the doers that win. Athletics develops the traits listed above. Academics doesn't.

[Sidney Crosby]

(01-08-2016 11:49 PM)Dr. Kahn Wrote:  

I agree.

But i am naturally cocky and don't take shit from anybody. I assert myself. The average success i have had with women comes from these attitudes, i think.

I will tell you a little story.

A few weeks ago, my friends and I went to this eatery that has this open atmosphere vibe. I will admit that when we walked in, some of my friends were carrying their bookpack on their back to a restaurant/nightclub. (some of them goes to M.I.T, getting ph.d in Physical chemistry.)

Let me be the first to admit just how supremely nerdy and uncool that is.

Here is what happened:

The waiter/host directed us to an obscure corner of the place, far from sight, we went pass multiple open, available tables(she didn't have us sit there), instead she herded us to an obscure corner and have us sit on the cement bricks that partially constitute the fence of the area. She won't even have us sit at a table!

I was furious.

This is what i did: I stared at her when we got to the location where she wanted us to sit down. With a look of "you gotta be kidding me". Then, brush past her and went and sit at a roundtable right in the middle of the entire open restaurant scene. Center stage.

I am Doctor fucking Kahn. I went to xyz school. I am not going to sit on a fucking concrete block out of sight, because of some nice pair of tits think so. Fuck this shit. I will take center stage. My friends were hesistant at first, but they followed my lead.

I dickishly waved over the waiters and ordered all our drinks.

Nobody, i mean, nobody treats me with disrespect. Fuck you. This is my mentality.

Anyways, Later that evening some of our other friends joined us...

To cut the long story short, i later number close two chicks that night. One in engineering, the other a student from Northeastern university. Definitely not a 8 or 9. But a bangable 5.5s and low 6s.

I still have work to do...

(01-08-2016 11:32 PM)robreke Wrote:  

There's a difference between academic intelligence and social intelligence.

We're seeing it displayed here.

OP probably has academic intelligence.

It seems he may be lacking in social intelligence. It can be acquired.


Social intelligence is what can make a man alpha.

Academic intelligence doesn't get the pussy. Social intelligence does.

A book was written on this:

You are a douche bag and you are forgetting that the restaurant doesn't owe you anything and could give a fuck less about how cool you think are.

Did you use these same techniques when you were picked last in gym class?

[Beyond Borders]

(01-08-2016 11:35 PM)Dr. Kahn Wrote:  

No, i am not a virgin. I had sex 3 weeks ago. A girl from kazahkstan.

All the other mental masturbation aside...

[DrugAdvisor]

C'mon guys. He's clearly being modest right here.

He hasn't mentioned his Billion Dollar net worth yet.

[MMM]

"I am Doctor fucking Kahn. I went to xyz school. I am not going to sit on a fucking concrete block out of sight, because of some nice pair of tits think so. Fuck this shit. I will take center stage. My friends were hesistant at first, but they followed my lead."

Little Dark is a doctor?

[realologist]

Dr. Kahn even if you aren't a troll, you need to learn to be around men. You came out guns blazing in a place starting a thread where you basically completely discounted the point that athleticism and sports can foster masculinity in someone. That books and academics do.

Maybe during all that time spent in books your social skills suffered. On this form its about merit. You have to prove yourself and the information you bring valuable to this form. Expect to get made fun of, have people tell jokes about you. We are men. This is normal behavior.

Stop being so sensitive and drop a real thread. Probably about being a Doctor or your focus and study habits since that is all you can seemingly talk about.

[Gótico]

2/10 WNB (Would Not Ban).

[Suits]

Note to mods: Please do not ban.

(I'd like see where this goes).

[Cumulonimbus]

(01-08-2016 08:12 AM)Sooth Wrote:  

Brains by themselves are not better than brawn in regards to attracting women. Brains alone are worthless when it comes to women.

You have to apply brains to the physical world in the form of work, creating some value and only then will you be attractive.

Women are value thieves, not knowledge thieves.

+1, Couldn't have been said better!

(01-09-2016 08:16 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Note to mods: Please do not ban.

(I'd like see where this goes).

I don't see much reason for banning here.
That said, I'm afraid the OP is not going far with this attitude.

Is scientific instruction an achievement to be proud about? Definitely yes! But so are body, social and personality achievements as well. Eventually it comes down to what one wants out of life. If that is working at CERN and banging the female physicists there, so be it - personally not my cup of tea but hey, who am I to judge.

If one is getting laid, I don't think it matters if that is due to academics cv, due to being a gym rat, due to many other things or a combination of all of them. What is important I think is that the more one is prepared on each of those fields, the fewer the weaker points and better the life balance are going to be and consequently the higher are the chances of getting laid. Alphaness, masculinity and other words are very simplistic terms that can't include the whole male female attraction dynamics or life dynamics for the matter. Time is a major factor here and needs to be used wisely.
OP (and everyone reading the thread) has had a lot of wise insight on the posts that needs to be implements in real life. There is no need on trying to force one's type of superiority, including academic/physical/etc, among the forum members. What works for someone might not work for the others. Important is, as mentioned many times previously, getting out there and see what works for you.

Since Dr. Kahn included a recent personal experience about how he made a point at a restaurant, I am going to post what just happened less than 12 hours ago to me and my friends.
It was 3 of us, instructions ranging from high school only to STEM IVY 2nd master degrees. The HS one opens and ends up talking to a white girl which came with an Indian guy on a mixed race group of people. They were all well dressed and could safely assume were good schooled and while not athletic physics, were not fat either. Our convo with the girl went on for 20-30 min and could tell the Indian guy was really bothered by it. His friend steps twice on one our feet and doesn't even apologize for it. The Indian guy that came with the white girl feels like having a saying on the matter and tried to make a point by almost starting a fight. Well, guess what, his words were not followed by his actions and he made a fool of himself. Probably he lost more of his woman respect, if there was much to begin with. I guess the take away lesson would be it's that what makes a woman vagina tingle is not necessarily schooling and definitely not always.

My two cent on the matter would be loose some of the attitude, see what works best for you and come back to the forum by contributing on a healthy and positive way, which I think hasn't been much the case up to now.

[Dr. Kahn]

(01-09-2016 12:33 AM)SamuelBRoberts Wrote:  

Wow, you sound like an obnoxious asshole. You know you can just say, "We'd like to sit in the center, please." and they'll seat you wherever you want, right?

But yeah, way to defy social convention by sitting in a different chair at the restaurant. You've truly displayed your alpha male superiority, and I'm sure she was wetting herself at the thought of your massive, testosterone-engorged penis.

What kind of fun is a life like that?　Take yourself a little less seriously and you'll be a lot better off.

I don't really see it that way. She pointed to a bunch of cement bricks for us to sit on. Cement bricks. That was disrespectful and if you treat me with disrespect, i will treat you with disrespect right back.

I am sure she wasn't wetting herself, but she was scared though. She avoided us all night. She was supposed to be our waiter, but she sent her friends instead; because deep down she knows she was rude and disrespectful. My behavior basically called her out on it. I was even thinking of talking to the manager about her disrespectful behavior(but my friends insisted i should let it go.)

Do you think she would have treated a bunch of football players like that? Definitely not. She would have given them center stage. So why should i be treated differently? I respect myself too much to tolerate shit like that. She is just a fucking waiter for pete's sake; and i am Doctor Fucking Kahn-- i have more value than her. I don't care how good looking she is.

We got prompt services all night -- I am guessing they were scared and talked to each other about our table, so we got everything fast and as priority.

The way you get treated is the way you allow yourself to be treated.

(01-09-2016 01:05 AM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  

You are a douche bag and you are forgetting that the restaurant doesn't owe you anything and could give a fuck less about how cool you think are.

Did you use these same techniques when you were picked last in gym class?

I am a paying customer, i deserve better treatment than to have my friends and I sit on cement bricks instead of open, available tables. It was demeaning.

Did i use the same technique when i got picked last in gym class? I never got picked last in gym class because by the time they picked the first, second, and third; i will start verbally guilt tripping them about not picking me and shaming them. It worked everytime. They feel obligated to pick me even though i sucked. Others will stood there quietly waiting to be picked or not picked. Not me. I make it happen.

So far so good, this has always worked for me in life: shamelessly going for what i want(it doesn't matter if i have to cajole, insult, guilt-trip, bully, flatter, humiliate, or various combination of tricks to get what i want.)

That was how i got the half white/half asian Cara Milligan(one of the cheerleaders) to go to the prom with me(the vice-president of the chess club).

Whenever i am determined to achieve or get something; and i put my mind to it, i will usually figure out a way.

As for the other question of if i am good company to be around. Yes i am.

For two simple reasons: I am brutally honest about my intentions, so people know what you see is what you get. (2) I unapologetically go for what i want, and i get things done.

I am really a nice person who just happens to have a healthy dose of self-respect and doesn't get impressed easily.

(01-09-2016 06:36 AM)realologist Wrote:  

Dr. Kahn even if you aren't a troll, you need to learn to be around men. You came out guns blazing in a place starting a thread where you basically completely discounted the point that athleticism and sports can foster masculinity in someone. That books and academics do.

Maybe during all that time spent in books your social skills suffered. On this form its about merit. You have to prove yourself and the information you bring valuable to this form. Expect to get made fun of, have people tell jokes about you. We are men. This is normal behavior.

Stop being so sensitive and drop a real thread. Probably about being a Doctor or your focus and study habits since that is all you can seemingly talk about.

Come on! I didn't discount that sports and athleticism can foster masculinity in men. I looked at the reasons why sports is claimed to foster masculinity: competition, mental focus, discipline, etc. It is just obvious to me that the same thing is needed in a huge amount if you are trying to get a doctorate from an Ivy league school in STEM fields. So what makes sports more masculine then? I couldn't see a good reason.

Having muscles doesn't really impress me because i can get that in 1 to 2 years; and i am already on my way with exercise programs that i just started. I have the mental discipline to do the same thing over and over again and stick to a plan of action. So what do you have going that will impress me? That i won't achieve in 2 years datamining RVF? Basically nothing.

Some were making argument about higher T levels from sport, but then there are threads after threads by Jared talking about higher T men getting used and disposed off by women. All that high T levels couldn't translate into alphaness due to their wrecked psychology from being raised by single moms.

That is why i like Sooth's brilliant summation.

(01-08-2016 08:12 AM)Sooth Wrote:  

Brains by themselves are not better than brawn in regards to attracting women. Brains alone are worthless when it comes to women.

You have to apply brains to the physical world in the form of work, creating some value and only then will you be attractive.

Women are value thieves, not knowledge thieves.

The lesson i took from that is, you can have all the brain(einstein) or brawn(athlete) in the world, but if you don't translate it into the real world, you will get played by bitches. "Women are value thieves, not knowledge thieves". That was the best insight i read on this thread.

I don't mind jokes and being made fun of, but then you should expect me to make fun of you right back; and i expect you to not run to daddy figure(moderators) for help and started crying "troll!", "troll!", "troll!". If you dish it out, you have to be able to take it, like men. This is my mentality, but them i came from the highly competitive field of hard sciences at Ivy Leagues; so perhaps it is different where you came from.

But i completely agree with you about adding value. As I get more comfortable here i will write about my experience in academia, how to navigate it, and why i have come to dislike western white women.

.

[The Beast1]

So what's your net worth Dr. Kahn?

Most academics I know (including ones that work at top research institutions) are pretty destitute. Between student loans and shitty pay from institutions they tend to live a hand to mouth existence.

Academia is pretty piss poor work unless you've happened upon pork belly defense research money.

And no, having a PhD means nothing unless you've got the money to back it up.

[RexImperator]

Quote:

Having muscles doesn't really impress me because i can get that in 1 to 2 years

[Dr. Kahn]

(01-09-2016 12:39 PM)The Beast1 Wrote:  

So what's your net worth Dr. Kahn?

Most academics I know (including ones that work at top research institutions) are pretty destitute. Between student loans and shitty pay from institutions they tend to live a hand to mouth existence.

Academia is pretty piss poor work unless you've happened upon pork belly defense research money.

And no, having a PhD means nothing unless you've got the money to back it up.

I am taking offers from private sector. I am a newly minted Ph.D in the hard sciences. Most of the offers are > $100K; starting bonuses of >$8,000.

I don't really have much student loans because you get a stipend while getting your Ph.D; i also had a partial scholarship in undergraduate.

(01-09-2016 12:43 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:

Having muscles doesn't really impress me because i can get that in 1 to 2 years

Like i said i have been reading Misc; and some of the transformation within months have been impressive. I am not aiming for months, i am giving myself 1 to 2 years of intensive workout/diet routine.

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_q...sformation

^^^
You think these results are not possible in 1 to 2 years? Fine. I will do it even if it takes me 4 years. I am already done with one accomplishment, on to conquer the next challenge: working out/game. And i always win because i am a winner.

.

[The Beast1]

(01-09-2016 01:11 PM)Dr. Kahn Wrote:  

(01-09-2016 12:39 PM)The Beast1 Wrote:  

So what's your net worth Dr. Kahn?

Most academics I know (including ones that work at top research institutions) are pretty destitute. Between student loans and shitty pay from institutions they tend to live a hand to mouth existence.

Academia is pretty piss poor work unless you've happened upon pork belly defense research money.

And no, having a PhD means nothing unless you've got the money to back it up.

I am taking offers from private sector. I am a newly minted Ph.D in the hard sciences. Most of the offers are > $100K; starting bonuses of >$8,000.

I don't really have much student loans because you get a stipend while getting your Ph.D; i also had a partial scholarship in undergraduate.

(01-09-2016 12:43 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote:

Having muscles doesn't really impress me because i can get that in 1 to 2 years

Like i said i have been reading Misc; and some of the transformation within months have been impressive. I am not aiming for months, i am giving myself 1 to 2 years of intensive workout/diet routine.

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_q...sformation

^^^
You think these results are not possible in 1 to 2 years? Fine. I will take 4 years if i have to. I am already done with one accomplishment, on to conquer the next challenge: working out/game

.

Cool story, congrats on the PhD but you're counting your chickens before they hatch. You haven't accomplished anything nor have any money to show for it (yet).

Call us back when you have the centrally located luxury apartment and are banging the ritzy bar sluts.

[PapayaTapper]

(01-08-2016 06:44 PM)Dr. Kahn Wrote:  

Women lie

[Anabasis to Desta]

Just a heads up Dr. Khan.

The day you start lifting is the day you become forever small because you'll never be as big/cut as you want to be.

I hope you don't throw a tantrum when you experience that feeling and make a thread titled "Academic is MORE ALPHA than useless bodybuilding"

[TrifeLife]

[Phoenix]

I would like this story to pan out like a fairy-tale, I really would. Doctor Kahn pulls a Google, uses his university research to revolutionize society. Ends up with billions of dollars, moves to a big-ass castle with his big harem of horny big-titty wenches.

But I've known enough PhD students to know that the tale more often ends not with a bang, but with a whimper. When they realize that a PhD isn't some magical rite of passage to the promised land. That they've just wasted years of their life on some esoteric theory to get a piece of paper that no one with actual businesses and payrolls care about.

Still, I hope OP drops by here again in 2 years with his datasheet, "Suck it bitches: My life as a billionaire doctor-playboy and how you can do it too".

[wi30]

[Prince of Persia]

(01-08-2016 07:57 AM)Pride male Wrote:  

Brains>brawn. Knowledge is power. Intelligence not brute strength allowed Europe to conquer the world.

[jake1720]

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[jake1720]

This is stupid.

Signed the Engineer who learned game.

[jake1720]

(01-08-2016 11:49 PM)Dr. Kahn Wrote:  

To cut the long story short, i later number close two chicks that night. One in engineering, the other a student from Northeastern university. Definitely not a 8 or 9. But a bangable 5.5s and low 6s.

I still have work to do...

This is terrible.

Dr. Kahn if you can get me a respectable engineering gig/pre sales/sales engineering gig (I have/will have a bachelors) I will gladly fly out and teach you some game for a few weeks.

I've done it before and I can do it again.

[Truth Teller]

I have an IQ in the top 0.01% of the population, so I'm talking from experience. Being smart can be a handicap.

It makes you overanalyze things (game, work, life in general). It also can make you into an arrogant prick, as my life has taught me, and as this thread shows.

You have a PhD. Congratulations, big fucking deal. Now go do something with it.

[Dr. Kahn]

Let me get this straight.

First, you said this is stupid.

Then you said this is terrible

Then you want me to connect you with my Stanford network to get you a respectable engineering gig.

In exchange for teaching me game? Coming from a guy whose 2016 goal is to get a girlfriend!?!

(01-03-2016 10:28 PM)jake1720 Wrote:  

List what you are going to do below.

Mine for 2016:

- Get a girlfriend.

LOLOLOLOLZZZZZ!!!



The value of my Stanford network far outstrips any value you may teach in game. The value exchange will be stupid, it is a terrible idea.

Besides, you are not a well-repped member-- you have low value here. How many people can vouch for you? Why then should i let you into something as important as my professional network? Why should i risk it? Because you can sleep with women?!?!?

Just listen to yourself, dude!

You've been posting on RVF for 2 years, in all that time nobody here deem you worthy of a single, fucking rep point. Not even one! I started posting here exactly 3 days ago, and i already had 2 rep points.

Bitch, please.

(UPDATE: I noticed that just now SamuelBRoberts has suddenly decided to give you a *pity* rep-point, an *affirmative action* rep-point, after reading my remark to you. )