[Stimulus]

Here is a video I stumbled across when me and some friends were discussing all those girls that are attentionwhoring through social media, and I was trying to make my point because some of them fit the 'orbiter' categorie. Since I found out about this forum it really changed perspective on a lot of subjects. I sometimes talk about it with my friends and try to make them understand me, without very much succes..

Sure there is some commercial/funny intent about the video but actually I do think it's spot on when you think passed the 'that guy is insane' thougt that first comes to mind.

I'm in no doubt there are a lot of guys letting their woman use them for shit like this. Which makes me think, why?! What is so fucking special about this girl that you'll lower yourself to be her - as mentioned in the video - selfie-stick? Will she give you shit for not being complient? Well, good, you shouldn't have agreed with this nonsense in the first place. Actually, you should be questioning yourself why you even allowed her to start/continue with this type of behaviour. - But that is actually a different discussion than the one I intended to start.

Apart from her female friends - who's 'likes' she doesn't give a rats ass about - this behaviour is stimulated by all those 'beta orbiters'. Guys who think that, if they just like and/or even comment all of her pics as soon as she puts them online, they actually have a chance. A chance of someday being the dude who's jizz is pouring out of her mouth. Instead he's jerking off looking at one if her pictures wondering if she'll ever notice him..

Well, dude, that's not going to happen because she just got her pussy pounded numb by some guy not even having an account at Facebook, Instagram, Google+ and whatever other social media there is these days. Some guy that didn't drown her in a shitload of compliments, free drinks and other "you-are-amazing" stuff, because he was working on more important matters. His career, looking good, being social without the internet, being desired because of who he is. Not just because of his appearance and skill to click "Like" at every photo she's posting. Thinking about it, propably he just said "no" to some chick that wants to hang out tonight because he already had plans, with 'your' girl. THAT GUY!

I do actually know it's tempting to 'follow' every semi-hot chick when you come across her profile. I do know girls these days can all look like the hottest piece of tail, until you check out the profile of that other girl that even added filters to her photo. I do know this may seem like a perfect way to get in touch with that hottie you saw at that bar you frequent. So do tons of other guys trying to be noticed by her..

But then again, there's 'that guy'.

[fucksong]

Oh shit. My ex-gf totally made me this guy and my current one as well. The big difference is my current one looks like my favorite porn star and we're open so I can go fuck other girls if I want. If it wasn't that type of situation, I might go crazy. But yeah, I feel those dude's pain

[Gmac]

No patience or tolerance for this kind of behavior. I weed these girls out quick.

[XPQ22]

I was sleeping with a girl over the summer and she asked me:

"So is this how your relationships usually begin?"

"Well, usually I try to win a lady's affection by 'liking' at least 37 of her photos on Instagram a week."

Her laugh told me pretty much everything I need to know.

[XPQ22]

I'll also just use this thread for a moment to vent my frustration about, well, something everyone already knows: social media attention whoring is a huge pain in my ass with respect to night and online game. Basically every time I've tried to close on a number or contact info from a girl at a bar or club, I have to run a gauntlet of her throwing me various social media bullshit info before she'll offer up a phone number.

"Do you have Facebook?"

"Nah, I don't really use it."

"Instagram?" "Uhh..."

"Kik? Viber? iMessage? Pinterest? Foursquare? Friendster?"

"..."

"um, well I guess I can give you my phone number..."

And you never hear from her again.

I've pretty much determined that with 20-something women, with night game it's either have the logistics on lock and go for the SNL, or you're almost certainly dead in the water and dumped into orbiter-zone. And it won't be too long before "online dating" sites are simply attention whoring platforms like all the rest, aside from sites like eHarmony for spinsters looking for their beta bucks.

The plan for 2015 - get logistics on lock and go for SNLs almost exclusively with night game. Living in the suburbs is just murdering me, because a kiss and a phone number from some city chick who lives 30 miles away don't mean shit anymore. Even from a "5".

Flex-monogamy on the part of young women is definitely going to become the norm. I see guys sitting around in bars and clubs and their girls are flirting with me, texting other guys on their phones, and God knows what. I barely understand who to approach and who not to because a girl will be giving me IOIs and chatting with me with two dudes orbiting right next to her.

And they have to sit there and take it like bitches because if they don't, they'll be frozen out entirely and she'll be onto the next. I haven't been back in the game long, but it's scary to someone who last was active maybe 8 years ago. Guys are tearing each other to pieces over a scrap of pussy like a pack of half-starved dogs over a rotten old femur bone. As I mention in another thread, I've seen girls out on the street attacking guys, screaming at guys, and all sorts of the most outrageous behavior. It's nuts.

I feel sorry for young guys coming up nowadays. It wasn't always like this.

[XPQ22]

^ 2016 I should say. Great, I'm so old I don't even remember what year it is anymore. I should probably start taking Alzheimers medication.