I've successfully broken the ice with girls on Facebook before. I didn't get the meet, but 1) I was mostly messaging local models, so I set the standard pretty high, and 2) I was just playing around with it a bit to see what's possible. I've also got a bad habit of wasting time chatting with girls when I should be working but then when it comes to meeting I brush it off and go hit at girls at the bar instead. haha So this isn't really a post about substantial results.
But...for my small sample sizes, it seemed the trick was to add them first. If they accept, "like" a few of their photos later that day - don't get carried away, and make sure you like one or two that shows more personality than skin - i.e. a pic with them making a goofy face, cuddling with their dog, or holding a friend's baby. Like a post or two.
If they like a couple of yours back, send an introductory message.
Guys are real dismissive of "likes" around here, but in some situations, as in with a cute girl you just added, "likes" are essentially light flirting. It depends on where the "like" falls, really. I mean, think about it - if you meet some hot girl in town or on a dating site and she asks for your Facebook and then hops on there and likes five of your photos, what is she really saying?
Obviously a point will pass when you're just another face on her wall, but initially, her clicks are very signficicant. And a comment from a girl you just met, whether your recently met online or in real life - well, I don't really see what more of an IOI you could need than that...message her and get the ball rolling!
Sometimes they message you right away when you add them and say "do we know each other?" Hell, I do that when random people add me too. Just say "No, but Facebook suggested you as a friend, and you looked interesting/cute, so I added you. Do you live here in X?" This explanation makes more sense if you have a mutual friend, but what are they going to do, argue how the algorithms work? Anyways, it's to the point but non-threatening and non-needy. The question is a filler but it's apparent you're just interested to get to know her more and aren't going to be overbearing about it.
You may have to ramble at them a bit to get some of them to open up more because they're probably iffy about the whole thing and not sure what to expect from you.
Obviously it will have better results if you just moved to a place where your look is exotic and valued - and if you're a good-looking guy.
I only tried this a few times, but I did get some promising responses. If I remember, quite a few of the girls I talked with ended up having boyfriends - no big surprise since they were models.
I wouldn't try that "sexy" line with a platform like this. You're just another desparate spammer at this point.
It is a fickle place to approach someone, that's for sure. One time I had a good conversation going with a Filipina in Phnom Penh, everything seemed en route, and she was single. Then she suddenly blocked me withotu warning. I can only think she told one of her friends about me and they said something along the lines of "What the hell, who is this guy and how did he find you?" And kudos to her because I found her by searching "women from the philippines who live in Phnom Penh" (I don't think the search feature is as robust now as it used to be). hahaha
Another thing you have to be cautious of is if you start adding a bunch of local models, they may notice and catch on. Plus some of them may know each other. You may want to pare the dead leads off the friends list. Or just broaden your scope beyond just the high end and aim for some 7s. Make sure you have lots of guy friends too.
Also, if she's a model and has been at it for a while she may have too many friends to add anymore. And they've got guys constantly messaging. So obviously you'll get way better results if you lower your sights - what can I say, I like to aim high.
As for how to find the models, well, I don't know about in the West, but here in Asia, people are always following and friending local models. So just add the local people you meet on Facebook and then scan their friends list for models. Once you find one, they'll probably be friends with other models. And of course, there are plenty of pretty enough girls that aren't at the top of the FB totem pole that you could target.
I"m sure there are far more productive things to do with your time, but I may give it another run to see what happens. It's a fun challenge just because everyone says it can't be done.
I get adds from girls quite often that I don't know or just because we have a mutual friend too - ones that don't seem like they're marketing on there. Unfortunately, they're almost never hot enough or they're in a different location than me. For some reason, supermodels aren't jumping at the bit to hunt me down on there, I guess - I don't really know why.
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