[Atom89]

Hey guys,

I'm 26 and this girl is 20, I see her at events, parties, weddings, functions, sports matches, I notice she does look at me a lot and stare at me from a distance when I'm not watching from the last 5 events I seen her in the last 18 months.

I've been told she would like to settle down at 22.

She already likes me, what shall I do know? I will next see her next in March at a function and her birthday is in June which I will send her a happy birthday message on her Facebook, she did add me.

The key here is that she wants to settle down and be in a long term relationship. I've noticed she appreciates a man with humour with my cousin being a guy of good sense of humour. She loves my female cousin, possibly talk to my female cousin when she's with her and crack a few jokes? I also know and talk to her male cousins.

Should I DHV big (wear good clothes, decent shoes), when she see's me at sports event, show off my prowess in the field? She already likes me.

I appreciate all the advice.

[GlobalMan]

Have you talked to her yet?

It's sounds like you are getting way ahead of yourself here.

You're talking about long term futures and you seemingly haven't ever had a conversation with the woman.

You said "she already likes me", what is this based on? That she thinks your cousin is funny and that she has looked in your direction?

You're making plans for 7 months from now to finally introduce yourself and make your move?

Either you're not giving us all the details of what has transpired, or you are deluding yourself. Unless you're able to see, meet and speak to her soon, move on to something else.

[cascadecombo]

Serious question, how much experience do you have with females?

[Virtus]

Next March? Birthday in June? Jesus man get a grip

[Atom89]

Well I have her on my Facebook, I only see her at functions, events, weddings, sports events.

I really like this girl so hence I'll wait to make a move although my friends have said make a move now or she could be taken.

She looks and stares at me a lot from all the last 5 events I have been to so this is why I think she likes me, why else would she? And these are at different times and situations at the events.

[Remington]

It sounds like you have not even walked up to her and said anything. How about you approach her and have a conversation. You have nothing to lose. Go out there, approach some girls to get over any approach anxiety, and bang a few out. This will give you the confidence to actually walk up to her and say "hi."

Your approach will be simple. "Hey, I think I have seen you around these kinds of things once or twice. You're not stalking me, are you?"

Being friends with her on facebook doesn't mean anything. Like most women, they have hundreds, if not thousands of guy friends on that site that constantly kiss her ass and praise her selfies. Don't get roped into that garbage.

Play it cool. You sound anxious as hell. Adopt the abundance mentality and don't put all your eggs in one basket.

What do you do with other girls? Do you approach? Do you have a few girls on lock that you can call to bang? What are you doing that doesn't revolve around this one girl?

[heavy]

(12-01-2015 08:23 AM)Atom89 Wrote:  

Well I have her on my Facebook, I only see her at functions, events, weddings, sports events.

I really like this girl so hence I'll wait to make a move although my friends have said make a move now or she could be taken.

She looks and stares at me a lot from all the last 5 events I have been to so this is why I think she likes me, why else would she? And these are at different times and situations at the events.

5 events and you haven't talked to her? Move on.

Why else would she stare at you a lot? One potential reason is that you're creeping her out. If you are looking at each other as much as you say, at 5 different events, and you don't have the balls to approach her, you're probably freaking her out.

[Jesus Christ]

Pull.

[PapayaTapper]

There's like 7 billion people on Earth. Each one means that on at least one occasion a man and a woman spoke to each other, he put his pee pee in her hooha and made a kid. It happens millions of times every single day

My point, is don't don't make it a bigger deal in your own mind than it really is. If she's a nice girl she'll probably be more nervous than you are

And your friends are right. If you don't make a move some other dude will and then he'll be putting his cock in her pussy and you'll still be thinking about it

[robreke]

(12-01-2015 01:59 AM)Atom89 Wrote:  

Hey guys,

I'm 26 and this girl is 20, I see her at events, parties, weddings, functions, sports matches, I notice she does look at me a lot and stare at me from a distance when I'm not watching from the last 5 events I seen her in the last 18 months.

I've been told she would like to settle down at 22.

She already likes me, what shall I do know? I will next see her next in March at a function and her birthday is in June which I will send her a happy birthday message on her Facebook, she did add me.

The key here is that she wants to settle down and be in a long term relationship. I've noticed she appreciates a man with humour with my cousin being a guy of good sense of humour. She loves my female cousin, possibly talk to my female cousin when she's with her and crack a few jokes? I also know and talk to her male cousins.

Should I DHV big (wear good clothes, decent shoes), when she see's me at sports event, show off my prowess in the field? She already likes me.

I appreciate all the advice.

You're overthinking this.

The next time you see her, walk up and talk to her. Say something like "hey, how's your day so far? " or whatever. If she already likes you, you don't need anything crafty or witty to say.

Just say you wanted to say hello because you liked her style today, or ask a question bout her iPhone....whatever, just start talking.

After a few minutes of back and forth (make observations don't just ask questions), tell her you'd like to get together for a coffee or drink one day when she's free. when she says okay, pull your phone out and ask her when she's free next. Set the date right then and there. Time and place.

Also...get her number and let her know you'll text her if anything comes up but you look forward to seeing her. Text her right there so she has your number.

You can also just invite her to go have coffee with you right then.

If she declines the date, act like it's no big deal because it isn't. You're 26. You've got decades of being able to approach and attract young attractive women. This girl is a drop in the ocean.

there you go.

[Tigre]

(12-01-2015 08:23 AM)Atom89 Wrote:  

I really like this girl so hence I'll wait to make a move although my friends have said make a move now or she could be taken.

Your friends are right.

Just hit her up on Facebook this weekend. Start small, chat, establish contact.

Don't wait three months on it.

If she's interested in you, she'll make it easy to keep the conversation going. But you have to make the move in the first place.

[Gmac]

Do 100 cold approaches and somewhere in between approach this girl. Come back and thank me later.

[Atom89]

I'm quite busy so I haven't read the latest 4-5 post however I will do later.

I did something exciting with my family this Saturday and I put a Facebook pic of myself in with everyone which I was in the middle of it, she liked this picture along with 30 off others!

[Banned]

It's kinda fucked up that you open a thread,
Get solid, honest, empirical advice from members,

& you don't read posts, because you're "quite busy"...

[Latan]

Just in case you're not a troll:
If you're interested in this particular girl and can't see her in person before march, nail multiple girls before then.
It'll boost your confidence and enhance your chances of getting in her pants.
Don't loose time talking to her on social medias : judging by the way you're acting here, you'll show too much interest and she'll loose hers (if she even had any).

Thinking a girl is special is the best way to loose / repel her, remember that.

[lowside]

(12-07-2015 07:16 AM)Atom89 Wrote:  

I'm quite busy so I haven't read the latest 4-5 post however I will do later.

I did something exciting with my family this Saturday and I put a Facebook pic of myself in with everyone which I was in the middle of it, she liked this picture along with 30 off others!

She liked the picture along with 30 others?

Dude, you need a slap in the face. Approach.

[Banned]

Approach this girl, swoop her up, fucker her, and erase all lines of contact with her because you are obviously on the road to pain. If you think you can keep her around without catching feelings for her (doesn't sound like it) then do so.

You also have to ask yourself how it would affect your relationship with family. Sounds like she may be involved closely with yours?

[robreke]

(12-12-2015 02:28 PM)Banned Wrote:  

Approach this girl, swoop her up, fucker her, and erase all lines of contact with her because you are obviously on the road to pain. If you think you can keep her around without catching feelings for her (doesn't sound like it) then do so.

You also have to ask yourself how it would affect your relationship with family. Sounds like she may be involved closely with yours?

^ I gotta give it to you. Ballsy name.