[The Wire]

(11-29-2015 04:50 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

Is that really the best New York has to offer, or are the men in New York that delusional and depressed?

People are looking at this the wrong way.

A few facts first. She is the most message woman on OKCupid in NYC that agreed to appear in the article. Lets get that out of the way first.

Next everyone is wondering....why? It's actually pretty simple. The majority of photographs she uses on OKCupid are actually extremely well done for the most part compared to her female competition. She photographs well when using selfies from an iPhone and she has a 'edgy' look. (Lots of girls have that same look....Sleigh Bells lead singer..etc)


The problem is she is no where near as good looking as the majority of photos led you to believe which is evident in photos taken by the press. She's probably running into a weird situation where lots of guys are expecting this




And end up seeing this....




So she ends up on the site for a while getting her ego inflated(can't fault her) and the suitors she probably wants are too high of value. You end up in a vicious cycle. It would be like someone using ultra wide angel lens with flattering lighting to advertise a tiny studio in Manhattan. Then when people get into the apartment they realize its a little closet. Unless you lower the price people ain't buying. In her case unless she lowers her expected value from males she ain't getting a boyfriend.

[ryanf]

(11-29-2015 09:33 AM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

thread-33474.html

This is the thread if anyone is wondering where the chick looks familiar from.

That chick is also make up artist..So who knows what's under the powder.

She sure is. She's making up for a bad childhood.

[Scoundrel]

(11-29-2015 08:30 AM)cascadecombo Wrote:  

Checked out that website you linked. The thirst from that made wonder if I had just spent 6 months in the Sahara.

You're referring to http://theyreallysaidthis.com — her Tumblr blog where she posts the messages she receives from guys (mostly weirdos).

Men, if you have daughters, make certain they understand this lesson: TRASH ATTRACTS TRASH.

On her blog, she mentions that she's been single for the past two years. She helpfully explains why:



Incidentally, her book is titled Popular, and in the Cosmo article linked she purports to give women advice on how to optimize their dating profile to receive maximum response from men.

[Wutang]

Number 4 on that list is yet more evidence of something that has gotten mentioned on the forum several times: the continuing social retardation of the youth of today.

[The Lizard of Oz]

(11-29-2015 05:53 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  

You're referring to http://theyreallysaidthis.com — her Tumblr blog where she posts the messages she receives from guys (mostly weirdos).

Men, if you have daughters, make certain they understand this lesson: TRASH ATTRACTS TRASH.

Not really. This kind of blog is basically man-hate porn for women. And there is a lot of that hatred going around, it's becoming more and more intense in city women, in particular.

But the truth is that most of the dudes messaging her are not "trash". Sure, there are some crazies and bad apples, but they're the exception, not the rule. For the most part, guys are simply awkward, socially unskilled, and sometimes dull-witted. They try terribly hard, and that only makes them look worse.

And remember, these bitches don't hate men for being bad. They hate them for being dopey and boring. Those are the terrible sins for which men who are not naturals with pussy must be drawn and quartered.

(11-29-2015 05:53 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  

On her blog, she mentions that she's been single for the past two years. She helpfully explains why:

What an in-play woman says about being "single" or otherwise is exceptionally meaningless. She's always fucking some guys, often "dating" some guys, and so on. All her statements on this subject are just irrelevant nonsense.

[Libertas]

Too bad. If she didn't have the attitude, the tattoos, and was 20 lbs thinner, she'd be very lovely.

Would still smash of course, but her "blog" is the biggest hamster I've seen in the past few months. Just the perfect microcosm of what we've been saying about women in this degenerate society for years. A lot of the messages she posts are of bad game, and we know that many feminist initiatives are simply attempts to criminalize or stigmatize bad game. Check.

Then she hamsterizes her single status as something that's "good" and that she takes pride in. When a healthy person would feel neither pride nor shame about it. Insecure. Check.

If you even look at her video getting guys to qualify themselves to her, there's one comment, and he says that she's an entitled cunt that hates men. It got a lot of thumbs up too.

[eatthishomie]

Sweet motherfucking Jesus the thirst is too real.

I mean if she showed up at my apartment at 2am ready to go I'd smash but wouldn't put effort in.

[El Chinito loco]

Hipsters from cities like NY are really into the "burlesque" look now which is the standard "curvy" (fat) pale anglo manatee brunette with stupid looking tattoos. They think this is retro with a modern spin to it or something. Remember, hipsters love anything retro with a modern ironic twist to it even when it comes to skanky fat hoes.

[Captainstabbin]

(11-29-2015 05:53 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  

On her blog, she mentions that she's been single for the past two years.

Single? Technically.

She's probably just banging random dudes until a sufficiently bucked beta comes along. A classic carousel-riding girl getting more jaded with each passing year.

Already damaged at 24 and worthless by the time she's 30.

[GoldHawkStar]

(11-29-2015 04:50 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

Is that really the best New York has to offer, or are the men in New York that delusional and depressed?

Both. The women are nothing special and a lot of the men are the beta and lonely type who'd go crazy over a tatted not-petite Katy Perry-lookalike.

[Scoundrel]

(11-29-2015 05:53 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  

Men, if you have daughters, make certain they understand this lesson: TRASH ATTRACTS TRASH.

(11-29-2015 06:22 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

But the truth is that most of the dudes messaging her are not "trash".

They're "trash" from her perspective — i.e., undesirable men.

The lesson for girls needs to be: If you present yourself to the world a certain way, you may get a great deal of attention from males, though it may not be the kind of attention you want, from the kind of males you will find attractive.

A woman like this attracts primarily what I call "filth fetishists." These are generally low-caliber dudes who are turned on — often to the point of delirium — by a girl's dirtiness, by her seeming depravity. I've known guys like this, and it's a real affliction, much like fat fetishism, only sometimes even more extreme.

These kinds of guys have no game and no tact, and are usually sexual submissives. They see a girl like this as a kind of dominatrix, and want her to do things to them.

She could in fact be the sunniest, most feminine and conservative girl on the planet, but her appearance gives her the aura of a nasty whore. This will cause certain men to lose their minds at the mere sight of her, while ensuring that others (the kind of men she actually wants) will avoid her completely.

Here's what a girl like her doesn't understand: She is constantly propositioned by aggressive weirdos in large part because she herself is a weirdo. A different kind of weirdo from the men who contact her, but a weirdo nonetheless.

(11-29-2015 06:22 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

What an in-play woman says about being "single" or otherwise is exceptionally meaningless.

I agree, but her "4 reasons" post is a remarkable window into her general attitude. She is a thoroughly bitter, negative person. And this will likely only get worse.

The really sad thing for her is, at this point, the hottest Hollywood hunk could attempt to contact her, and it would simply be one more message in her already-bloated inbox — one more cheeseball dude trying to hit on her, to be ignored and/or ridiculed on her Tumblr blog.

[Biologist]

(11-29-2015 09:00 AM)Neo Wrote:  

Definitely has a hard core slut vibe...the tats, look, and the body type. Guys see her as easy pickings so she gets flooded. I wouldn't call her fat, more thick. Definitely seen this chick before either online or here.

This is spot on. She's received so many messages because she looks like the type of girl who moves to New York for her "career" while riding the cock carousel hardcore (especially due to her tatts), not because she is exceptionally beautiful or dateable. To guys, she is seen simply as a moderately attractive easy lay.

[Sidney Crosby]

WHF (Would Hate Fuck)

[Mekorig]

Would fuck with a HAZMAT suit.

[BDawg]

Notice how she's the most messaged user and not the most swiped right.

[Sourcecode]

Because it's ok Cupid and not tinder?

[262]

(11-29-2015 10:48 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  

The lesson for girls needs to be: If you present yourself to the world a certain way, you may get a great deal of attention from males, though it may not be the kind of attention you want, from the kind of males you will find attractive.

Dave Chappelle basically noted this years ago, in a hilarious way:

TL;DV: Dressing like a whore and expecting not to be treated like one is like a guy dressing like a police officer and expecting folks not to ask him for help.

[Pride male]

Some people will do anything for attention.

[kaotic]

By now it should be obvious why dudes message this girl.

Slut face, slut tells, slutty dressing, slutty tattoos.

Come on man.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

(11-29-2015 07:35 AM)eradicator Wrote:  

I could have swore there was already one thread about this girl. She has 'casual sex" listed as what she is looking for, so of course she will get tons of messages.

I don't think she is fat? I'd bang.

I agree. A woman who lists "casual sex" on her profile is like a guy who mentions he's a millionaire.

The difference is, if a guy put that in his profile and attempted to get articles written on him that he was popular, the media would pick him apart twenty different ways. There is no such scrutiny when it comes to women.

I also know a girl from high school who got so fat that the weight destroyed her knees, so she walks with a cane. She also has a short, scary "mushroom" haircut. And she's not the "pretty if she lost weight" facial type either.

But she's "poly"* and listed "casual sex" on her dating profile so she's just swamped with messages.

* When she told me this, it took all the strength I had not to ask if the "poly" meant Polly-O string cheese, because that was the first thing that popped into my head after seeing her corpulent frame.

[The Wire]

(11-29-2015 11:06 AM)Balkanite Wrote:  

Somebody from here must have slayed this

Soup actually messenged her right before the original article came out. She didn't respond.

[odesseus]

(11-29-2015 08:15 PM)Captainstabbin Wrote:  

(11-29-2015 05:53 PM)Scoundrel Wrote:  

On her blog, she mentions that she's been single for the past two years.

Single? Technically.

She's probably just banging random dudes until a sufficiently bucked beta comes along. A classic carousel-riding girl getting more jaded with each passing year.

Already damaged at 24 and worthless by the time she's 30.

This one already looks close to 30...a few to many times round the carousel already.

[Dr. Howard]

(11-29-2015 09:48 AM)Mage Wrote:  

I am not surprised - she looks like a perfect compramise between genuine hotness and cheap approachabality.

Well said. I was going to write "this looks like the kind of girl that every guy thinks they have a chance with"

[OGNorCal707]

(11-30-2015 02:44 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

By now it should be obvious why dudes message this girl.

Slut face, slut tells, slutty dressing, slutty tattoos.

Come on man.

Yeah for real, she looks slutty as fuck, these aren't the types I'd usually go for, but I bet she'd sure make my dick hard. From looking at her pics, her style, vibe, etc., I wouldn't be surprised if she's done some ass for cash exchanges in her lifetime, or at the very least found some sugar daddy type arrangements.

[Grodin]

35 messages per day, seems like that number would be higher

I wonder how many of these messages are from bull dykes or women in "polyandrous" relationships

she looks like the kind of woman other women would find hot, not dudes