[sooooobased]

I have been matching with some single moms on tinder/okc, some of which are quiet young even. Now I'd be damned if I wanted to start a real relationship with any of them (which 90% of them seem to want), but I am interested in having a ons/fwb. Do you guys have experience with hooking up with single moms and how would you go about just fucking them and avoiding getting into a relationship? Also, is there a difference in how you approach younger single moms (20s) and older milfs/divorcees (30-40s)?

[OregonToSoCal]

(11-22-2015 02:35 PM)sooooobased Wrote:  

I have been matching with some single moms on tinder/okc, some of which are quiet young even. Now I'd be damned if I wanted to start a real relationship with any of them (which 90% of them seem to want), but I am interested in having a ons/fwb. Do you guys have experience with hooking up with single moms and how would you go about just fucking them and avoiding getting into a relationship? Also, is there a difference in how you approach younger single moms (20s) and older milfs/divorcees (30-40s)?

I've likely banged more single moms in my time than women without children. Looking back I don't ever remember consciously altering my game based on if a woman has children or not. The only caveat to single moms is that their free time and schedules are often more chaotic than those without kids. They'll need to juggle babysitters, days when they have their kids and times that they're free.

As a rule you should never be needy or demanding with any woman's time but it applies double to single moms. Many times they will hit you up last minute with something along the lines of "it looks like I'm childless tonight, wanna get together?"

A few benefits to single moms is they've usually given up on the fairy tale of finding their prince charming and are usually starved for fun and good sex. As long as you don't come in with a strong provider vibe you can give them a few hours of happy escape from their grueling lives.

[rudebwoy]

(11-22-2015 03:10 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(11-22-2015 02:35 PM)sooooobased Wrote:  

I have been matching with some single moms on tinder/okc, some of which are quiet young even. Now I'd be damned if I wanted to start a real relationship with any of them (which 90% of them seem to want), but I am interested in having a ons/fwb. Do you guys have experience with hooking up with single moms and how would you go about just fucking them and avoiding getting into a relationship? Also, is there a difference in how you approach younger single moms (20s) and older milfs/divorcees (30-40s)?

I've likely banged more single moms in my time than women without children. Looking back I don't ever remember consciously altering my game based on if a woman has children or not. The only caveat to single moms is that their free time and schedules are often more chaotic than those without kids. They'll need to juggle babysitters, days when they have their kids and times that they're free.

As a rule you should never be needy or demanding with any woman's time but it applies double to single moms. Many times they will hit you up last minute with something along the lines of "it looks like I'm childless tonight, wanna get together?"

A few benefits to single moms is they've usually given up on the fairy tale of finding their prince charming and are usually starved for fun and good sex. As long as you don't come in with a strong provider vibe you can give them a few hours of happy escape from their grueling lives.

He gave you the answer!

Thread closed.

[eradicator]

You can also game their kid. If their kid likes you, the mom will like you more. I have no problem banging a mom that is hot that has a kid in the next room, so long as the door is locked, I don't care.

[rudebwoy]

You don't want to meet the kid, EVER!

[RatInTheWoods]

Game the kid, put out strong provider clues and you will get the best sex and no drama arrangement you have ever had.

They don't yell, they don't swell, they don't tell and they are as grateful as hell!

[TheMaleBrain]

I have single moms in my rotation.
You need to "schedule" them.

You can put them into specific timeslots. It works great for them (kids wise and also provides a good balancing feeling for them).

Rudebwoy is right. Don't meet the kid.
I don't.

Drama - you will have some. Make sure to have FRAME.

Take them to do things they don't normally do.
I take them to lectures or free events. Then bang them at my place.
You can go to their place if the kid is out.

[PapayaTapper]

Thread reminds me of this:

I guilty of a few counts

[The Wire]

Had a really decent looking mom(30s) message me on OKC and I have been going back and forth with her for a few days. She seems stable and has a pretty decent corporate career. Then I start digging into her history via my friend Google and much like Alice I'm tumbling down the rabbit hole of information;

- She has a kid unmarried as of 2013(already knew about the kid but this just shed a little more light). Purchased home with the farther that same year.

- Next I find divorce records from 2010. Different guy and she was the defendant in the proceedings.


Basically in a span of roughly 5-7 years she got divorced then pregnant, then purchased house with guy, then broke up again. Part of me still wants to bang but she seems like a lot of work and there is no fucking way I can put up with some fake provider vibe for long.

[Ironbutt62]

Never give out the provider vibes unless you're willing to go there. Steady does it! Hold frame, enjoy her company for a while and then next her... especially if she's not being forthright, then she loses more value and is just a fun notch.

[questor70]

If you're considering 40+, the best time to enter into a single mom's life is after a divorce when she was keeping a sexless marriage together for the kids. If you're the first guy to swoop in she's effectively a born again virgin. Women this age are less likely to have ever ridden the cock carousel. Many got married young to their childhood sweethearts who were never that great in the sack in the first place. So there's an opportunity to get in there and give it to her in a way she never had in her entire life and never knew was possible. If you do that, you pretty much own her for a while as she becomes addicted to the sex. She will call it love, but it's an almost adolescent crush/infaturation. Extricating yourself from it once you realize she's not LTR material, though, that's tricky.

[Rawmeo]

Never meet the kid - it isn't the kid's fault if her mom decided to fuck up her life, and you don't want the kid to get attached to you and consider you his father figure. Just bang her, and when she starts refusing sex, even once, it's time to walk away. You'll see that it will come to a point that you've been banging her for long, and once day, she throws LMR and asks "what are we?" and the sex is less passionate and she starts finding excuses - that's the point where it's over.

[puckerman]

Ask them about their kids. Most moms are happy to brag about them. Pay attention to that as well. Is she always praising the kid(s) or always bashing them?

They are used to bossing kids around. So, take the lead so she doesn't have to make decisions. Penetrate all three holes, and treat her like a fuck toy.