This is the first time I'm really giving thought to this issue. I hooked up with this girl I've vaguely known for several months, at a Halloween party. She opened me but she clocked me first. I take that as a huge IOI and proceed accordingly. We go back and shit happens. For most of the following day she was a bit cold and distant before suddenly getting all cuddly and shit out of nowhere. Left her place on a good note despite being a bit perturbed by the on/off behaviour. She said she has liked me "for ages" supposedly.
I didn't text, or call, or message her all the following week. You know, so as not to seem needy. Then the bitch snubs me on Facebook (I know, I know, get off Facebook) over a playful (not simping) picture comment. We're in the same place at the weekend just gone and she isn't an outright bitch to me, but something feels a bit off. I shoot her a message saying "hey, you looked good last night". Ignored. Mistake? I want to see if she wants to hang again but after being rude to me like that I can't really bring myself to initiate the conversation after being ignored. The way I see it she should be chasing me for being a couple years younger than her and more attractive. Where do you draw the line?
Did I do something wrong here? Right now I'm doing a lot of deliberating in my head over the concept of "good looking guy game". I am used to girls telling me I'm attractive, "hot", even "pretty" etc. Threads on the subject informed me that you have to strike a careful balance between alpha/beta like behaviour. I know some guys out there might think that being "good looking" makes it all so much easier, but ever since my adolescence I've been learning the hard way that it can be a huge double edged sword. Before game/red pill I would just blunder through these situations and whatever happened, happened. Now being aware of it may be leading me to over-analyze. I could be tripping myself up and have no idea until its too late.
Have I done too much here? Not enough? Is she just a weird bitch? I'm pretty sure about the last part. Its the rest that I need clarity on.
I didn't text, or call, or message her all the following week. You know, so as not to seem needy. Then the bitch snubs me on Facebook (I know, I know, get off Facebook) over a playful (not simping) picture comment. We're in the same place at the weekend just gone and she isn't an outright bitch to me, but something feels a bit off. I shoot her a message saying "hey, you looked good last night". Ignored. Mistake? I want to see if she wants to hang again but after being rude to me like that I can't really bring myself to initiate the conversation after being ignored. The way I see it she should be chasing me for being a couple years younger than her and more attractive. Where do you draw the line?
Did I do something wrong here? Right now I'm doing a lot of deliberating in my head over the concept of "good looking guy game". I am used to girls telling me I'm attractive, "hot", even "pretty" etc. Threads on the subject informed me that you have to strike a careful balance between alpha/beta like behaviour. I know some guys out there might think that being "good looking" makes it all so much easier, but ever since my adolescence I've been learning the hard way that it can be a huge double edged sword. Before game/red pill I would just blunder through these situations and whatever happened, happened. Now being aware of it may be leading me to over-analyze. I could be tripping myself up and have no idea until its too late.
Have I done too much here? Not enough? Is she just a weird bitch? I'm pretty sure about the last part. Its the rest that I need clarity on.
"As wolves among sheep we have wandered"