Quote: (11-12-2015 04:51 PM)Er Lollo Wrote:
This is a problem that I think only me or few other people have:
I go out, I try to hook up with every available girl I see, then when I figure out I'm not gonna capitalize anything I go back home, whatever the time is. And I feel depressed and guilty. Feel like I have wasted one night. I think I could have slept longer, I could have chatted with nice girls, but I definately wasted my time. I get easily depressed about this, I feel like I didn't hook up just because those girls are impossible.
Am I the only one thinking that? Do you think you waste a day or an evening if you go out to hoop up and you don't find any girl?
Not sure where you are going but unless you're going to one of the mythical-massively-female-heavy-supersecret-bars numbers are greatly against you.
Due to the above fact what you are saying basically mathematically equates something similar to: "I play lotto. I do not win. I get upset". With this odds you will get upset, a lot.
Don't play lotto, create your own lotto & prevent disappointment. Just don't go alone, go with girls using either option below.
Go to bar/club with prospect girls: Go to Starbucks during daytime, (read on this type of pickup if you need) get your meetups for the same night. Over subscribe meetups to compensate for unavoidable flakes or you will go home early again. It can be argued why would you go to bar with an existing contact (and a valid argument too) but anyway let's leave it for another time - basically this would work if you get your numbers properly aligned (fake ratio vs meetup ratio). Also do the "are you going to flake out out" test in advance - forcing girl to overcommit to coming out to meet you. Not a full contract but it does improve chances A LOT.
Go to bar/club with non-prospect girls: If you can't yet go to Starbucks during daytime and get your dates for the same night (yet) then don't. Use some pre-existing bar/club girls as they're everywhere. It is radical if you haven't heard about it before there is material on it just find it. The gist is you go and talk with the girls and they invite you to come along next time they're out. They will do this only if you are a cool confident guy a value to their group. They also want to help you (human instinct) if your'e not an evident disappointment.
While executing this maneuver it's essential you don't hit on any of the girls in this group as once you hit the first one all the others will know that's why they're non-prospect.
They are decoration and toolbox and more but not targets. Their purpose is to be your group and possibly your wingman (they will warm up to it once you show your value as a genuine honest person and not a skirtchaser - nice irony).
Funny thing is they will start focusing on you once you get some attraction in the field (with their help). This is like nuclear fission.
You do that once you go out a few times and ready to burn this group and move on to the next one. Depending on skill level you can achieve zero or single lay (beginner) from this group or all the way up to full cluster fuck (masterPUA).
I read about this, thought total bollocks, tried it, noticed it works. Try it and please report your success.
You could also go with the happy-time-at-mine thing if you have acceptably social accommodation in a central location. Just google it for the details. Gist is, by the time you hit the club, you already have your group with you, in worst case scenario you'll have a good time with your mates but usually your groups positive radiation will help you make new friends on the spot.
Wish you a great many fun nights out with your new mates.