I'm guessing not many players are introverts but as one myself, I've always struggled with motivation to game women. Constantly communicating with and keeping different women on the go is an annoying inconvenience to me. On so many occasions I've just given up messaging girls simply because I can't be bothered going through all the effort competing with 10 other guys for their attention, eventually meeting up with them, and having to live up to their expectations all for a slice of pussy, and I feel like an idiot who's wasting opportunities every time. I feel as if I'm gaming these women because it's what I should be doing, rather than what I want to be doing and a big part of that is the need to elevate my notch count and get experience while I'm in my prime and able. I've been with quite a few girls due to SNL but have never been with the same girl more than once and don't consider myself sexually experienced. It's worrying to me that majority of girls may be more experienced than me. I probably have a higher notch count, but they've had that steady sexual experience with dating guys. I don't want to look back in 10 years and think I should have done more, because at 24 I'm already feeling that way in regards to the last 7-8 years of my life where I've been content to study, work out, play sport and dance in clubs without really taking all the opportunities that girls have thrown at me. Having said that, I'm not the type of guy to read books and play video games all week. I love going out drinking, dancing and having a good time but if I meet a girl and it doesn't happen that night I simply can't be assed meeting up with her again. I hate texting (even though my text game is strong). I hate phone calls. I hate situations where I'm forced to speak constantly such as dinners or "coffee dates" (Amount of actual dates in my life = single digits). Meeting new people or socialising in large groups is also uncomfortable. This is probably why I'm more comfortable in bar/club environments where strong, silent types can flourish using solely looks, body language and a few words. Sometimes I think I would be better off settling into a steady relationship, but living in Australia I feel as if I should be wiser than that. After all, I havent met a girl worthy of settling down with in my life here.
I was hoping I could get some advice. Am I just not cut out for the player lifestyle? Should I push through it and force myself to peruse more leads and go on more dates? If I don't will I regret it in the future?
I was hoping I could get some advice. Am I just not cut out for the player lifestyle? Should I push through it and force myself to peruse more leads and go on more dates? If I don't will I regret it in the future?