[XPQ21]

Tried to very gingerly get back into the night game scene the other evening by going to a concert. I don't know if this has been addressed before (I'll have to searh), but in general I would think most rock shows are a fairly poor place to run game, as the majority of chicks there are going to be with a BF/LTR. At least it seemed true at this place - the overall ratio seemed pretty poor and a lot of chicks with guys. It's been a long time since I've been to a concert, probably pre-red-pill or whatever, and I was shocked to see how many beta dudes there were with hot girls being led around by the hand like she owned the place.

Anyway, I went in with the attitude that I wasn't there to meet anyone, just to see a show I wanted to see and have a good time, which was essentially the truth.

I was a little older than the crowd here, but the bartender was around my age and cute so I chatted with her a bit. After a while she gave me her name and asked me to "add her on Facebook" which I realize from my reading here is generally considered to be the sign of an attention whore looking to add to her stock of orbiters.

A bit later a woman in her late 20s rolled up next to me at the bar who was already pretty lit up. She started chatting with me and making pretty aggressive physical contact. However, she had a mixed sex group of friends nearby, which made me nervous as I don't know whether one of them is her FWB/boyfriend/gay wingman or what the deal is with them. Again, after she chatted with me for a bit she pulls the "Oh, add me on Facebook" blah blah.

So I've just been ignoring women after they pull the "add me on FB" stuff because I don't think it's going to lead anywhere. Anything I could do different, or are these attention whores a lost cause? It would be a lie to tell them I don't have one and I'd prefer not to do that, but...

[Pontifex Maximus]

I've fared pretty well with a Roissy classic:

"Does this usually work with other guys?" Wait to see if she tries to qualify or just bails.

Or get a beer. Tell the bartender that she's paying. If she coughs up, good. If not, just bail or play around with her until the next one.

If you're feeling extra mischievous, give that Facebook info to a thirsty dude or leave it in the bathroom. Some dude will do a payback solicitation for you.

[Deepdiver]

Be BOLD and aggressive its a concert who cares if she is there with anyone if she is showing IOIs - as for facebook eff that black hole of zuckaspergernonsense ... just add her first name to your phone contacts and tell her to give you her number and you will text her sometime... text her "hi" on the spot to verify her number and take her phone to see the Hi from your number. Take control of the interaction.

I will say a lot of younger guys are going out and instead of getting numbers they ask women their names and then scroll on Facebook through the dozens of ashley wilsons etc until they find her and ask is that you she nods yes and then friend her on the spot and game on to the next one... the girls look like they were flattered with a smile on their faces and then the guys follow up with a request for text/phone number and work hookup logistics via text because anything you write in facebook is keep in their black hole server banks forever and can and will be used against you in the court of public attention sloring also forever... facebook gives them a way to check you out and feed their hamsters elimination game.

So why bother with the facebook crap just cut out a wasted step and go right to text/logistics/hookup/bang.

[XXL]

Ok so you didn't want to meet anyone and you complain that 2 girls talked to you and offered facebook exchange.

You're too hung up on fb. If i liked a girl I'd take her fb no problem. Better this than nothing.

What you should do? You should talk to both more if you liked them too. It doesn't matter that a girl is in mixed group, hot girls usually are. You can just talk to them casually ask how they met each other etc.

The most important thing is to figure out relationships in the group before making any move