Quote: (01-28-2015 11:34 PM)Sketness Wrote:
Quote: (01-28-2015 10:33 PM)Shortest Straw Wrote:
100% truth; all point to the influence of testosterone
Don't know about the big clit; I have never been with a girl with an extraordinarily large clit. But given that the clit is an underdeveloped penis, it makes sense.
I had a girlfriend who was biologically sort of masculine. No shit, broad shoulders, narrow hips. I recall the weird epiphany when I was fucking her from behind that it was visually kind of similar to fucking a guy. It's a shame, because she really was a nice, sweet, earnest person. But, yes, a slut. Not the sluttiest I have known, but there was a definite masculinity to her sex drive.
Since then I paid more attention to it. The girls that have openly confessed to having "the sex drive of a guy" or "like a guy when it comes to sex" have all had a curious openness about sex, plus they have had the ring finger tell.
It's a conflict. Those with that masculinized sex drive are fun to fuck and get to know sexually, but are problematic for a long term relationship.
They are perfect beta male bait. The beta male thinks he has found "the girl who likes to [fish]" but he doesn't realize she'll be fucking everyone else with equal abandon.
bro no disrespect but...how do you know what "visually kind of similar to fucking a guy" looks like?
Aargh. Because of all the guys I've fucked? That must be it.
She had narrow hips. Not really broad shoulders, on an absolute basis, but relative to the hips, yeah. Definitely a testosterone influence in utero, if not in adolescence. Very athletic. Mom and sister were kind of masculinized, too.
Maybe it was from her that I gained my dislike of doggy style.
It was interesting because the sex was particularly hot in the beginning, very aggressive, and then fizzled rather profoundly. Curiously, for all her sexual aggressiveness, she was unable to reach orgasm. She was uncomfortable with her female sexuality - unwilling to rub her clit, that sort of thing. I wonder if she fundamentally disliked being female.
Roissy listed a bunch of static testosterone symptoms. There are a few dynamic ones as well. Basically, think of alpha male body language. Loud voice, loud laughter, dynamic facial expressions, expansive gestures, broad stride, broad foot placement, aggressive posture. You'll see these in some women. I think Roissy and others have also pointed out that these behaviors have been increasing in recent years. Something about the androgynization of society; he likes to blame it on hormones in the water, but I think it's more likely it's gene expression responding to social demands.
