I just had I thought I wanted to share, and get advice and feedback from more experienced guys. It's about activities you do before dates, or more specifically, about getting yourself into a talkative, social state before a date. Sorry if this has been discussed before, I couldn't find anything by searching the forum.
Roosh talks about this in Bang, and I found similar advice in a book written by a Croatian game blogger. Basically, before a date you should do stuff like talking to friends/coworkers, calling someone on the phone, initiating conversations, being extroverted etc. This should get you into a talkative mode and improve your actual game on the date. If you do the opposite and spend the entire day alone, you'll have trouble spitting out good game. This makes perfect sense in general.
However, on my last two dates I've noticed that spending the entire afternoon before the date alone, finishing stuff for work and talking virtually to no one, had no bad effect on my date performance in this area. I managed to be talkative and chatty throughout both dates, and led the conversation smoothly and without dead ends. The first girl even complimented me by saying I'm really talkative and outgoing. Since I'm an introvert, this came as a surprise to me.
Now, I'm thinking about the following: since we introverts are drained by socializing, and 'charged' by spending time alone, wouldn't it make sense that if an introvert spends the pre-date afternoon by talking to people and socializing, that he'll be exhausted by the time the date begins? I know for sure I get exhausted by extensive socializing, and I always need some time alone afterwards to recharge.
This guy gives some interesting insight on the matter, the bit where he talks about developing your extroverted side begins at 1:11:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VnZE8bNbLZU
What are your thoughts on this?
Roosh talks about this in Bang, and I found similar advice in a book written by a Croatian game blogger. Basically, before a date you should do stuff like talking to friends/coworkers, calling someone on the phone, initiating conversations, being extroverted etc. This should get you into a talkative mode and improve your actual game on the date. If you do the opposite and spend the entire day alone, you'll have trouble spitting out good game. This makes perfect sense in general.
However, on my last two dates I've noticed that spending the entire afternoon before the date alone, finishing stuff for work and talking virtually to no one, had no bad effect on my date performance in this area. I managed to be talkative and chatty throughout both dates, and led the conversation smoothly and without dead ends. The first girl even complimented me by saying I'm really talkative and outgoing. Since I'm an introvert, this came as a surprise to me.
Now, I'm thinking about the following: since we introverts are drained by socializing, and 'charged' by spending time alone, wouldn't it make sense that if an introvert spends the pre-date afternoon by talking to people and socializing, that he'll be exhausted by the time the date begins? I know for sure I get exhausted by extensive socializing, and I always need some time alone afterwards to recharge.
This guy gives some interesting insight on the matter, the bit where he talks about developing your extroverted side begins at 1:11:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VnZE8bNbLZU
What are your thoughts on this?