Disclaimer: there is no chronological order to my posts and what has been written or what will be written is based on my life over the last 3 years and hopefully many more to come.....
None of my posts are meant for bragging as there is more failures than successes but will give details on what I think we relevant for the events...
I'll try and update where and when I can..
ANY QUESTiONS JUST ASK
ABOUT ME
Been reading this forum of and on for last 2 years and purchased the Bang, Day bang..
I'm 34 years (but can comfortably pass for 23 when I want to) old, 5'11 with Medium build (not toned). I don't go to the Gym but am careful with my diet to try and stay in reasonable shape that I don't turn podgy.
I have a pretty cool job that means I travel 2/3 weeks EVERY MONTH and more often than not a new country or city.
I'm not overly wealthy that I will drop 1000s on bottle service but I'm comfortable enough that I can enjoy certain things in life.
All of my gaming is done while I'm travelling and when I'm back home I give most of my time to chilling out and seeing friends and family.
My ethnic origin is SE Asian and but a lot of people dont have a clue and although some people may ask if I'm Indian I also get asked if I am Arab, Mexican, Greek, Italian, Somewhere in the Med, Braziliian, Mexican ( read anywhere somewhere has a tan) HOWEVER I was born and raised in Oxford, UK and went to boarding school there and as such have a very traditional English which most people class as posh. This is important as this attribute plays a big part of my game.
I would say my game level currently is intermediate if not lower but am continuing to try and improve things...
So let me begin....
GOTHENBURG, SWEDEN ( about 3 years ago)
Went in the middle of November so it was fucking cold!
Logistics were awesome and stayed in the Avalon and as far as hotels go in Gothenburg I don't think there is anything better.
The hotel has the advantage of having a decent bar and restaurant where a lot of decent looking girls like to pre-game.
I had already pipelined before I went out and met the girl in the hotel bar.
Wore a fitted blazer, shirt and trousers and when I walked in the bar I could already see heads were turning..
Chilled out with the girl for about 2 hours and thinking back she gave me a lot of IOIs but I was a bit lame then and didn't clock on... Right at the beginning of the meeting she said she had another dinner to get to but lo and behold she never went anywhere until I basically couldn't escalate and she left. Would rate her a 6.5
What I did not notice was every-time she would go to bathroom or I went to the bar to get a drink I would be opened by other women.
The place has a slightly older crowd but well dressed and decent women. After my pipeline girl left an older 38 year old blonde blue eyed woman basically opened me by commenting on my clothes. .. Chatted for a bit and I still fucked up and didn't realise what she was saying even when she said she would love to see the hotel rooms ....she was probably a 7.5 ..
After leaving the bar went to a place called Yakida ( I think).. Again got a few IOIs but didn't have the balls to escalate. At the same time I was one of those dicks who was going from room to room and girls probably noticed this.
This was near the beginning of my gaming and even though I went home with my dick in hand I learnt:
1) need to learn to escalate when getting the right signals.
2) don't be the dick who jumps from place to place in a club.
3) this is around the period I changed my dress sense ( invested in decent fitting clothes which were not expensive but did spend good money on a Gucci belt which got commented on a few times ( not something that would happen in London but did here for some reason).
Though if people are thinking to go out and buy an expensive belt don't unless you have the whole look to carry it off.. When you don't have the whole look to carry of an expensive belt ( or could be anything else like watch , bag etc) it will either look like your wearing something fake or that you stole it from a shop and will instantly turn off a girl.
All in all Gothenburg was an awesome place, loved the people and would happily visit again even though didn't get any action.
NAPA VALLEY, CALIFORNIA and WASHINGTON DC ( about 18 months ago).
Napa Valley was a week long work retreat so I had to behave . To be honest thinking back I can't think of one girl who I met that I really really wanted to bone. At the same time as it was a work trip I was in a different mindset and behaved the whole time.
The only time I did some minor gaming and that was more just for fuck of it was on a Sat night in some local bar joint. Nothing came about it except I remember being hit on by a gay guide .. Wtf?
Maybe had to do with how I was dressed. I wasn't wearing anything out of the ordinary except bright colours ( but still stood out against the normal crowd)
Now on the way back to London I thought I had never been to DC so arranged it so I had a 24 hour stopover. The stop was more for a typical tourist sightseeing trip rather than anything else.
Stayed at the Rennaisance which I wouldn't stay at again however.....
I originally planned to get dressed up and hit up one of the bars however soon after I arrived it started chucking it down with rain and lost my mood and thought fuck it and was going to get an early night... Went down for my last cigarette of the night and saw a Milf ( probably an 8 if you like your Milfs) at the bar. I would guess her age to be late 30s. She was tanned and had slight accent but turned out was oridiginally Sri Lankan. Now I've met other Sri Lankans before but she was definitely not like others. She was well spoken, dressed well and had a huge rock on her wedding finger.
Now as I had come off from my San Fran flight from earlier in the day I was still dressed as I was out in Nappa Valley. I had bright blood orange trousers on and a white lined shirt. At the bar ( which incidentally is shit and tiny) I was stood out like a sore thumb against all the formal guys in their suits type attire but I didn't realise till later this was a good thing.
Sat down and ordered a drink and started eye fucking the Milf who seemed to be reciprocating . As I'm eye fucking her some business man type ( aged 40 ish who looked in shape asked if he could join her).
Meanwhile there was a French girl at the bar ( the bar is small and there were only about 8 odd people in the vicinity so I could hear everyone's conversation ) so I went up to her and started chatting. She wasn't anything special so I had no interest in banging her. Talked to her for a bit but she had to leave and as soon as she was gone I was asked by the Milf to join her and the guy at her table.
I thought fuck it and went and sat right next to her. She proceeded to order and pay for my drinks ( could get used to this). During this time she sees another guy at the bar and asks him to join us to..I'm thinking ' fuck! what an attention whore' but I had nothing better to do so just sat there. .... Myself, the milf and two other dudes who right from the outset started to try and get in her pants.
As everyone was chatting, I was pretty quiet, and enjoying my free overpriced mojitos, it slowly dawned on me both these guys were trying to swing their dicks and impress her with how important their job is and how successful they are.
When it came to my turn when I was asked about my job I played it down and quickly changed the subject... Milf seemed to shift her attention to me even though I was hardly saying much.
I'm slowly getting more and more fucked on the alcohol and I started rubbing my leg against hers under the table.....she didnt move or anything and started rubbing it back.... GAME ON! Now I just had to get rid of these 2 other dudes ...
Not seeing any sign of the dudes backing down Milf finally decided a to go to the toilet... While she's gone I say I'm going out for a cigarette.. Instead, I time it, so when she's coming out I pretty much grab her, stick my tongue down her throat and say to her I'm going to fuck her senseless tonight...
Did the trick and as soon as we got back to table she settled the tab and up we went to my room.
Unfortunately when in my room she tried to resist- Got her down to her lingerie ( very nice classy, mature lingerie) and she starts spouting how she shouldn't do this and this is bad etc...
Tried what I could but she wasn't having any of it... She put her clothes back on and gave me her number and left my room...
Now fortunately for me she forgot to put her bracelet on when she left my room. Quickly call her up and and say I have her bracelet and I'll come down to her room ( 1 floor down) and give it to her..
Long story short.. Got to her room , she put up some resistance but did fuck her well... After I finished went back up to my room and ordered room service
!
Next morning got a txt asking if we used protection ( she must have been drunker than she let on )..Answered ( truthfully ) yes we did and that's the last I heard of her..
2 main things I learnt from this -
1) doesn't hurt to stand out a little even if you look different from everyone else.
2) with other guys in a group its sometimes better to stay quiet as give them enough rope to hang themselves until it's the right time for you to come out of your shell..
Going to crash now - have quite a few other places to write about which I will try over coming weeks....
None of my posts are meant for bragging as there is more failures than successes but will give details on what I think we relevant for the events...
I'll try and update where and when I can..
ANY QUESTiONS JUST ASK
ABOUT ME
Been reading this forum of and on for last 2 years and purchased the Bang, Day bang..
I'm 34 years (but can comfortably pass for 23 when I want to) old, 5'11 with Medium build (not toned). I don't go to the Gym but am careful with my diet to try and stay in reasonable shape that I don't turn podgy.
I have a pretty cool job that means I travel 2/3 weeks EVERY MONTH and more often than not a new country or city.
I'm not overly wealthy that I will drop 1000s on bottle service but I'm comfortable enough that I can enjoy certain things in life.
All of my gaming is done while I'm travelling and when I'm back home I give most of my time to chilling out and seeing friends and family.
My ethnic origin is SE Asian and but a lot of people dont have a clue and although some people may ask if I'm Indian I also get asked if I am Arab, Mexican, Greek, Italian, Somewhere in the Med, Braziliian, Mexican ( read anywhere somewhere has a tan) HOWEVER I was born and raised in Oxford, UK and went to boarding school there and as such have a very traditional English which most people class as posh. This is important as this attribute plays a big part of my game.
I would say my game level currently is intermediate if not lower but am continuing to try and improve things...
So let me begin....
GOTHENBURG, SWEDEN ( about 3 years ago)
Went in the middle of November so it was fucking cold!
Logistics were awesome and stayed in the Avalon and as far as hotels go in Gothenburg I don't think there is anything better.
The hotel has the advantage of having a decent bar and restaurant where a lot of decent looking girls like to pre-game.
I had already pipelined before I went out and met the girl in the hotel bar.
Wore a fitted blazer, shirt and trousers and when I walked in the bar I could already see heads were turning..
Chilled out with the girl for about 2 hours and thinking back she gave me a lot of IOIs but I was a bit lame then and didn't clock on... Right at the beginning of the meeting she said she had another dinner to get to but lo and behold she never went anywhere until I basically couldn't escalate and she left. Would rate her a 6.5
What I did not notice was every-time she would go to bathroom or I went to the bar to get a drink I would be opened by other women.
The place has a slightly older crowd but well dressed and decent women. After my pipeline girl left an older 38 year old blonde blue eyed woman basically opened me by commenting on my clothes. .. Chatted for a bit and I still fucked up and didn't realise what she was saying even when she said she would love to see the hotel rooms ....she was probably a 7.5 ..
After leaving the bar went to a place called Yakida ( I think).. Again got a few IOIs but didn't have the balls to escalate. At the same time I was one of those dicks who was going from room to room and girls probably noticed this.
This was near the beginning of my gaming and even though I went home with my dick in hand I learnt:
1) need to learn to escalate when getting the right signals.
2) don't be the dick who jumps from place to place in a club.
3) this is around the period I changed my dress sense ( invested in decent fitting clothes which were not expensive but did spend good money on a Gucci belt which got commented on a few times ( not something that would happen in London but did here for some reason).
Though if people are thinking to go out and buy an expensive belt don't unless you have the whole look to carry it off.. When you don't have the whole look to carry of an expensive belt ( or could be anything else like watch , bag etc) it will either look like your wearing something fake or that you stole it from a shop and will instantly turn off a girl.
All in all Gothenburg was an awesome place, loved the people and would happily visit again even though didn't get any action.
NAPA VALLEY, CALIFORNIA and WASHINGTON DC ( about 18 months ago).
Napa Valley was a week long work retreat so I had to behave . To be honest thinking back I can't think of one girl who I met that I really really wanted to bone. At the same time as it was a work trip I was in a different mindset and behaved the whole time.
The only time I did some minor gaming and that was more just for fuck of it was on a Sat night in some local bar joint. Nothing came about it except I remember being hit on by a gay guide .. Wtf?
Maybe had to do with how I was dressed. I wasn't wearing anything out of the ordinary except bright colours ( but still stood out against the normal crowd)
Now on the way back to London I thought I had never been to DC so arranged it so I had a 24 hour stopover. The stop was more for a typical tourist sightseeing trip rather than anything else.
Stayed at the Rennaisance which I wouldn't stay at again however.....
I originally planned to get dressed up and hit up one of the bars however soon after I arrived it started chucking it down with rain and lost my mood and thought fuck it and was going to get an early night... Went down for my last cigarette of the night and saw a Milf ( probably an 8 if you like your Milfs) at the bar. I would guess her age to be late 30s. She was tanned and had slight accent but turned out was oridiginally Sri Lankan. Now I've met other Sri Lankans before but she was definitely not like others. She was well spoken, dressed well and had a huge rock on her wedding finger.
Now as I had come off from my San Fran flight from earlier in the day I was still dressed as I was out in Nappa Valley. I had bright blood orange trousers on and a white lined shirt. At the bar ( which incidentally is shit and tiny) I was stood out like a sore thumb against all the formal guys in their suits type attire but I didn't realise till later this was a good thing.
Sat down and ordered a drink and started eye fucking the Milf who seemed to be reciprocating . As I'm eye fucking her some business man type ( aged 40 ish who looked in shape asked if he could join her).
Meanwhile there was a French girl at the bar ( the bar is small and there were only about 8 odd people in the vicinity so I could hear everyone's conversation ) so I went up to her and started chatting. She wasn't anything special so I had no interest in banging her. Talked to her for a bit but she had to leave and as soon as she was gone I was asked by the Milf to join her and the guy at her table.
I thought fuck it and went and sat right next to her. She proceeded to order and pay for my drinks ( could get used to this). During this time she sees another guy at the bar and asks him to join us to..I'm thinking ' fuck! what an attention whore' but I had nothing better to do so just sat there. .... Myself, the milf and two other dudes who right from the outset started to try and get in her pants.
As everyone was chatting, I was pretty quiet, and enjoying my free overpriced mojitos, it slowly dawned on me both these guys were trying to swing their dicks and impress her with how important their job is and how successful they are.
When it came to my turn when I was asked about my job I played it down and quickly changed the subject... Milf seemed to shift her attention to me even though I was hardly saying much.
I'm slowly getting more and more fucked on the alcohol and I started rubbing my leg against hers under the table.....she didnt move or anything and started rubbing it back.... GAME ON! Now I just had to get rid of these 2 other dudes ...
Not seeing any sign of the dudes backing down Milf finally decided a to go to the toilet... While she's gone I say I'm going out for a cigarette.. Instead, I time it, so when she's coming out I pretty much grab her, stick my tongue down her throat and say to her I'm going to fuck her senseless tonight...
Did the trick and as soon as we got back to table she settled the tab and up we went to my room.
Unfortunately when in my room she tried to resist- Got her down to her lingerie ( very nice classy, mature lingerie) and she starts spouting how she shouldn't do this and this is bad etc...
Tried what I could but she wasn't having any of it... She put her clothes back on and gave me her number and left my room...
Now fortunately for me she forgot to put her bracelet on when she left my room. Quickly call her up and and say I have her bracelet and I'll come down to her room ( 1 floor down) and give it to her..
Long story short.. Got to her room , she put up some resistance but did fuck her well... After I finished went back up to my room and ordered room service
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Next morning got a txt asking if we used protection ( she must have been drunker than she let on )..Answered ( truthfully ) yes we did and that's the last I heard of her..
2 main things I learnt from this -
1) doesn't hurt to stand out a little even if you look different from everyone else.
2) with other guys in a group its sometimes better to stay quiet as give them enough rope to hang themselves until it's the right time for you to come out of your shell..
Going to crash now - have quite a few other places to write about which I will try over coming weeks....