I agree more or less with the other posts here:
The one thing that irks me is that guys who have lots of female friends are usually just beta orbiters looking for a chance to score. (Not to mention women rarely if ever give hard-hitting advice that a guy needs if he's looking to get his life in shape, the women I've known usually just 'coddle' a guy and try to make him feel better about himself like he's their son or something, going well out of their way not to 'offend' anyone). I think guys who are beta purposely gravitate toward 'female friends' for this reason, they basically just want a "safe space" where they don't have to worry about being "judged" for acting too beta.
I definitely believe a guy should make an effort primary to have male friends; if he 'hangs out' with women too much I think he might start to identify too much with women and lose touch with his masculinity.
I won't say I'm totally against it, though I can see why it might be complicated especially if the woman is interested in you.
The one thing that irks me is that guys who have lots of female friends are usually just beta orbiters looking for a chance to score. (Not to mention women rarely if ever give hard-hitting advice that a guy needs if he's looking to get his life in shape, the women I've known usually just 'coddle' a guy and try to make him feel better about himself like he's their son or something, going well out of their way not to 'offend' anyone). I think guys who are beta purposely gravitate toward 'female friends' for this reason, they basically just want a "safe space" where they don't have to worry about being "judged" for acting too beta.
I definitely believe a guy should make an effort primary to have male friends; if he 'hangs out' with women too much I think he might start to identify too much with women and lose touch with his masculinity.
I won't say I'm totally against it, though I can see why it might be complicated especially if the woman is interested in you.