Quote: (09-05-2015 05:12 PM)Phatom Wrote:
Thank's man. What I mean a girl would 'ghost' during an interaction. Say I escalated it's going somewhere and then she'll become quiet.
I just assumed you meant texting.
Ok, so in person that means she's lost things to talk about and is quickly losing interest. You may need to work on your ramble, mix things up by changing the situation or venue, or figure out just what it is that might be hindering your game. It could be something as simple as your conversational ability or something a lot more complex - maybe you're boring to her? Hard to say without much more information, but if it didn't happen early on it's probably not physical. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you, it could be total incompatibility.
Questions you should ask yourself:
Are you an interesting person?
Do you have cool stories to tell?
What kinds of fun activities or hobbies do you get involved in regularly?
Do you have a lot of life/travel experience?
What do you specialize in (i.e. cooking, writing, drawing, music, marksmanship etc.)?
What makes you so different (or better) than the other guys she's dating?
Are you able to convey all of these things in a conversation without sounding arrogant?
These are attributes and qualities that are important to know and portray in person. Women are attracted to interesting men.
I'm not saying you have any deficiencies, but I am saying you should reflect on yourself and see where you might be struggling. Consider areas where you might need self-improvement.