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Wife Hunting Abroad

^ Not even the journalist on the link above could spell Colombia correctly. Why is it so hard for people?
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Quote: (08-30-2015 07:17 PM)cowboy Wrote:  

I have posted on this topic before. I know several guys that married Ukrainians/Russians and brought them back. Many of them are still married, however the geography of where they brought the girl back was key. The guys who were good looking, successful (at least moderately), strong local connections (respected), and brought their Ukrainian hottie back to Oklahoma City or Omaha were okay. This is because they brought them back to a family oriented place where as men they were in the top tier element of society. They had alpha like qualities and they knew the game. They had the pre-nuptial agreement and covered themselves the best they could. 2-3 kids later I am sure that the Ukrainian wives were still weighing their options but they probably concluded that it would be tough to move up on the status/money scale. Wealthy, physically fit, international type guys with style are in short supply in corn country. Those couples appear happy and appear to still be in good shape. However, I agree with Jim it is one hell of a risk.

An acquaintance of mine that brought back a Ukrainian is still with her after several years and that's what he did. Brought her back to a smaller city where he's top dog. No issues (so far).
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Quote: (09-09-2016 03:49 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

I've read a few of these posts and it seems clear that a lot of guys on this thread have never had a girl that was seriously into them. I'm talking puppy love, eyes light up when she sees you, was practising signing your last name on her signature the day she laid eyes on you, retard level smitten.

If you find that and if you're smart/honourable enough not to fuck it up then you will never look back...

Me thinking back to how I was too young/immature years ago to realize the value of what I had. Twice already...

[Image: facepalm3.gif]

To be fair, I broke up for good reasons both times, the first to care for a loved one that was having health problems and lived far away and the second to move on (for a good reason, but not due to anything bad on her end).

We're talking a cake baked with my favorite subject of study at the time intricately drawn on it in one case, and in the other case, a video composed of many still images of the girl touring the city with a board with a single word on it, the word changing with every image, and as the images flipped, a lovely message being delivered...the entire production probably took over a week to shoot and edit. That's just two of many examples of things those two girls did.

It was like their minds' full time job was thinking up new ways to show their affection/love for me. Retard level smitten indeed, Leonard...

Those two relationships set the bar for everything after, anything less and I'm not even interested. That's good and bad, but it is what it is.
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My kind of thread! Will keep a close watch on it. I will try to go thru all 46 pages.
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Laos , Indonesia , Ethiopia , small city Vietnam. . Put a baby in them before you leave for the west . Make sure to have at least 3 children with her. She won't have the time or energy for mischeif even if she were so inclined. But if you chose wisely it shouldn't be a problem at all.

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Quote: (12-28-2018 04:47 PM)Day Game Bang Wrote:  

My kind of thread! Will keep a close watch on it. I will try to go thru all 46 pages.

Agreed, I'm going through all of it right now from start to finish, and the sun's coming up here in the Philippines. It's 6 a.m. now and I can't put the thread down. I'm on page 28, and the knowledge dropped is absolute gold if you're location independent already and looking to pick a destination.

So right now I'm thinking Vietnam, but considering the various cities. So far in the thread, Travesty stated he preferred Da Nang and Hanoi for living/quality of life, he thought Saigon was a chaotic mess (paraphrasing), and he thought he girls in Hanoi were prettier and more conservative (but he stressed the country's women as a whole were conservative, just that Hanoi was slightly more conservative).

Here's Travesty, regarding beauty in Vietnam:

Quote: (10-30-2016 08:26 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

Just FYI I thought Saigon was much worse for LTR women (as in I would never go there again) compared to Da Nang and Hanoi.

I honestly don't get the draw to Saigon at all. Horrific Freddy Kreuger traffic, no metro, no subway. Pretty horrific nightlife. Seems the further you go north you get more Chinese and a little mixed French blood here and there with better looking taller women too, nicer bone structure within Vietnam. Saigon down south seems like shorter women and you get that plain smorgasbord facial look of Cambodia, Malaysia, Singapore, Philippines, to a certain extent Thailand. The little Ewok with no sharp high cheekbones, no cute little noses with a little bit of a Tinkerbell point to them, or any other facial features that pop out in a good way.

Saigon seems like the team going 2 wins 14 losses in the Vietnamese city league. Didn't even make the playoffs!

And Onto, regarding the increasing divorce rates in Vietnam, especially in urban centers:

Quote: (10-30-2016 08:05 PM)Onto Wrote:  

While doing some light research on Vietnam family law I came across this article. It suggests Vietnamese women (at least in the big cities) are becoming more westernized. But then again, it's just an article. I'm looking forward to gaining my own experience here.

Vietnam Divorces

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The arrival of Starbucks and McDonald's aren’t the only signs that Vietnam is starting to look more like a developed country. According to a new survey, the country’s divorce rate has skyrocketed over the past decade, especially in urban areas, reports Shanghai Daily:

“According to a recent survey co-conducted by Vietnam's Ministry of Culture, Sports and Tourism, and the General Statistics Office, and with support from the United Nations Children's Fund(UNICEF), the number of divorces in Vietnam has increased over the years, from 51,361 cases in 2000 to 88,591 cases in 2010, and 145,791 cases in 2013. As of November 2013, Vietnam's population had reached 90 million.”

A separate study by the Vietnam Institute of Social Sciences confirmed the above findings, adding that 60% of the divorces are made up of young couples, with ages ranging from 23 to 30 years while 70% of divorced couples had a marriage life of one to seven years.

On the demographic side, studies “found that women accounted for 70% of people who forwarded their divorce cases to courts and intellectuals and state employees made up the majority of the total divorcees.”

Professor Nguyen Huu Minh, head of the Institute for Family and Gender Studies under the Vietnam Institute of Social Sciences, said that in recent years, one out of every four married couples got divorced, adding that:

"Most of the young divorcees lack 'soft skills' in life, as they are normally the 'only child' in their family and they have enjoyed too much care and attention from their parents, which makes them selfish people. In their marriage life, they lack altruism and patience and they often resort to divorce or separation."

Spoiled kids make for poor spouses. Who would have thought?

Then Patriarch agrees with Travesty regarding a lack of live-ability for Saigon:

Quote: (10-30-2016 11:09 PM)Patriarch Wrote:  

Yeah Saigon is really a shitshow, there aren't many attractive girls here. You really need to have several years experience with the language to even have a shot with decent girls. Hot sluts don't date foreigners and hot good girls can't communicate with you. Night life is abysmal, traffic makes going a few blocks take 30 minutes during rush hour. There's really only one comfortable month out of the year, too--the rest of the year it pours every day, making dates impossible, or it's too hot and humid to go outside. Spot on assessment, Travesty. Hanoi in general is just a much more livable city than Saigon.

Tweezy I'm not really sure what you mean about traffic. Living and working centrally means you are getting the worst of the traffic, all day long. District 1 is a complete clusterfuck. The only way you avoid traffic in this city is by living in D2 or D7 and also working there, but then you might as well live in the suburbs back in a western country.

Also, Malone popped in earlier, and it turns out he met his wife in Saigon. She's a Vietnamese girl over a decade younger than him, and he brought her back to his country already, which is pretty amazing. Also (and this is unrelated to this thread, but related to Vietnam wife hunting), Dash, who posts on Swoop The World, thinks Saigon (Ho Chi Minh City) is the only game in town in Vietnam as far as dating due to the diminished percentage of English speakers and limited online dating options anywhere outside of Saigon.

Ok, I'll stop quoting, just read the thread.
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Quote: (12-28-2018 05:14 PM)10119 Wrote:  

Laos , Indonesia , Ethiopia , small city Vietnam. . Put a baby in them before you leave for the west . Make sure to have at least 3 children with her. She won't have the time or energy for mischeif even if she were so inclined. But if you chose wisely it shouldn't be a problem at all.

Any recommendations? And are you assuming the reader knows Vietnamese, or not? If not, how do you think that would affect day game, since small cities in Vietnam are known for having extremely limited online game options?
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Im assuming the readers do not know Vietnamese. Most of the girls in the younger generation that you would want, 18-32 will speak small English even in the smaller cities. And I think its not so difficult to meet them online either , plenty of dating sites to find these girls. Search around. An intelligent westerner with decent looks should have no problem finding a marriage prospect in Asia.
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Quote: (11-28-2016 12:49 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

Quote: (11-01-2016 09:27 AM)Tweezy Wrote:  

Malone,

You might should consider learning some Vietnamese. Not like this is a random girl your fucking. This is your wife.

Not saying get fluent, but enough to at least make small talk with her family.

Good post, I agree 100%.

Frankly, I can't imagine being married to a girl whose native language I speak at a pre-school level.

Marriage involves a lot of complicated shit, moreso in a foreign country... kids, school, health, money, living arrangements, etc etc... a kindergarten level in her language isn't going to cut it.

Wouldn't it be better though, to have her level up her English instead? And then you can focus that time on more financially viable activities? Plus, her learning English helps her in other ways too.

Or in Malone's case, she'd be learning Spanish, I suppose. But same thing, her learning the dominant language of wherever you take her seems to be more ideal.

Unless you don't want her to get good at English (or Spanish in Malone's case), so that she has less of an opportunity to be approached by other guys. I can see an argument for that, although I'm fine with any girl I date being proficient in English.
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Quote: (12-07-2018 11:16 AM)yankeetravels Wrote:  

http://www.talentsmart.com/articles/the-...3-p-1.html

I looked into that link... it seems you are classifying "self-reporting emotionally aware" to be the same as "Emotional Intelligence". This is incorrect according to the wikipedia page on the subject (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence).

From the study you linked:
"The Gallup organization recently asked people around the globe whether they had experienced a set of ten different emotions on the previous day (five positive and five negative). The study’s results reported the percentage of people in each country who experienced all ten emotions. Since humans experience hundreds of emotions each day, you would expect someone who is emotionally aware to recognize that he or she had experienced the full range of emotions on any given day."

I didn't see anywhere in the above text where it is objectively testing emotional intelligence, it simply asks people how emotional the individuals self-report to be = How emotional a women feels.

Also keep in mind that it includes self-reporting of both five positive and five negative emotions... which means that hypothetically an overly-emotional drama-queen sour-puss type of girl whose self-reporting mostly negative emotions can easily rig this survey to be "high EQ" apparently. Perhaps that study should be renamed "EDQQ" (Emotional Drama Queen Quotient). [Image: wink.gif]

Quote: (12-07-2018 11:16 AM)yankeetravels Wrote:  

Philippines- #83 IQ, #1 EQ
USA- #23 IQ, #6 EQ
Colombia- #69 IQ, #4 EQ

Russia and Ukraine- top 15 IQ, bottom 5 EQ

And I think those "results" show how completely bogus this survey is ^ in regards to measuring real "EQ".

I've spent significant amount of time in all of those countries - Philippines, USA, Colombia, Russia and Ukraine.... And how the average Philippino or American girl can top the chart in "EQ" and a slavic girl be at the bottom of "EQ" is truly mind-boggling and hard to fathom.

TLDR: I'm calling bullshit on this quasi data set.
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Quote: (09-08-2018 06:24 PM)eck Wrote:  

does anyone know what happened to the OP?

I'm curious as well. Did anyone keep in touch with Travesty?
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What's the point of a high IQ wife again? I don't need her to do my taxes nor solve physics equations ~ she just needs to put hot food on the god damn table and give a hell of a blowjob.

In before children argument. 99.999% of people I know (in the west at least) can't name their 8 Great-Grandparents nor 16 Great-Great Grandparents nor know anything substantial about them. I'm sure there's already the blood of a 17th century Spanish Incel in the Filipinas by now.
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Quote: (12-29-2018 01:24 AM)BaatumMania Wrote:  

What's the point of a high IQ wife again? I don't need her to do my taxes nor solve physics equations ~ she just needs to put hot food on the god damn table and give a hell of a blowjob.

Also, if you want a high IQ wife, just date the smart ones in whatever country you're in. The whole topic is a bunch of mental masturbation.
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Ok, to address some of the questions. I've never been to Hanoi, but my wife likes it and says it's nicer than Saigon. So it's obviously a viable choice if you speak Vietnamese or plan to. No idea what the English levels are like.

Da Nang is great to my taste, but I think dating there would be VERY tough. It's a small pond and you'd fish it out pretty quickly I'd say.

Saigon has a lot going for it. There's a ton of great restaurants and live music everywhere. I never had any issues finding hot girls. Stay away from the shithole tourist area Bui Vien in D1. Things are cheap, food is good. Just make sure your apartment doesn't have any local roosters.

The negatives are mostly: traffic. In some areas and times it's bad, but honestly it's nothing compared to Jakarta. Get on a motorbike and either drive yourself or take a Xe Om (moto taxi) and you'll be fine. The only crime you're likely to experience is theft in the tourist shithole if you flash a phone or a camera for too long.

Vietnamese girls are pretty hard to ONS unless you get the sluts. Some of them (virgins) are pretty hard to fuck at all. There's more of those than you would expect.
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My time in Vietnam in 2000s was neither great nor bad. But it's overtalked and overrated a lot these days because of the surge of English Teachers living there and trying to justify their life choices by beating on metaphorical drums: "come to Vietnam like I did... because I did the right thing right? Right?!". How good a place is shouldn't be dictated on whether you can make $1,600 a month by singing "ABC" and "London Bridge" to 6 year olds. Especially if you're subjecting yourself to an overpolluted city that has little urban planning and positives behind it.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Da_Lat
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Da+Lat
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5YMRdlgCpg


If Vietnam gave out 360 tourism visas then the only place I would seriously look at living in would be Da Lat. But funny thing is you don't see that many white people in hill stations because they're far from airports nor have many English teacher jobs for monkey expats.
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I didn't know any English teachers in Vietnam, wasn't one and don't recommend hanging out with them.
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Quote: (12-29-2018 02:17 AM)Malone Wrote:  

I didn't know any English teachers in Vietnam, wasn't one and don't recommend hanging out with them.

It'd be kind of cool to have foreigner friends though. Living remote can sometimes feel like being in solitary confinement. I would consider teaching English if only to get out of the damn apartment and make some local and foreign contacts. However ephemeral those foreign contacts might be if they keep bouncing in and out of the city.
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Quote: (12-29-2018 02:37 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

Quote: (12-29-2018 02:17 AM)Malone Wrote:  

I didn't know any English teachers in Vietnam, wasn't one and don't recommend hanging out with them.

It'd be kind of cool to have foreigner friends though. Living remote can sometimes feel like being in solitary confinement. I would consider teaching English if only to get out of the damn apartment and make some local and foreign contacts. However ephemeral those foreign contacts might be if they keep bouncing in and out of the city.

Sorry, wasn't clear there. The expat community isn't mostly English teachers. There's tons of "digital nomads" as well as guys doing non-virtual hustling. Musicians, guys rebuilding and selling custom motorcycles, import/export, you name it.

Sure, there ARE English teachers, but I didn't hang with any. It was mostly people doing "other" stuff.
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*Yawn*

Everyone here and even Reddit claims Asia is overflowing with these nomads but practically everyone I've met in bars so far either felled into the "I'm just here for 3 days" or "I'm an English Teacher". And the old retirees farts I meet abroad are generationally too autistic to make money off the internet. Now of course my experiences are based off multiple countries and not some peak tourism month in August nor chilling out in Chiang Mai (and funny enough some Redditors said meeting digital nomads there was difficult despite its' reputation. Sure they saw ton of white people but they weren't making money from online stuff) .
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Quote: (12-29-2018 01:24 AM)BaatumMania Wrote:  

What's the point of a high IQ wife again? I don't need her to do my taxes nor solve physics equations ~ she just needs to put hot food on the god damn table and give a hell of a blowjob.

In before children argument.

Because, children.

If you are an above average intellect man with above average genetics, then procreating with an intellectually average female is akin to procreating with an ugly female with bad genetics. On a biological level you're affecting the next generation.

Your life and your offspring's lives become exponentially easier with a more intelligent wife (assuming of course she has also been cultivated as feminine, traditional and supportive etc etc etc).

Yes this is going to sound harsh and arrogant, but I'm going to say it regardless because I think the RVF community can stomach the truth - Having an LTR with adult females of average intelligence can be a complete punish and a perpetuating cycle affecting your own quality of life. You will be forced to assist them in basic duties of life administration and daily tasks, even in a developed country where life is relatively easy. People of even average intelligence are insufferable at the worst of times, and avoidable at the best of times.

I guess it's a matter of taste, and every individual man places different standards on women... And yes of course other personal traits/qualities which are discussed in great detail here on this forum are also very important in seeking a wife but intelligence is one of the most important qualifiers in a female whom you choose to reproduce with.

"Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that" - George Carlin
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My gf is less intelligent than me, but I haven’t had to assist her with anything. What do you really need to assist with? It’s frustrating that I can’t talk about business, world events, etc. though.

In terms of raising kids, I’m assuming she can provide care which she’s very capable of and I’ll provide the steering that can help with life success.

I’m also much worse at paying attention and attending to mundane personal interactions, so she can complement in that area. It’s not so black and white whether this imbalance is going to be bad or not.
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Quote: (12-29-2018 08:58 PM)GreenHills Wrote:  

My gf is less intelligent than me, but I haven’t had to assist her with anything.
Awesome.... in my own life experiences I've never (not even once) had a relationship where that was the case. I'm actually a bit envious of those men who find women like that.

Quote: (12-29-2018 08:58 PM)GreenHills Wrote:  

What do you really need to assist with?

With serious relationships, their life spills out onto yours, regardless of how teflon us men are, their energy one way or another is absorbed into our peaceful space as men.

Visa issues, helping to stabilise her fluctuating hormones and stress levels, budgeting, settling disputes with peers and family, negotiating and any form of cognitive problem solving, tech and gadgets, support regarding direction of career, getting things done with companies on her behalf or bergaining with vendors, reverse engineering for her short-term and medium-term goals, fixing items and repairing the home, preparing for trips, planning upcoming schedule and other day to day time management, proofreading work proposals, editing resume, purchasing supermarket products, putting air in her tires and changing the oil in her vehicle, getting several quotes for mechanical repairs, translating something from the real world to a woman's "idealistic world", tax returns and the whole spectrum of life admin, taking her mama's dog for a walk, having the energy and patience to listen to someone whose at the whim of their rollercoaster of emotions, making decisions that need a dynamic or pragmatic approach....

Bla bla bla bla

I'm getting bored with listing all these mundane tasks, but there is undoubtedly some level of correlation between the independent pragmatic competency of a women and her intelligence which surprise surprise will affect the burden of stress a man has to take upon as his role as a man, especially if he is the cohabiting husband.

Of course her age and maturity, her upbringing, family, culture, religion etc etc all play a role too. But intelligence is the operating system, and stupid people are still running MS-DOS in their head which tends to make life really difficult in a world which requires the latest software update.
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Quote: (12-29-2018 03:47 PM)Jungle Wrote:  

Quote: (12-29-2018 01:24 AM)BaatumMania Wrote:  

What's the point of a high IQ wife again? I don't need her to do my taxes nor solve physics equations ~ she just needs to put hot food on the god damn table and give a hell of a blowjob.

In before children argument.

Because, children.

If you are an above average intellect man with above average genetics, then procreating with an intellectually average female is akin to procreating with an ugly female with bad genetics. On a biological level you're affecting the next generation.

Your life and your offspring's lives become exponentially easier with a more intelligent wife (assuming of course she has also been cultivated as feminine, traditional and supportive etc etc etc).

Yes this is going to sound harsh and arrogant, but I'm going to say it regardless because I think the RVF community can stomach the truth - Having an LTR with adult females of average intelligence can be a complete punish and a perpetuating cycle affecting your own quality of life. You will be forced to assist them in basic duties of life administration and daily tasks, even in a developed country where life is relatively easy. People of even average intelligence are insufferable at the worst of times, and avoidable at the best of times.

I guess it's a matter of taste, and every individual man places different standards on women... And yes of course other personal traits/qualities which are discussed in great detail here on this forum are also very important in seeking a wife but intelligence is one of the most important qualifiers in a female whom you choose to reproduce with.

"Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that" - George Carlin

IQ is overated. Upbringing is underrated.
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Filipinos/as have high EQ? All it takes is 5 minutes in that country to prove otherwise. Also I'm not sure why this place keeps making it on these wife hunting lists.

I wasn't looking for one but in over a year, I didn't find a single worthy prospect. I also don't think Pinays make great mothers either. At best they are good with infants and that's it. I'm constantly seeing them running around chasing their kids and losing track of them, not setting boundaries, pumping them with msg, etc.

It's really scary because I know a lot of these children will grow up to be codependent and of course their parents can't help because they'll be too busy trying to leech off them or will be too narcissistic to care.

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This is my overview of wife hunting abroad, fairly casually over the last eighteen months, during which I have been abroad for eleven.

The Market

My main observation is that there is there are two markets when it comes to relationships with women:

[Image: markets.png]

There is a bang market (non-serious) and a marriage market (serious). The marriage market in The West is verging on death. Girls don't know what they are doing or what they want, at best, until they hit the wall or the seemingly shrinking pool of guys who can wife them up sorts them out. While the bang market grows in the only way it can, prostitution and soft harems.

Outside The West the market can be either more hybrid: the girls are serious due to harder lives making marrying an industrious guy a very good option, but due to a collapse in religion's regulation of the sex market the bang market has the same affect it does in The West, soft harems, prostitution and single mothers.

Then there are the countries where regulation of the sex market is still strong; and to access sex guys need to marry or at least be in a serious LTR. And that's why in such countries people still get married after meeting each others a few times.

The big difference for a Western guy when going to any of the usual or some less usual destinations and setting yourself up in the marriage market is so long as you are decent looking, good to be around and have your life in order, it is a paradise. There is a lot of talk about the decline of various paradises like The Philippines, but all these places are still paradises if you bring the promise of commitment.

For me it is very difficult to extract anything I'd be interested out of The West. I am generally low in traits that would make me successful in the non-serious market, but high in those that would make me successful in the serious market.

My personality is very hard wired to be in the serious market. Western girls by and large don't care about these traits until they're past the wall; so there is no match; and I can't give most of the girls there much they want. But for foreign girls I just turn up and be myself and it's worked every time.

Logistics

If you want to get married at a certain age, I would recommend starting your search two years before that age. There is a lot to learn and you'll probably get swayed from your path by bobs and vegane.

First it would be a good idea to figure out what what traits you want from your wife and limit yourself to girls who you think fit that. If you are just meeting girls who are attractive you will likely move on.

For me one of the biggest realisations is that I want to find a girl who has no plan for a career and has preferably not been to university, but ideally is still intelligent. This is now a very small market. Moving to their country or importing them to yours is obviously a big task and is a big stumbling block. If you want your wife to be more like a traditional housewife, then by and large women with degrees and career plans are unlikely to move for you. That is unless the girl is from certain Asian countries, where the girls are much more willing to fit themselves to you.

Age

If you have a good income, keep in shape and are decent looking, then you don't really have an expiration date. Girls in the usual destinations are usually happy for ten to fifteen year age gaps from the age of eighteen. If they are more modern that may be less. But they soon up that when they hit nineteen, twenty, twenty-one. And will soon been happy with twenty years gaps for more stable countries (Russia) and maybe thirty to forty for less stable countries (Colombia).

In more stable and modern countries there is also much fewer younger girls looking to get married from about eighteen. In Russia few women are looking to get married at eighteen; while in somewhere like Indonesia or The Dominican Republic there are a huge number of girls looking to marry when they are young. The level of feminine traits also seems to correspond quite highly with this.

If you are looking for your eighteen year old virgin, you'll have best luck in Latin America (particularly around the equator), South and South East Asia and Africa. It's going to be harder to pull off in Eastern Europe as fewer young girls feel marriage at that age is a good idea; and the ones that do are hard to find.

If you want a good number of eighteen year olds who want to marry you have: Vietnam, Indonesia, Thailand, The Philippines, India, Bangladesh, Africa, much of The Caribbean (particularly The Dominican Republic) and Latin America.

The more messed up the country is the more likely you are to find girls who are only interested in older men, sometimes 20+ years, as they want stability.

From what I've seen, all girls start off looking for their prince, with every positive trait that they can find. Then in The West in, particular, they get distracted by career and end up getting fucked a few times by the guys with the most superficial traits they like. They aren't able to get hold of what they thought they would have – their prince. Their anger at this situation gets projected onto high-status men and in the worse cases they start engaging in self-destructive behaviour (like dying their hair blue and purposefully looking terrible). At this point they stop knowing what they want – a reliable, competent partner and that desire matastisises into getting hate-fucked by assholes.

As I see it, you want to find a girl who is looking for her prince and be it. Then you may lock into functional femininity for the rest of your life, rather than picking up a used up girl who can't understand what she really wants anymore. So my search always starts with girls 18-18, for biological reasons and social reasons.

The Destinations

South and South East Asia

South East Asia (and more so South Asia) is your first call for more traditional, willing and playful-girly girls. Even if a girl is in university she will probably be prepared to leave to marry you. I love talking to these girls as they are so sweet, feminine and will make you feel like you are a king or prince. Partly because they will call you their king or prince. They have a very idyllic idea of marriage that hasn't been polluted by Hollywood peadophilles.

If you want to get married, it's is very easy. The expectations of women in S(E)A are so low their main demands often consist of “don't hit me” or “don't turn me into a maid”. While Western women are painfully unimpressed with Western men, they have no idea how good they have it. S(E)A girls will snap your average European up in a heartbeat as he has so much more they want over their men.

My best experience with a girl was from Bangladesh. The femininity of these girls lays everyone else to waste. It's arguably the most traditional country in the world, with the youngest average age of marriage for women: sixteen. It's not the easiest to navigate, but the thirst for a white guy is huge. It's the same in India. India is often said to be a tough destination, but it's for the same reason – the stigma of a girl going out of the tribe and the tilt of the sex market towards marriage. But these girls have all seen sappy love movies with Hugh Grant (or whoever they give them these days) and there is a huge preference for light skin and blue eyes. Even hijabi Muslims want to know what it feels like to get hold of a larger, white appendage.

In Bangladesh the main through for most young girls is, “Who will I marry?” And it's the same for guys as it's the sure fire way of getting sex. The most common question I was asked there is, “Do you know someone I can marry?”

The best way I can describe the girls there is like squeaky, giggling clouds of femininity who at every twist and turn look to be sweet and playful as they tell you how great you are in every way. I had an erection the whole time I was with this girl because she was so soft, adorable and showering me in compliments. It's the inversion of the modern, Western battleaxe. She was a miniature testosterone inducing machine that could probably solve most impotence problems; and left me sore for a month as a result of her affects.

She always wanted to do something sweet like cook for me or dance in the rain on the roof at night; and all with no pretenses that she was anything other than a woman in a woman's role, or rather a baby girl.

Whenever I was in public with her we would be gawped at and as soon as we got into the lift in my apartment she would start spinning round me, looking up at me playfully; smiling, giggling and laughing as she would say funny thing like, “Aaaaaaahhhhh. Soooohhh tallhhh! Toooohhh much tallhhh! Tee-hee-hee.” And continue her soft, giggly games for all the time we were together.

It was also great to be with a girl who very little about sex; and who was both intensely shy but delicately ravenous to get me inside her.

Thailand and Vietnam

While in India, Bangladesh, Indonesia and Malyasia the girls tend to fit the baby girl mold, the girls in Thailand and Vietnam are more demure, particularly in Vietnam. If you like girls who are quiet and elegant over playful baby girl it seems a good choice. They are as a result a bit more difficult to get talking with, particularly Thais.

The Philippines

I don't know why anyone would choose The Philippines, as it's a very trashy and dysfunctional culture. You may be able to find an more attractive, younger girl, but it will come with a big hit to the SMV of any of your 5'5” sons.

North Africa

This isn't a common destination, but the girls have similar characteristics to those in Malaysia, but, I would say, better physically. North African girls also tend to have the same opinions on their men as S(E)A girls, i.e. they just want someone who is respectful and has his life together. Like S(E)A girls they are very easy to talk to and are often baby girls with a bit more demure traits than S(E)A girls. The thirst for European guys is huge, growing and more and more are trying to meet someone online. The religion is often not serious, though they usually come with the more agreeable traits you would find from religious girls. None of the girls I spoke to were religious and they can be atheist or describe themselves as 'agnostic Muslim'. They have a good crop of the sort of red/blonde haired Hellenic girls and most of the rest you will encounter will be Spanish or Latina-type in appearance.

Sub-Saharan Africa

There is obviously also a huge thirst for white guys in Sub-Saharan Africa, though by and large it's not a popular spot for wives for obvious reasons. The disgust for their own men is higher than anywhere else in the world, from what I can tell. Most guys with their life in order in Africa are banging whatever they can and commitment is generally pretty weak. There is a strong desire for someone who is respectful, hard-working and can support the woman. By and large they will accept whatever you plan for your life.

They are usually either a mix of spicy Latin chica types, but can be also be quite introspective and dreamy, wondering things such as, “What are the zebras thinking?” Obviously they come with the high risk of all types of dysfunction and infidelity.

It's also one of the few areas where you could pick up two or more wives, with Ghana being the main region where women will accept that. The bargain being the women want to lock down a good provider and see this as a good bargaining technique; as well as to stop their husband sleeping around. As a result the country is pretty messed up. I don't believe it's possible to have a stable society unless sex is highly regulated and monogamy enforced. As a result the likes are Ghana are bathing in prostitution from guys who have little chance of every marrying.

Eastern Europe

I'm not familiar with the central-Eastern European countries, but they seems to be pretty good choices. The mains ones I know of are Serbia and Russia. The upper-middle class in Serbia are entitled and the economy is structured on petty corruption, where they carve up the small economy for themselves and leave crumbs for the rest. They are as bad the the luvvie upper-middle class in The West and are adopting similar cultural positions. I have found the general folk to often be pathologically honest and very welcoming. In the neighbouring countries they say of Serbs – they will welcome you into their home and give you everything, so tomorrow they have nothing. It's a very good analogy for their general behaviour as they lack foresight. They are also liable to not consider for a moment anything that is outside of what they think is reality. As they are poor, one of the few things they can posses is honour, which is important to them. In Serbia you will hear a lot of women making cultural and political statements that are now verging on being illegal in the increasingly totalitarian memes of Sweden, German and the UK. The national sentiment is still strong and Vladmir Putin is more popular in Serbia than Russia. If you go to any of the festivals you will be able to buy a whole host of Vladmir Putin merchandise, such as mugs and T-shirts. A lot of the cultural heritage is still intact in villages.

I think one of the most important observations on Serbs and other countries in Eastern Europe is that despite the average income being about half of that in Russia, there are virtually no women in Serbia trying to find a husband online. While at any time there are probably one million Russian women on international dating sites. This demarks the more loyal nature of Serbs and their different value structures. As a result the divorce rate in Serbia is about half on Northern Europe; while Russia has the highest in the world at 52.

On Serbia I have been told indirectly via an Orthodox priest that if you are Orthodox and want to find a traditional wife that you can just turn up at the eparchies (Orthodox version of a diocese) and they may hook you up with a choir girl or something of the sort.

Other countries that have low divorce rates are everywhere in The Balkans, Malta, The Caucus, Central Asia and Romanian.

Russia on the other hand is deceptive. Although I think it's a better choice than Metro US and Northern Europe, the conception that Russia is conservative or traditional is not really true. In particular women have a strong career drive and are probably the least likely to make compromises for you, outside of The West. Whereas women in other places are feminine all the time, Russian women are generally only feminine when you're alone with them. Other times they are more masculine and modern. It's another variant of Latina girls, when they will say they are very religious and traditional as their bobs are wafting in the air and they are sending you ass shots in their tight jeans. I also feel as if many Russia girls are storing up a thousand cold winters to unleash on you when you least expect it.

I think you can find good girls anywhere, but if you want traditional you'd be better off looking at virtually anywhere else in Eastern Europe.

Latin American and The Caribbean

I've always been averse to Latin America due to the huge levels of dysfunction they have, but I've ended up here anyway. Here the girls fit in the the chica model of femininity. They are loud, colorful and emotional.

As with most other places listed, infidelity is common and their men are widely disrespected as so few have their lives in order and close to half of children are raised without a father in Colombia. One of the things Latin women really like is a “detallista” - someone that pays attention to details, is organised and technical. This is very rare here in the colourful, illogical mess they create. Obviously the guys who have these traits and can operate well in the economy are using these desirable traits to insert themselves into any woman they can. I'd say Latin women are the most money oriented in the world. There also seems to be a pretty open ONS culture. Here women are looking for a man who isn't going to cheat on them and has a good income, but they may also be fucking anything that takes their fancy. I have read that Brazil, Colombia etc. are very religious and conservative. Little could be further from the truth. I'm also told that the women are faithful and it's the men who are responsible for all the dysfunction but I find it hard to believe. The girls also seem to be unpredictable.

By far the most receptive girls are The Dominicans and the Venezuelans. The latter could be seen as a case of matrimonial crisis investing at the moment; and it's the only place outside of Asia where many girls will call you their king.

The West

If you are looking for traditional girls there are still some options in The West, but will generally involve getting close to the church. On religious dating sites I've seen a small number of girls who are looking to get married, live rurally and make babies. And there's always going to be some young girls that desire an older man that you can work with.

Online

I don't know many of the sites that you can use to meet women abroad. The main ones are the Cupid Media sites (such as InternationalCupid), which have quite a number of fake and suspicious profiles. The only one that puts effort into keeping fake off is RoseBrides. But if you are looking for traditional you will want to focus on religious dating sties.

I think that these sites have an over-representation of girls who have some sort of issue, like family problems, kids with some guy(s) or some other hole in their heart, but probably not much.

You can also just add girls on Facebook. Interpals is also quite good.

But for traditional you are best trying to get plugged into a local social circle. These girls are likely to have some sort of parental and church oversight.

For using these sites, I would recommend using them for only one month before you have a trip booked to the country. Scour the site for every profile that interests you and send out messages to them all. You want to start with a big initial pool. Try and send them a custom message, but many give little away, such as “I'm a simple girl looking for a loyal life partner.” It's definitely not the case that a short profile means they are vapid. If they don't give much away come up with a couple of openers that might be used to start a flowing conversation about something that interests them – this will often be talking about a stable relationship, affection etc.

“Hi Sofiya, yоu're mysteriоus with yоur shоrt prоfile. Let's play a game. Tell me threе thіngs abоut yоurself. Yоu gо first....”

If you are good looking, with good photos and your life together, you should get a response rate above 50%, but many of those will fall off.

Don't put huge investment into one girl over a long period of time. You need to meed them before you can make a decision on how serious you are about them.

Language Barrier

For me this isn't a problem as I have no intention of importing and am accustomed to living abroad. One of my favourite girls couldn't speak English, though she could read it; and I couldn't speak more than the basics of her language. But for a time it was great. It seemed it was only her career drive that got in the way. But for bringing a girl back to your country I imagine it would be much more difficult.

There's actually an element of charm an innocence about a language barrier. It gives a +1 for romance.

Femininity Models

I would put feminine girls into three categories: baby girl, demure and chica.

The baby girl is cute and adorable. She likes to be alone with you and play games, be soft and caressed. For these type of girls the best countries are India, Bangladesh, Indonesia, Malyasia and to a lesser extent North Africa.

The demure girl is quite and elegant. She is at home quietly playing the piano or planting herbs in the garden. She sits with a natural grace and dresses modestly and with dignity. For these types of girls the best countries are Vietnam and to a lesser extent Thailand and some Eastern European girls.

The chica is exuberant, seductive and colourful. They have a higher sex drive and are pretty filthy. You'll find these in Latin America, The Philippines and Africa.
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