After posting a thread in the main game forum about a "crisis of faith" I was having about game, I was met with an overwhelmingly supportive collection of responses. A lot of tough love and a lot of sobering realizations.
I claimed to have a notch count of over 50 by age 22 and I have received a few PM's from other members asking what I did to obtain that many notches and what my style of game / logistical setup was like. So I have decided to create this thread to give as much help as I can to others.
To give a bit of background about me, I will copy / paste my introduction from my previous thread:
I am 22 years old, have been reading about and studying game since I was 17. Made major strides and improvements; had a few LTR's, have a mini-harem, notch count to date is at 51 (I'm not including a few embarrassingly ugly/fat chicks I took down in times of desperation), etc etc. I have a book shelf full of game-related material: Bang, Models, Gorilla Mindset, Rational Male, Art of Seduction, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Day Bang, The Game, The Rules of The Game, Mystery Method, Way of the Superior Man. I have torrented and watched the entire RSD video bootcamp series such as Blueprint Decoded and Foundations. I have subscribed to and listened to every episode of the Christian McQueen show (and his new iteration: A Man in Demand Radio), The Good Looking Loser Podcast, RSD podcasts, Mike CF's Danger and Play Podcast. I have read essentially every single article on Good Looking Loser, Roosh V, Return of Kings, Danger and Play, Real Christian McQueen. Avid creeper of many pua/game forums. I'm a member of the RSD inner-circle Edmonton chapter and I am an esteemed member with many people asking me for advice and mentorship. I go out clubbing 5 nights a week, sober, rolling dolo about half the time (but inevitably seeing many friends out when I go). I daygame about 2-5 days a week but always with a wing. I'll admit solo daygame is still a bit of an issue for me. Game had changed my life for the better and I am incredibly grateful I have came across this community of top-shelf, cream-of-the-crop men.
If you are curious what I look like, please send me a PM and I will give you my Instagram account which has many photos of me (as well as photos of me and my infamously good-looking friend who pulls with no effort or game knowledge).
To give a brief synopsis: I would consider myself above-average looking, above-average muscular build and physique, dark hair and dark features, and (unfortunately) rather short at 5'6".
About my notches: An overwhelming majority of them (over 40 I'd say) were from cold approach SNL. Many bangs were had without even having the girls phone number. That sentence alone should give you a feel of what type of game I run. I also use a fake name unless the girl is a fucking rocket, then I'll give her my real name and all that jazz. The girls that I counted on that list range from, in my purely subjective opinion, from 6/10 average girls to straight 10/10 dime pieces that I would go full-beta on and marry tomorrow if they'd have me.
quick note - my notch count is truly higher than 51 but I do not count some trolls into that list. I have heard from many game resources to just notch those girls for the experience. But I can definitely say that it simply isn't worth how much of a loser you feel after banging them. I've had to learn this lesson a few times over and over to now be at the point where I tell my dick to go fuck itself instead of taking down a girl I don't find attractive / would never be caught dead seen with in public. The few girls that I didn't count were all from POF that would message me first and be super straight up about wanting to meet up and suck my dick. They were fat and not attractive, probably 3/10. I would always feel like a bag of shit after fucking them and I now realized it is 1000000 times better to just stay home and jack off then to bust a nut inside a girl you don't find attractive. I find it is very damaging to my psyche.
Another note about my notches / quick disclaimer: my retention game is absolutely horrible. The really hot girls that I take down generally don't meet up with me a second time. In fact, I'll go as far as to admit they won't even respond to my texts the next day (I generally will exchange numbers after the bang) and if they do respond, shits weak as fuck. Most likely has to do with my style of game being good for only SNL and nothing else. Maybe I have weak text game. I really don't know to be honest. But I wanna throw this disclaimer out there before anyone thinks I'm so god: I fuck a lot of hot chicks, but I can't keep them around. Of course there's a few exceptions where I did go into an LTR and have a main girl. Even a mini-harem with a main girl and some side girls on rotation. But alas, those are rather short-lived and rather unfruitful for me.
How I hit the club:
I love rolling solo but my phone usually blows up with texts from 5 or 6 different guys from different social circles wanting to go out with me. When your the guy that fearlessly approaches sets, other guys will always want to go out with you (leach from you) since you provide that value. But for logistical reasons I will usually roll solo in my own vehicle. When I go out with a group of guys, I'll drink alcohol since someones going to be picking my ass up and driving me.
It's generally like this - on weekdays, I roll solo and inevitably meet up with my "game" friends that I know through the Edmonton chapter of the RSD inner-circle. On weekend nights, I roll up with my "normal/cool" friends (I hate to put it that way but its true) and we pre-game somewhere, get drunk, then roll into the club guns blazing.
My Style of Game:
Aggressive. Direct. Highly sexual from beginning. I go 0-100 real quick (real quick nigga, real quick). All my game comprises of is screening aggressively to find a sexually available girl. I do not spend time trying to convert a "maybe" girl into a "yes" girl. I just approach a high enough volume until I can find that lucky yes girl. I'd say about (1-3%) of girls in a venue will be "yes" girls for me, meaning they are sexually available THAT NIGHT. I wrote up a massive paragraph going further into this. But instead I will just say look up Good Looking Loser's articles on screening and the concept of sexual availability.
My Logsitics;
Absolutely fucking horrible. I lived in the suburbs like 25 min drive from the bars and clubs. I lived with my parents. My dad is a light sleeper so I don't bring girls up to my room. I tip-toe them quietly into my basement where we fuck on a shitty $40 futon I bought at Wal-Mart. I just recently moved into my own place with a buddy of mine downtown, but looking back at my logistics situation I just laugh. I have a lot of funny stories to tell about sneaking girls (some as old as 31) into my parents basement to fuck on a cheap futon.
Now that you have the breakdown of what I'm about, please ask any questions you'd like and I'll answer as truthfully as I can.
I claimed to have a notch count of over 50 by age 22 and I have received a few PM's from other members asking what I did to obtain that many notches and what my style of game / logistical setup was like. So I have decided to create this thread to give as much help as I can to others.
To give a bit of background about me, I will copy / paste my introduction from my previous thread:
I am 22 years old, have been reading about and studying game since I was 17. Made major strides and improvements; had a few LTR's, have a mini-harem, notch count to date is at 51 (I'm not including a few embarrassingly ugly/fat chicks I took down in times of desperation), etc etc. I have a book shelf full of game-related material: Bang, Models, Gorilla Mindset, Rational Male, Art of Seduction, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Day Bang, The Game, The Rules of The Game, Mystery Method, Way of the Superior Man. I have torrented and watched the entire RSD video bootcamp series such as Blueprint Decoded and Foundations. I have subscribed to and listened to every episode of the Christian McQueen show (and his new iteration: A Man in Demand Radio), The Good Looking Loser Podcast, RSD podcasts, Mike CF's Danger and Play Podcast. I have read essentially every single article on Good Looking Loser, Roosh V, Return of Kings, Danger and Play, Real Christian McQueen. Avid creeper of many pua/game forums. I'm a member of the RSD inner-circle Edmonton chapter and I am an esteemed member with many people asking me for advice and mentorship. I go out clubbing 5 nights a week, sober, rolling dolo about half the time (but inevitably seeing many friends out when I go). I daygame about 2-5 days a week but always with a wing. I'll admit solo daygame is still a bit of an issue for me. Game had changed my life for the better and I am incredibly grateful I have came across this community of top-shelf, cream-of-the-crop men.
If you are curious what I look like, please send me a PM and I will give you my Instagram account which has many photos of me (as well as photos of me and my infamously good-looking friend who pulls with no effort or game knowledge).
To give a brief synopsis: I would consider myself above-average looking, above-average muscular build and physique, dark hair and dark features, and (unfortunately) rather short at 5'6".
About my notches: An overwhelming majority of them (over 40 I'd say) were from cold approach SNL. Many bangs were had without even having the girls phone number. That sentence alone should give you a feel of what type of game I run. I also use a fake name unless the girl is a fucking rocket, then I'll give her my real name and all that jazz. The girls that I counted on that list range from, in my purely subjective opinion, from 6/10 average girls to straight 10/10 dime pieces that I would go full-beta on and marry tomorrow if they'd have me.
quick note - my notch count is truly higher than 51 but I do not count some trolls into that list. I have heard from many game resources to just notch those girls for the experience. But I can definitely say that it simply isn't worth how much of a loser you feel after banging them. I've had to learn this lesson a few times over and over to now be at the point where I tell my dick to go fuck itself instead of taking down a girl I don't find attractive / would never be caught dead seen with in public. The few girls that I didn't count were all from POF that would message me first and be super straight up about wanting to meet up and suck my dick. They were fat and not attractive, probably 3/10. I would always feel like a bag of shit after fucking them and I now realized it is 1000000 times better to just stay home and jack off then to bust a nut inside a girl you don't find attractive. I find it is very damaging to my psyche.
Another note about my notches / quick disclaimer: my retention game is absolutely horrible. The really hot girls that I take down generally don't meet up with me a second time. In fact, I'll go as far as to admit they won't even respond to my texts the next day (I generally will exchange numbers after the bang) and if they do respond, shits weak as fuck. Most likely has to do with my style of game being good for only SNL and nothing else. Maybe I have weak text game. I really don't know to be honest. But I wanna throw this disclaimer out there before anyone thinks I'm so god: I fuck a lot of hot chicks, but I can't keep them around. Of course there's a few exceptions where I did go into an LTR and have a main girl. Even a mini-harem with a main girl and some side girls on rotation. But alas, those are rather short-lived and rather unfruitful for me.
How I hit the club:
I love rolling solo but my phone usually blows up with texts from 5 or 6 different guys from different social circles wanting to go out with me. When your the guy that fearlessly approaches sets, other guys will always want to go out with you (leach from you) since you provide that value. But for logistical reasons I will usually roll solo in my own vehicle. When I go out with a group of guys, I'll drink alcohol since someones going to be picking my ass up and driving me.
It's generally like this - on weekdays, I roll solo and inevitably meet up with my "game" friends that I know through the Edmonton chapter of the RSD inner-circle. On weekend nights, I roll up with my "normal/cool" friends (I hate to put it that way but its true) and we pre-game somewhere, get drunk, then roll into the club guns blazing.
My Style of Game:
Aggressive. Direct. Highly sexual from beginning. I go 0-100 real quick (real quick nigga, real quick). All my game comprises of is screening aggressively to find a sexually available girl. I do not spend time trying to convert a "maybe" girl into a "yes" girl. I just approach a high enough volume until I can find that lucky yes girl. I'd say about (1-3%) of girls in a venue will be "yes" girls for me, meaning they are sexually available THAT NIGHT. I wrote up a massive paragraph going further into this. But instead I will just say look up Good Looking Loser's articles on screening and the concept of sexual availability.
My Logsitics;
Absolutely fucking horrible. I lived in the suburbs like 25 min drive from the bars and clubs. I lived with my parents. My dad is a light sleeper so I don't bring girls up to my room. I tip-toe them quietly into my basement where we fuck on a shitty $40 futon I bought at Wal-Mart. I just recently moved into my own place with a buddy of mine downtown, but looking back at my logistics situation I just laugh. I have a lot of funny stories to tell about sneaking girls (some as old as 31) into my parents basement to fuck on a cheap futon.
Now that you have the breakdown of what I'm about, please ask any questions you'd like and I'll answer as truthfully as I can.
Grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference