[UroboricForms]

I'm having a go at this mid-30s woman, professional. She's in good shape so I'm keen to get the bang. She's responding but isn't really hitting on me back yet. Is that to be expected? I've never really tried to game an older professional woman before, but I'm curious. She certainly hasn't rebuffed me so that shows promise I think. I straight up said words to the effect of "you don't seem to mind me not so subtly hitting on you"...good idea? I figured it would show an IDGAF vibe.

I opened her with a work-related question, then message or two later started dropping in the compliments. They've been well received so far. Plan is to escalate with some variation of "we seem to be clicking, let's continue this conversation over drinks", roll back to her place or whatever and then go for the kill. There's at least a 10 year age difference. The MILF datasheet suggests she might just invite me round if she's DTF, bypassing the need to meet publicly if she has a thing about that.

I'm hoping it will be some permutation of the following: she works a lot (and thus is single/has no kids/exs in tow) so doesn't have a lot of time so will more likely be DTF on first meeting.

Constructive advice and criticism welcomed.

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

She's been around the block enough times to know that a young guy 10 years her junior is only showing attention for one reason

Go direct, that's all they respect

[dvd2r]

Show that cougar that you are a lion and not a cub. Let her hear you roar! Don't doubt your skills player. The #1reason older women don't give younger guys a chance is because young cats can act immature sometimes or they dont know what they're doing. Older women don't want to play mommy by having to teach you things. Nut up and ask her out. Don't wait for her approval or for her to invite you over. Release the hounds!

[WestIndianArchie]

(07-16-2015 07:33 PM)UroboricForms Wrote:  

I opened her with a work-related question, then message or two later started dropping in the compliments. They've been well received so far. Plan is to escalate with some variation of "we seem to be clicking, let's continue this conversation over drinks", roll back to her place or whatever and then go for the kill. There's at least a 10 year age difference. The MILF datasheet suggests she might just invite me round if she's DTF, bypassing the need to meet publicly if she has a thing about that.

I'm hoping it will be some permutation of the following: she works a lot (and thus is single/has no kids/exs in tow) so doesn't have a lot of time so will more likely be DTF on first meeting.

Constructive advice and criticism welcomed.

1. Sounds like you met this chick online - that works against you

2. Sounds like you're more invested in this interaction than she is - that works against you

3. You're trying to seduce her. Seduce is the wrong word here. You're merely trying to get her to come out using text - that works against you

4. You're moving slow, asking boring questions, and then using beta techniques by complimenting her - that works against you

5. She's not responding back like a teenager - and you want to attribute this to her being older or busy, not you being lame. - your hope is working against you

6. If you didn't meet this girl online, you got her # in real life, and this has been your behavior thus far, and this has been her response thus far - this whole thing may be pointless.

7. If she's not volunteering conversation - she's not interested.

It's not so much that you did the wrong things, it's that you're thinking about the entire thing wrong.

This girl is just a "bot".
She's not real.
She's pixels on the screen.

What she writes back is affecting you.
The fact that she's not writing you back immediately is clearly affecting you.

Reduce the thirst.
Take a step back.

Shoot her some of your best material, and then get her out on the town.

That's all you can do with this chick, but with all chicks.

So a week from now, you come across a Beyonce lookalike, 2 weeks it's a chick that looks like Salma Hayak, 17 days you'll find a Candice Swanpoel - at this level, THEY'RE ALL THE SAME.

If you want to send 7-10 messages before you ask her out - fine.
If you want to send 3, fine.

Just take your ego out of the equation.
These chicks aren't real, until they're in front of you.

WIA

[UroboricForms]

I should have mentioned that this is all online. A couple more messages and she starts communicating a bit more, asking questions. She's down to meet up.

[UroboricForms]

Forgot to update, got the bang last week. Nice and easy.

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

(08-17-2015 08:42 AM)UroboricForms Wrote:  

Forgot to update, got the bang last week. Nice and easy.

Care to provide a breakdown?

[UroboricForms]

Sure. Quick breakdown: met up for "drinks and chat", stayed at the bar til it closed (lots of eye contact, got her to sit next to me after a little while, kino), bounced to a hilariously shit nightclub, makeout, took me back to her place where I closed the deal.

Smooth sailing! This was breaking a dry spell so I was a little unsure at first but you know how these things go, once it's "in the bag" it becomes pretty apparent.

[Gmac]

Nice slumpbuster.