[Haxton]

Hi!

I wonder how you guys usually reopen onlinegame-wise after got flaked?

Situation was:
Set a date up via phonecall and she agreed to it (before I have ran my usual OG-routines...) -> confirmed it on the relevant day 2 hours before the date per phone and she agreed -> later she texted me via facebook that she is sorry but cannot do it today by providing a random excuse (felt sick or semething like that) -> then I usually ignore the flaky target for 1-2 weeks (no texting) just nothing...

Ok, now in 90%+ of all cases the flaky target will try to get in contact with me herself during the 1-2 weeks of ignoring her... if this does not happen,
I wonder how guys here usually are reopening?

By the way,
really glad to be now member of this forum... have read here already a lot and seems to be to me one of the stronger pu-communities outside there nowadays^^

[ryanf]

The key to this is to respect yourself and delete her number. Seriously.

[Thoroughbred]

You don't.

[GlobalMan]

As others have said. You dont.

Abundance mentality says there's a new one on the next block. Go talk to her. Why spend time chasing girls that are showing no interest?

[Gixxy]

Next, bro. Next. Delete her.

[Remington]

If a girl flakes on me last second, I usually delete her number. Now, if this girl is very attractive, I'll send a restart text after a few days saying something like "I'll be at xx bar today/tomorrow at xx time, would you like to buy me a drink..." If she doesn't respond, deleted, if she does respond, cool. Very small investment of time. Worth a shot.

[Travesty]

(07-30-2015 10:50 PM)Haxton Wrote:  

Ok, now in 90%+ of all cases the flaky target will try to get in contact with me herself during the 1-2 weeks of ignoring her... if this does not happen,
I wonder how guys here usually are reopening?

This only happens to you rarely and you worry about because you don't have enough hot girls in the pipe.

[barnbarn2k]

I dont think ive ever turned a complete flake around. Maybe once or twice, id have to really try to remember. I go radio silence and wait for them to contact me. The ones that contact me never turn into anything, mostly a waste of time or a distraction from keeping me chasing other women. If you do set something up with a flake id ask for her address and go over to her place. Make it flakeproof.

[Haxton]

Somehow the quote-function does not work for me, so gotta do this like that:

@Remington:
Yeah, like this at best + the next-thing... the latter Im doing by the way as a default so far and just have been wondering if Im too strict here cause in the weaker german pu-communities people seemed to think so (with little excepetions).
Relieved that its cleared now that I have been all the time right here and spot on^^


@Travesty:
Lol, you wanna see my "managing my datinglife"-Microsoftword-document which I obviously had to start cause I have lost seriously the overview about names and the underlying stages to the HBs I have in my pipeline?


@barnbarn2k:
Thanks for sharing your experiences on thins one!

[amusedmastery]

Forget her. The proper term here is Next. Flaky women are an absurd waste of a man's life. The whole problem I have with "Hail Mary's" and re texting someone who clearly has low interest (for whatever stupid hamster reason) is that you are now reaching into a woman's frame, even if ever so slightly. Once you start doing that, it can become a slippery slope where you no longer see Your time and Your life as more important than some dime a dozen broad who is nothing more than a feral cat, in most instances. Keep your frame, live your life, and give your precious time and thoughts to those that do not disrespect you.

[Haxton]

good post imo - thx!

Guys, very last pratical question on this one?

If you cut then simply the contact (which I also agree is by most the very best reaction imo), then you just stop texting or any other contact with them, or you also delete them from your friend`s list from social medias as Facebook... ?

[OregonToSoCal]

Why are you friending these online women on Facebook? Rule number 1: Never, repeat never friend anyone you're dating, banging, etc on social media. Do a search of the forum and you'll find lots of info about this.

[amusedmastery]

^^Yep.

[Vaun]

OPEN your front door, walk outside, meet women in real life

[barnbarn2k]

(08-01-2015 12:24 AM)Haxton Wrote:  

good post imo - thx!

Guys, very last pratical question on this one?

If you cut then simply the contact (which I also agree is by most the very best reaction imo), then you just stop texting or any other contact with them, or you also delete them from your friend`s list from social medias as Facebook... ?

Because of shows like Catfish they think its creepy if you do not have any social media or refuse to show one. Sometimes I can plow though that.
The type of woman that is impulsive enough to mess around with people on dating sites is not the type of woman you want creeping around your facebook pre or post lay.

If shes already apart of your friends facebook profiles then you cant really do much. If you block her she will know your butthurt and could cause drama same if u remove her from friends lists. so your best to just leave that be and work around it.

[Haxton]

@OregonToSoCal:

What?
I think you misunderstand this...
Im gaming in more directions:
clubgame, daygame and also onlinegame is apart of my 3 categories.
OG I start out at datingsites/tinder mostly -> then transfer as quick as possible to FB (important to start making more connection + check out if she is really so hot like her pics on the previous mentioned areas suggest) -> then build more first attraction via some Textgame (actually I have become pretty good at it in the last few years) -> phonecall -> set up date ->date -> game -> FC... and so on...

actually the total normal OG-procedre (totally standard) - wondering why you guys seem to have o clue bout this, cause at the first impression this communityseems strong to me.. its 2015 gentlemen, you have to adjust - i suggest now to you, make some readements on this topic

@Vaun:
as said, OG is only one game-area from my huntingfields - but its kinda effective when you do it right^^
Still it only makes <25% of my overall hunting... so take it easy man and dont forget its now Internet-age and no more 1995, but 2015
as said, peace out!

@barnbarn2k:
agree about all the dangers, but OG-wise its still mendatory that you carrythe contact from first datingsites or appslike tinder to a more common "natural" social network - and thats FB...
Dont love it but gotta adjust constantly and go with the flow....

and agree actually- likely as long as they dont annoy me and contact me anymore, its likely just better to leave them there as "dead" names^^