[ginatingles]

Ok guys, my first post here. So i've been daygaming recently using london daygame model (direct game - showing chicks that i want to fuck them).

I've collected some strong leads - girls that are happy to meet for day 2.

I live in eastern europe, and even though i have strong leads girls that are 7 and above are not that eager to come straight to my place. Not that big problem with 5s and 6s.

The thing is, i have poor, but not terrible logistics - that is i live 15 minutes from city center using public transportation.

Also, i don't own a car.

Some thoughts how to solve this:

1 - Use 0 day bang - create more comfort with texting, then invite chicks straight to my place - i think i might loose a lot of leads doing this

2 - Use 1st day bang - try to take them to my place after some drinks using public transport - i guess it might be problematic, because a lot of chicks work in the morning and might have problem with that, also there might be problem with not enough comfort

3 - Use 1st day bang - invite them near to my place - there is a nice pizzeria and a park, then bounce to my place. If they live in the opposite part of a city they might not agree

4 - Use 2nd day bang - create comfort during first meeting, kiss close, then try to invite them to my pad for the 2 date

5 - Daygaming near my place - not a lot of girls here in the streets, also i don't want to be seen as "that guy that want to fuck every girl", lack of anonymity and probly i will be staying in this place for a while

What do you guys think? I know that i can get laid if i wait 3 or 4 dates till she is a lot more comfortable with me and won't make any obligations, but for faster sex it's a problem.

[OregonToSoCal]

This is not the answer you want to hear but your best choice is to immediately come up with a plan on how you can relocate to the city center and get your logistics on lock. I had to do the same thing. I run a lot of online game where I meet for drink dates and then use bait to get them to come back to my place and the apartment I was living in previously was great in all ways but it was 10-15 mins by car to any bar or meeting place. That proved to be a sticking point for me so when my lease was up for renewal I moved to a brand new apartment community that is directly across the street from a large outdoor mall that has a number of bars, restaurants, coffee shops, etc.

Now that my logistics are perfect my conversions have skyrocketed and dates go so much more smoothly. But to answer your question if it were me I would follow a day two model where I initially approach the girl when I'm in the city and then for our first date (day 2) I would try and plan the date at a place close to my neighborhood or at least a place that's 5 minutes or so by public transport.

[Dantes]

(07-30-2015 12:02 PM)ginatingles Wrote:  

Ok guys, my first post here. So i've been daygaming recently using london daygame model (direct game - showing chicks that i want to fuck them).

I've collected some strong leads - girls that are happy to meet for day 2.

I live in eastern europe, and even though i have strong leads girls that are 7 and above are not that eager to come straight to my place. Not that big problem with 5s and 6s.

The thing is, i have poor, but not terrible logistics - that is i live 15 minutes from city center using public transportation.

Also, i don't own a car.

Some thoughts how to solve this:

1 - Use 0 day bang - create more comfort with texting, then invite chicks straight to my place - i think i might loose a lot of leads doing this

2 - Use 1st day bang - try to take them to my place after some drinks using public transport - i guess it might be problematic, because a lot of chicks work in the morning and might have problem with that, also there might be problem with not enough comfort

3 - Use 1st day bang - invite them near to my place - there is a nice pizzeria and a park, then bounce to my place. If they live in the opposite part of a city they might not agree

4 - Use 2nd day bang - create comfort during first meeting, kiss close, then try to invite them to my pad for the 2 date

5 - Daygaming near my place - not a lot of girls here in the streets, also i don't want to be seen as "that guy that want to fuck every girl", lack of anonymity and probly i will be staying in this place for a while

What do you guys think? I know that i can get laid if i wait 3 or 4 dates till she is a lot more comfortable with me and won't make any obligations, but for faster sex it's a problem.

1 is very unlikely to occur, especially with bad logistics

Why are you approaching 5s and 6s in Eastern Europe? This is like approaching 3s and 4s in the US.

How are your looks and style? Something is off if you are not able to hook 7s in Eastern Europe? Unless you are advanced like Krauser, pulling girls off the street right to your apartment in unlikely. Seems like you have a lot to work on besides the bad logistics. This isn't meant as a criticism. Keep approaching. Logistics are important but they aren't everything if your Game is off.

[ginatingles]

Of course i'm still a newbie, but my advanteges are that i'm still young (24 old) and i consider myself to not be a bad looking guy.

I didn't approach 5s and 6s on purpose, just met some girls on college parties and they were dtf so i didn't mind. It wasn't a big problem with them to come straight to my place.

This month i made at least 100 daygame approaches and i try to approach best looking girls. I feel that i made a progress - i get better responses and i have better vibe. Also now i'm getting numbers from 7s that want to date me, the thing is i don't know how to solve logistics problem.

[Gixxy]

Ok... Could we work on that capitalization, spelling and punctuation, please? Am I talking to a 5th grader? My eyes hurt....

That you're trying to bang on the first date at all with so many things working against you tells me that you're simply trying too hard. It's going to come across as desperate, and thirsty. I'm curious to know how you see being young as an advantage when you lack any experience in which to monopolize a perceived strength. At this point your age is nothing more than a variable.

It doesn't matter how many approaches you make, results matter. In my opinion, swinging often and missing is worse than swinging less and connecting more. Improve your weaknesses, improve your game. Focus your energy on saving money, getting a car / moving to where your logistics are better, and your opportunities will improve. There are some hard, fast rules to The Game that need to be learned before you'll have success, and it starts with improving yourself.

[DonnyGately]

Have to fix your logistics. It's that simple.

I give this advice to my friends who are moving to NYC. You can find 100 hot, single, DTF girls on most given nights in Manhattan/BK, but if you live in Jersey City/Hoboken or Queens, only 1% of them will go home with you.

[Just Approach]

Bro I feel your struggle in regards to Logistics. Because I don't have my own place I have had to bang girls in my car, their place, dorms, bathrooms, etc... It's hard and the girl really has to be DTF to do it.

A few months ago I cold approached a girl with her friend on the beach. After running game on her we ended up making out several times. She was DTF but I was running solo and had no wingman for her friend. To make matters worse my car was parked at Venice Beach because parking at Santa Monica Beach is very expensive hence why I skateboarded there. So there was no way they were going to walk 20 to 30 minutes to the neighboring beach so that I could fuck her in my car while her friend waits. And I didn't even bother getting her number because she was leaving to another state the following day.

Anyways in regards to your car situation have you tried Relay Rides to Rent a car to bring girls to your place or to meet up with them.
https://relayrides.com/

I myself haven't had the chance to use it since I have my own car and don't need to rent one at the moment.

You can try using uber to bring a girl back to your place as well.

But I was considering using AirBnB to fuck girls closer to the beach and hollywood. https://www.airbnb.com/

They all have mobile apps to make things quick and easy.

[Travesty]

(07-30-2015 12:20 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

... Large outdoor mall ...

Irvine Spectrum or Block of Orange troll?