[gds555]

Has anybody here ever had the experience of meeting a woman who's clearly interested in you, and you could easily get her number or even get laid by just escalating things a little, but your parents are right there, and it'd be completely obvious to them what you were up to if you went for the number, the f-close, or whatever? This could be a situation that happens to you any time from your teens to your fifties or sixties, although of course the way you'd handle it would vary depending on your age. And of course it would also vary depending on the kind of attitude to sexuality your parents have and the way they brought you up. How many of you would let the situation drop? How many of you would try to keep it going but be subtle about it? How many of you would try to keep it going and be totally open about it?

In a related question, is there anybody here who'd flat-out game a woman who wasn't showing any significant initial interest, within view and earshot of your parents?

[flashbang]

(06-05-2011 06:03 AM)gds555 Wrote:  

Has anybody here ever had the experience of meeting a woman who's clearly interested in you, and you could easily get her number or even get laid by just escalating things a little, but your parents are right there, and it'd be completely obvious to them what you were up to if you went for the number, the f-close, or whatever? This could be a situation that happens to you any time from your teens to your fifties or sixties, although of course the way you'd handle it would vary depending on your age. And of course it would also vary depending on the kind of attitude to sexuality your parents have and the way they brought you up. How many of you would let the situation drop? How many of you would try to keep it going but be subtle about it? How many of you would try to keep it going and be totally open about it?

In a related question, is there anybody here who'd flat-out game a woman who wasn't showing any significant initial interest, within view and earshot of your parents?

Whatever the answers to these questions, you wanna move out of home asap because when you're out of your comfort zone, you're forced to grow. Pussy is just one side effect of this long-term growth.

[Chad Daring]

"Hey [girls name] and I are gonna go see whats over here"

[Enfant_Terrible]

I remember a few months ago in an open-door mall here my dad and I were waiting for my mom who was shopping. We were just standing around and I saw a pretty Dutch woman by herself typing on a small laptop. I approached her and we ended up having a long conversation, it probably lasted 20 or so minutes. My dad ended up sitting at the cafe in front of us and observed the whole interaction from a distance. My mom eventually joined him at his table and joined my dad in observing me and the lady.

I tried getting the lady's number but she was married. Still glad that I approached her and always pleased to meet women who're open to interaction even if they're attached. She could've easily ignored me or gave short, indifferent answers and continued typing but she had the decency to fully acknowledge another human being.

After talking to the lady, I joined my parents at their table. My parents asked who that was. I just said I just met her and we had a conversation. They were curious what's next between me and her, told them she was married. They made comments at how tall and pretty she was.

My dad was probably proud I did that. A confirmation that he produced a man.

Point is, don't be ashamed. If your parents have an issue and actually shamed you for it (and I suspect it's usually cultural or religious reasons), I suggest moving out. Also, analyze your cultural/religious upbringing and question its attitude toward sex, even if it's favorable. Finally, I don't care what culture you came from, move out if you want to fulfill your sexual destiny.

[SFTD]

(06-05-2011 12:47 PM)Enfant_Terrible Wrote:  

I remember a few months ago in an open-door mall here my dad and I were waiting for my mom who was shopping. We were just standing around and I saw a pretty Dutch woman by herself typing on a small laptop. I approached her and we ended up having a long conversation, it probably lasted 20 or so minutes. My dad ended up sitting at the cafe in front of us and observed the whole interaction from a distance. My mom eventually joined him at his table and joined my dad in observing me and the lady.

I tried getting the lady's number but she was married. Still glad that I approached her and always pleased to meet women who're open to interaction even if they're attached. She could've easily ignored me or gave short, indifferent answers and continued typing but she had the decency to fully acknowledge another human being.

After talking to the lady, I joined my parents at their table. My parents asked who that was. I just said I just met her and we had a conversation. They were curious what's next between me and her, told them she was married. They made comments at how tall and pretty she was.

My dad was probably proud I did that. A confirmation that he produced a man.

Point is, don't be ashamed. If your parents have an issue and actually shamed you for it (and I suspect it's usually cultural or religious reasons), I suggest moving out. Also, analyze your cultural/religious upbringing and question its attitude toward sex, even if it's favorable. Finally, I don't care what culture you came from, move out if you want to fulfill your sexual destiny.

This.

I used to be afraid to do pretty much any social interaction in front of my parents. Now, I'd be happy to show off my learned black magic. It shows maturity and control to be able to approach, a lot of guys forget that.

[wi30]

It definitely depends on your relationship with your parents. My dad would probably call me a pussy if I didn't say anything.

[Gmac]

(06-05-2011 06:03 AM)gds555 Wrote:  

Has anybody here ever had the experience of meeting a woman who's clearly interested in you, and you could easily get her number or even get laid by just escalating things a little, but your parents are right there, and it'd be completely obvious to them what you were up to if you went for the number, the f-close, or whatever? This could be a situation that happens to you any time from your teens to your fifties or sixties, although of course the way you'd handle it would vary depending on your age. And of course it would also vary depending on the kind of attitude to sexuality your parents have and the way they brought you up. How many of you would let the situation drop? How many of you would try to keep it going but be subtle about it? How many of you would try to keep it going and be totally open about it?

In a related question, is there anybody here who'd flat-out game a woman who wasn't showing any significant initial interest, within view and earshot of your parents?

My dad is basically my wing man so I don't really have any problems here. I had a girl open me and she ended up taking me home a while back. My only problem was forgetting the fact that he IS still my dad and I pissed him off by leaving him there when we had originally come out together. In hindsight, it would have been better to get her number and return after we'd parted ways.

[Amour Fou]

Its funny how my parents started to enjoy and actually "support" my recent player ways. Even though my parents are difficult people (and gladly divorced, meaning I have more places to bounce girls to), I can be very open with them about bringing girls over etc and even talk a bit about my dating life.

I guess that having an open relationship with your parents help, especially if they start to understand that being a player is actually a good thing for you. They can be trained to be like that, as you learn to be happily unapologetic about your needs and desires, and be open and straighforward with them.

Accepting your lifestyle is the first step in making others, including parents, to accept it as well.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

No way I would approach a man in front of any of my parents.
But, I'm a girl raised by traditional (and sometimes bored to death) statements.

[Amour Fou]

(06-05-2011 08:24 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

No way I would approach a man in front of any of my parents.
But, I'm a girl raised by traditional (and sometimes bored to death) statements.

Sucks to be a girl, haha!

[gds555]

flashbang and Enfant_Terrible: Just to clarify, I don't live with my parents. But even when you have your own place, situations can come up where you're with your parents in some setting or other, a woman is there, and you have to decide whether to game or not to game.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

(06-05-2011 08:29 PM)Amour Fou Wrote:  

(06-05-2011 08:24 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

No way I would approach a man in front of any of my parents.
But, I'm a girl raised by traditional (and sometimes bored to death) statements.

Sucks to be a girl, haha!

Tell me about it! I wouldn't approach, but a wink, maybe? lol